Boyfriend won’t apologize for hurting my feelings..?

It's not that hard to lose weight, it's just a process which takes time. Ask me, i know.

And you're just like everyone else who is feeling overweight and who would like to lose weight -- you're sensitive about it. It's understandable.

People apologize when they feel they have a reason to apologize. Demanding an apology is a bit weird. His comment about the lady getting the gastric bypass was NOT about you, it was about that lady on the video. And it's his opinion about her, not about you.

I understand gastric bypasses and lap bands do help a lot of people out there. I also understand that many people who are grossly overweight are that way because of emotional issues and binge-eating because of their issues. A person who has never been through this doesn't understand, and never will. Your boyfriend apparently has not and doesn't get it. You can't force him to understand.

I'm sure he heard how you felt, he just doesn't feel the same way. Not everyone does feel the same way about things.

If you aren't riding your bike ten miles, but he he does, oh well. I don't see why it has to be a huge issue. If you continue to ride your bicycle if you want to, then eventually, you'll do it.

Those surgeries are major operations by the way, and there are risks. I have empathy for anyone who is struggling with a weight problem, because i was there at one point in my life. It took a good while for me to lose the weight. Through it all i felt a lot better with every passing week. I eat whole, healthy foods, no processed foods, sugars or grains. it's unbelievable how much better i feel today.

So take it from me, your boyfriend wasn't insulting YOU. He was expressing an opinion about someone else all together.

If you feel like completeShit, it's because of your own thought process. do what you want to do for YOU. Don't do it for someone else. And if you are uncomfortable with the boyfriend, why are you with him at all?

Look at him and ask him in earnest and ask him, "You saw Rhee?"

He'll say, "What?"

Then you repeat yourself looking really curious and intentful, "You saw RHEE?"

Whatever he says, just keep repeating the question until he repeats back to you, "I saw Rhee?!"

Then you suddenly flash a big gracious smile and say, "Awww. Well, thank you. I accept your apology."