Why does no one support me with my abusive child’s father??!?

I have been in your shoes...you must finally realize that what others think of you does not matter, you must be strong and believe in yourself. This is a situation that you must get out of if you are to survive and live a happy life. Listen to your friends and your counselor, take refuge in a domestic shelter if need be or just move out. If you stay, you will die ....inside. Good luck to you

I bet most of those who'd be willing to support you ask only that you leave this guy. If you're staying in a bad situation it's a little difficult to have much sympathy.

Pray to GOD for Help!

Investigate. Could it be your dad is forcing your mom to take his side only?

Hate is corrosive. You and your child will be better off if you don't indulge it.

You might be able to obtain a protective order from your local court to keep your baby daddy from abusing you. However, if you rely on him for monetary support or shelter, getting those things from him without him being present in your life will probably require a longer and more-involved legal process that he will be more-likely to contest. You could consider what other person in your life might offer you and your child room and board while the legal process plays out.

Hating people or wanting to "get even" just complicates your life and frustrates you. Maybe your counselor can help you move past that.