Why cant any of my guy friends get the memo?

One day in the future we'll all wake up and realize how silly we were to let stupid politics damage our social lives. If you don't want to date this guy just don't date this guy. But excluding people from your social groups over which political party they support is just dumb. National politics have very little influence on most people's lives and it's really your state and municipal officials who are most responsible for your daily circumstances.

i would just stay away from him and if he was being abusive just tell the police about it

The teenage brain is still growing, especially the frontal lobe. Maybe once it gets fully formed you can leave this childishness behind you.

It is obviously all Trumps fault that our grandparents are immigrants....his were too by the way....so is his wife...but what do you know anyway, if it feels good to blame the President then go ahead......remain aggressively passive in your head. Your friends cannot read the memo because anyone that would hang out with you would need to be very ignorant on all things in life......especially finding the answer hidden in my ramblings.

Sounds to me that you need to be less senstive about things political and get a better group of friends. Seems you have no friends there if they did not help you stand up to the games this jerk was playing.

Broaden your circle. You may find you are happier elsewhere, with others.