Nellia

I have a guy friend who, after I told him I wasn’t interested, decided that since I let him hold my hand a couple of times (I didn’t see the problem, I let my female friends hold my hand all the time) , that we were dating. I don’t know what to do because he was driving me home and we stayed a little later to talk to a couple of friends at a little get together. He decided it would be okay to grab me by the waist and start kissing my neck so he could show out to his friends. I really don’t know what to do.

My mother is Colombian and Jamaican and my biological father is Italian an German. My skin, unlike my white siblings, is caramel colored. It would feel wrong to claim white considering the amount of racial slurs he likes to call me but also I’m not very Hispanic and my skin is not dark enough to be considered black. Maybe I could say carribean considering my grandmas jamaican and my grandfather was born in Colombia which is technically in the carribean.

Our friend group is divided because on of my friends thinks (even tho I said no) that because I let him hold my hand we’re dating now. Previously another of our friends, we argued all the time he was a trump supporter or so I thought until another friend told me he only said those things to make me mad (my grandparents are Caribbean immigrants), he asked me out and of course I said no. He tried to push me out of our friend group and did some passive aggressive things.

I had this friend that’s been driving me to school, he asked me out during the summer and I said no, so far it was good until today. He was holding my hand in the car which I don’t mind, me and my other female friends do it all the time, but today while waiting to leave he was with his friends and I joined them because he said he’d drive me home after, and he came up to me and started kissing my neck. I was very obviously uncomfortable but that didn’t stop him and I didn’t wanna say anything because we were with his friends and I really needed that ride (my house is a couple of miles away). The entire time I was just slightly etching myself away from him. Our friend group has had this problem before and he knows it. Should I start walking home? Bus is not an option, I only have one class.

There’s this boy who asked me out and I told I wasn’t interested. He offers me car rides to and from school and I don’t say no because I need them.

Fathers not in the picture and mother asked me not to take hers because hen people will know we’re related. I don’t plan on speaking to my family afterwards but I would like one with the same cultural roots as my first one

I’m 17 about to get out of high school and move to Cali. Should I go to college for it? Or should I just jump in?

Probably gonna be a stay at home mom by 27, need majors that pay the bills til I get married. Any ideas?

Okay so I’m about to go off to college and haven’t decided a major yet (was gonna be engineering but I’m failing physics hardcore). The only thing I know for sure is that I want kids and a perfect home but being a stay at home mom wouldn’t pay the bills if I’m single. I can’t stay with family because we’ll be estranged. What are some good paying, low work majors if i suck at math? Acting was an option but I sincerely hate the spotlight.

I want to double major in theatre and Engineering but the school I want to go to is a liberal arts school. How would I be able to do that?

I am severely interested in the arts such as theatre but I want to change the world and also don’t want to be broke as an adult so I also like engineering and/or activism and politics.

Previously, I think deep down inside I didn’t quite believe that god wasn’t real but maybe I did stop believing. I was just angry at how hateful the Christian culture has become with some of their anti-gay rallies. My Christian father being a homophobic racist misogynist. The reason for my choosing between the two is that Quakers are much more peaceful and accepting but I feel as though the Hellenic polytheists were being more realistic in the way that they made some of their God’s corrupt individuals just like in real life.

Just curious. I prefer an exotic, mysterious looking manly man like Jason Momoa.

have absolutely any dating questions for women? I got you

I’m in okay shape but I have a little tummy that I want to get rid of before I get to school, I’m also trying to gain more lower body muscle (I’m a girl). Will bulking help me to get rid of it by gaining muscle or should I cut to get rid of it before I bulk?

I like to buy clothes that make me feel good and I definitely think this could be one of those purchases but their are a lot of pervy men around here and if something happens to me I don’t want it to be blamed on what I was wearing under my clothes.

Long story short I accidentally cut my hair too short and I don’t want to be seen until it is long and beautiful again so I just won’t plan on leaving my house until I am ready.