My husband is so boring, he NEVER makes or even talks about a vacation...?

You are obsessed with a computer and your unhappy marriage.

My advice? Replace both.

So you married this man and then he changed?

I've met a lot of married women who get together and go on holidays with each other. Not gay women.. just women who want more adventure than their spouses do. Or different ones.

Ok so in your question, I got 5 facts about your marriage:

1) You want to go on vacations. Your husband does not particularly want to, but he is more than willing to go wherever you want to go. All he asks is that you tell him where you want to go.

2) You are stubborn, and you are not satisfied with this. It's not enough that he be willing to do what you want to do. You expect him to enjoy it as much as you do, even if it's not his cup of tea.

3) You don't respect your husband and talk badly about him.

4) You are using this retarded excuse, to cheat on him with men from the dog park.

5) You can go on the vacation with him, he's given you permission, but you refuse to book things yourself or plan things yourself.

6) The problem is you. If you aren't giving your husband sex then you are automatically wrong. Sorry you can disagree if you want but psychiatrists and psychologists all 100% of the time agree with me and anonymous here

What would I do in your situation? I would do what I did with my husband. I planned a vacation to Puerto Rico, and we did a ton of amazing stuff, including hiking the rainforest, scuba diving, doing night-time kayaking through a beautiful thin river to see glow-in-the-dark fish, doing a lot of fun nightlife stuff, relaxing on the beach, doing jet-skiing, among other things. I planned the entire itinerary, travel plans, etc and he paid for it.

You seem lazy and indecisive, like you don't want to bother making decisions (or you are mentally incapable of making such decisions) and you are too lazy or too stubborn to then plan said vacation, and go on it with him.

He has already given you permission for the vacation, lady! What more do you want or need from him? Plan it, schedule everything, and tell him you are planning it... he will say "Ok"... and then tell him you are booking the flight for him and buying the tickets with his CC. He will say "Ok babe", then do it, pay for it and book the flight. MAKE THE DECISION, JUST DO IT.

Your problem is not your husband, your problem is yourself, you are expecting him to do all of the planning and official committing, when in reality since you are the one who wants to travel so damn badly, you should do that.

Me and my husband have been to Puerto Rico, Hawaii, Cayman Islands, Mexico, Florida, and Europe (in Mexico we went primarily to cave dive (scuba dive inside caves with special equipment) and do a lot of other fun stuff). I ALWAYS PLAN ALL THE TRIPS.

Learn to book the trips and be a woman, women are supposed to be the meticulous planners. Its in womens DNA to do the boring stuff and plan it

How long have you been married? Don't look outside your marriage for men, get a divorce FIRST.

Either plan something and bring him with you, or plan a trip without him and enjoy your "me time." Simple.

I am curious to know about the sex?

You have a very sad life.