How do I break it to her?

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So how do I tell a girl that I've been talking to for awhile now that I don't really want to talk to or see her anymore? I really like her, and I wouldnt do anything for her, but I'd go out of my way to do a lot for her, and it just doesnt seem like the feelings are mutual, I know she likes me because she greets me with texts in the morning and says goodnight and stuff, but I also feel like something's telling me not to try to get with her or go any further with her, and she wants to hangout again soon, but I dont know what to do, listen to my gut feeling and not bother with her, what do I do? Just ghost her? Straight up tell her "I'm good"? Its a strange situation, it will be painful to just drop her like this, I know that, but something's just telling me to stop pursuing her.

choko_canyon · Answer

Follow your instincts. They're right far more often than they're wrong, generally.

Anonymous · Answer

She is just using you for validation, chances are she has some baggage like an ex in the picture who she can't let go of and it's rubbing off on the way she treats you. Whatever you do just be friendly, if she asks you out then say sure but tell her to organise it, the chaces are she will flake and come up with all sorts of excuses at first, but as soon as she sees you won't be validating her any more watch how the game changes and you have complete power. Right now she ahs all the power and is playing stupid games

Anonymous · Answer

just run away while you can

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How do I break it to her?

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