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Why does my boyfriend dislike the idea of me wearing his initial on a necklace?
I wanted to surprise my boyfriend by ordering a dainty heart necklace with his initial in the middle. It’s small, and you’d have to be somewhat close to notice it. I wanted to let people know I am not single and kind of show him off at the same time. He sometimes gets sad when other guys hit on me and I want him to know how special he is to me. I showed him this picture of the necklace I was wanting to get and he didn’t like the idea of me doing this and said it was weird. How do I respond to this or how should I feel? It isn’t super flashy and it isn’t his whole name or anything. Just a reminder of our relationship that I’d love to have. Thank you for your help and advice in advance!!
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- Anonymous1 year agoFavorite Answer
you’re so kind in all of your replies for one! and for two I think that some people really just aren’t into that or maybe he was wanting to buy you it, some partners like to buy their significant others jewelry so maybe that could be it? regardless, tell him how you feel be very open and if I were you i’d say everything you put on your question to him so he knows exactly how you feel
- ?Lv 71 year ago
I think it's weird, too. Especially since you're young and you're going to have many other boyfriends in the future. Do you have some idea you and this guy are going to get married? Think again
- Anonymous1 year ago
This necklace won’t say “hey I’m taken!” They’ll probably think it’s YOUR initials.... if you really want to be left alone, speak up or wear a fake ring.
- ?Lv 71 year ago
It isn't weird but a sweet gesture. I asked my husband and he said he must not want others to know you two are together or he is thinking of breaking up with you but has not found the courage yet. Regardless, it is not a good sign.
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- Anonymous1 year ago
Some partners just aren't into that. I'm not into it and if my partner wore my initial I'd just feel they were needy. I think it could stem from the way I was brought up with no hugs or affectionate words spoken, but I was loved.
Maybe I should have said clingy instead of needy. Anyway, not sure why he thinks that way. You could ask him why he thinks it's creepy.