haley

Hi everyone. I’ve been dating this guy for about a month and we have had sex ten or so times. He has never finished after up to 30 minutes of sex, and multiple times we have had to stop so he can try to get hard again (usually by making out, grinding, or especially if I give him oral.) yet sometimes immediately after he gets soft once we actually have sex. He will even try giving himself a hand Job. Should I be concerned? I don’t want to hurt his feelings. It makes me insecure. I’ve always been told that I’m amazing at sex and the last sexual partner I had would only last a few minutes. I’ve tried making excuses but he doesn’t drink, do drugs, and he is healthy. He doesn’t over masturbate either so I am unsure...

Last weekend my boyfriends roommate was having a party at his apartment. There was no guest parking and he could not pick me up from down the street because he had been drinking, so I decided to order an Uber after I parked my car in a nearby parking lot. It was cold and around midnight, so I asked if I could swing by in my own car and pick him up before I got the Uber so I didn’t have to go alone. He responded saying “if you really want me to I guess.” It made me upset but I didn’t say anything. I have PTSD from an abusive past relationship and sometimes get nervous around strangers. I want to bring it up without causing an argument because safety is important to me and I believe it should be to him to since we are dating. The Uber ride would have been a 2 minute drive.

I wanted to surprise my boyfriend by ordering a dainty heart necklace with his initial in the middle. It’s small, and you’d have to be somewhat close to notice it. I wanted to let people know I am not single and kind of show him off at the same time. He sometimes gets sad when other guys hit on me and I want him to know how special he is to me. I showed him this picture of the necklace I was wanting to get and he didn’t like the idea of me doing this and said it was weird. How do I respond to this or how should I feel? It isn’t super flashy and it isn’t his whole name or anything. Just a reminder of our relationship that I’d love to have. Thank you for your help and advice in advance!!