Where will you spend eternity? How did you choose?

I chose by listening to God's instructions and following them.

Where anyone will spend eternity is God's choice.

in non existence it was chosen for me by reality. 

Who, me or Creator?   Who has control?

I was invited,  accepted. 

Nowhere. The universe, the whole thing, is destined to end in a few billion years. So there is no eternity in this universe; it and everything in it will end one day.

Not existing anymore.

There is no choice ..............

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I will spend eternity in the same place I was before I was born.

I didn't choose this. Wishful thinking never made anything a reality. Natural law chose for me.

Ultimately, it's not our choice.  I do my best to lead a Christian life, I repent of my sins, and I put my trust in God.

I don't get to choose my eternity home, I can only pray to God, I can ask God to give me a blissful Home and many Palaces in Paradise, I can seek sincere repentance from God regularly,  I can strive for God, dedicate to God, be hopeful in His Mercy and His Forgiveness for Judgement Day, Resurrection Day.  Its His Mercy that helps grant a good afterlife. 

i really dont worry about it but trust God .. when it comes to God the priority 'should' be thinking about Gods will .. not what kind of goodies your getting ..