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He cuddled but now is MIA?
Yesterday this guy asked me to chill with him and watch a movie. He came over we watched a movie and cuddled and he stayed over for a few hours and talked etc. I leaned in for a kiss but he didn’t reciprocate but maybe he wanted to take things slow or was nervous.
Today I messaged him saying I had a good time would you want to hang out again and he hasn’t responded but has been active on social media.
My question is what does this mean and why? Lol
2 Answers
- Anonymous1 year ago
The problem is that girls thing guys cuddle and kiss because they like the GIRL. They do this because they are horny and she is a live warm female body who allows them to do this.
Stop trying to read his mind. You cannot tell if he didn't reciprocate because he wanted to take things slow (NOT a thing guys do), or was nervous, or didn't like YOU as a potential gf, or was more interested in another girl than you, or already has a gf, or is thinking he MIGHT be gay and was just testing it out, or ....
you cannot read his mind.
When a man is seriously attracted to a girl, HE makes the moves and HE pursues her. The lack of pursuit means he is not very attracted to you, and is not bothered by the possibility that some other guy might want you and steal your heart away.
He hasn't responded. That IS your answer .. he's just not all that interested in you. "WHY", we do not know .. you ask HIM why, if you want to know why. But you don't need to know 'why' .. all you really need to know is that his behavior is NOT that of a man who is seriously attracted to a particular female.
BTW, he is not engaged to be married to you, so until then he IS allowed to be MIA, and you need to be whole enough and have enough of a life that it doesn't bother you.
And maybe that IS why he is not interested in you. Men don't like women who are needy.