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What should I do with my boyfriend who doesnt help financially or in the house and smokes weed?
I have been living with my boyfriend for one year. When he moved in with me, he broke his hand and I was happy to help him while he couldn't work but it has been more than a year after he recovered...he still does not help me with rent even though I asked him and he sees I struggle. He works part time while I work full time but Im the one cleaning cooking and even doing laundry, we take the same college classes and he wants to withdraw...on top of everything he spends the little money he makes on weed.. im overwhelmed but Im still not ready to leave him, is hard...is there anything I can do before I dump him?
6 Answers
- ?Lv 61 year ago
He got used of taking advantage of you, give him an ultimatum, if he wants to stay in part time work he needs to contribute some other way, clean, cook, do laundry, something.
- Anonymous1 year ago
No, there is not anything that I can think of that you can do before you dump him. You said he doesn't help with the rent. That said, you can afford to live on your own and live a more satisfying life.
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- GypsyfishLv 71 year ago
This is really quite a simple situation. I have no idea why women put up with men like this. Are you that desperate just to be able to say you have a boyfriend? Move out-- or move him out. MAYBE it will wake him up, he'll get a job and try to show you that he can be more responsible, but I doubt it. Many men go from having their mothers take care of them to expecting another woman to take care of them all their lives.
- mokrieLv 71 year ago
Sorry, but you need to think about the guy of your dreams that would put your comfort first that you will never meet because your determined to stay with a deadbeat.
