Penelope

This has to do with my mother in law, most of the time she will just say goodnight son or bye son to my boyfriend when she knows I am there too. I dont know if she does this on purpose but makes me feel like am being ignored, but Idk because other times I say hi to her and she replies normally but I do know she may not like me because she has argued with her son about me when she was drunk...??

So my boyfriend had some health issues and he said he wanted to move to California where his mom lives, I wasnt happy with the idea but I love him and I found a job so I moved but I really miss my old life I feel that I was free now Im not, she (mother in law) gets too involved in my things and I feel I cant even eat what I want she makes unhealthy food and I eat it just because I dont want to be rude I also feel I cant use the kitchen because she is all on top of me trying to tell me what to do...idk I dont feel happy about this situation, but I hope is not for too long in the meantime what can I do to make it better? 

for the past few weeks I struggled with my boyfriend having symptoms of schizophrenia, specially hearing voices, i had to call emergency. He was admitted to a psychiatric institute where they gave him medicine. He is now better. I love him so much but my friends advise me that I should not be with a person like this, that there is not future. He is now even back to school with me, he is still a smart guy, he wants to have kids with me I dont see guy he cant have a normal life but I want opinions if anyone has gone through this

My boyfriend all of a sudden started hearing voices and talking to this voices and doing things like walking in a forest at night, hitting things probably to fight this voices. I love him so much and it hurt me to see him like this and one day I called emergency because I was afraid he would hurt himself so now he was admitted to a psychiatric hospital where I hope he gets better but he has refused medication, he keeps calling me saying that I am in danger that I need to leave the apartment, he also thinks someone put microchips on his head. I am nervous and became paranoid too but I know whay he says its hard to believe. But I want to know if somebody went through this and if he will be himself again, Im so sad and it has been stressful because he didnt sleep and I couldnt sleep either

Has this happened to you? this has made really sad these days because I love my boyfriend and I DONT think a relationship like that would work for me because I wont be happy, my self esteem is broken and I am already suffering after he told me he would like to have sex with other girls but don't want to lose me...I just cant, I told him he would have to choose me or the fun...but I would like to see what you would do? different points of view. Thanks

First, Im not rich. Im struggling myself to pay bills and going to school and stuff...but Im the US and my family is in Colombia....I do send my mom money monthly...but then one of my uncles who never ever spoke to me or cared about me suddenly started talking to me, cause he needed money, or at least thats how I feel. I did help him but I dont want him to start just relying on me because I have enough bills and being in the US doesnt mean Im rich. How do I tell him that without being rude, what should I do. He keeps talking to me but I just feel is because he needs my money cause he brings up all these stories..thanks for the advice

Unfortunately for fathers day my dad won't be here since he passed away :(. One of my uncles has been talking to me recently but Idk if it was just because he needed money because he never talked to me before but I still helped him out...however I noticed he had been talking to me more, asking for money again...the last time was because he wanted to invite his wife to eat on mothers day and I sent him....but now he is like talking about fathers day saying he hopes to get some gifts...and I'm like is he asking me?? 

Im still trying to get used to wear a mask since I just had to go back to work and I was ok these days but when summer comes I know its gonna be hard, it will be way too hot to breathe on a mask...i felt it on friday. I work in a daycare...nobody seems to bother about wearing a mask or they wear it in their chin,I know its hard but I dont want to be the person to spread it..since you can have it even with no symptons...what can I do is there a material to keep you cool and at the same time block the droplets??? Idk

I had to go back to work. I work in a daycare and they opened for essential families which are not that many but I am trying to take all the precautions like wearing a mask, washing my hands...but everybody else dont wear masks or wear it in their chins and they dont even keep the distance...so I wonder what's the point if Im the only one...we should assume that anybody can have COVID 19 and not know...so I also do it to protect others but Idk if Im really protecting myself by wearing a mask while nobody is wearing it and they order food and everybody goes to the kitchen and probably breathe on the food??? 

My job recently opened. I am going but want to take all the precautions during CoVid but nobody is really wearing the mask, they wear it under the chin...but I tried my best and it was hard I got a headache felt nauseous from breathing on my mask all day...what should I do, will I eventually get used to it???

I have been living with my boyfriend for one year. When he moved in with me, he broke his hand and I was happy to help him while he couldn't work but it has been more than a year after he recovered...he still does not help me with rent even though I asked him and he sees I struggle. He works part time while I work full time but Im the one cleaning cooking and even doing laundry, we take the same college classes and he wants to withdraw...on top of everything he spends the little money he makes on weed.. im overwhelmed but Im still not ready to leave him, is hard...is there anything I can do before I dump him?

When I met my boyfriend he used to smoke weed and I told him I wouldnt accept that and he stopped. We are living together and I pay most of the bills. He just have a part time job, he doesnt make much money and he started smoking again, and it really bothers me, am I right is it really bad? Ignoring that he is not helping that much. Is this a really bad thing to do? What should I do?

I ask this because I had moved but decided to change my address in usps only I got my mail forwarded and it was fine I got my interview appointment and it was approved to be scheduled for a ceremony. I didn t want to delay the process by changing the address but then I never got my ceremony appointment and I missed it. They said they will reeschedule but it s taking a while. Should I just change my address? I also dont know how long I will be here and I can still get mail at the old address (is in the same city and area)

I had been meeting a guy, he has a lot qualities I like but Im not sure if I really want to be him as more than friends but I have been trying almost like forcing myself to like him (maybe as a way to get over a past hurtful relationship). I feel that I miss him but when I see him I feel that maybe not. He doesnt take good care of himself . I had to beg him to get a haircut. But even like that I made the mistake of taking things to the next level to try, but sex was horrible, I saw his belly sagging, it turned me off, and I was just not into it, his dick was ok not that big but I just did not like it, I lied there hoping that he finished and felt gross. Why am I doing this? I still dont want to stop talking to him and he seems to be really into me.

Well...I started to go out with this guy that at first I was interested in but got dissapointed. On the first date he came sweaty from the gym, other times he flosses his teeth while we are eating. His hair he really needs a haircut he looks like a homeless. Im not shallow I just feel he would be better...what do you think

This is my story: my ex had ghosted me, well he said he needed some "time" then he didn't talk to me anymore. I realized on fb that he was with another woman, he looked very happy in the pictures. I was so heartbroken and became really depressed but I slowly started to forget about it. But then he decided to appear again, he begged me to come back that he wanted to come live with me. I told him no but he would call me again. I still loved him so I decided to give him that last chance just to realize he was still talking to that woman telling her he loved her so why did he want to come here so bad?

With my exboyfriend I didn't post any pictures because I wanted to be sure of our relationship He didnt post any pictures of us either. But then he ended up leaving me for another woman, this woman started posting pictures like crazy. Then I said maybe I should have posted pictures?