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Husband watches porn and masterbates... Regularly!?
I just delivered our baby and so I'm usually tired or feeding her by the time we lie down. Also, she wakes up really early and then my husband has to get ready for work and leave. He doesn't return till evening. So, while I tend to our baby, he watches porn and masterbates. Also, he's delaying buying condoms. And the last few times we did it, he pulled back just as he was about to get high and then masterbated later. I'm not sure what to do. It was our first anniversary today and both of us were each other's firsts. He wants to really enjoy it (so he says) but I think he can't because he's either being cruel to me, or to himself (by watching porn since porn creates unrealistic desires). What should I do to stop him from watching porn?
People, I DIDN'T care about it till he started wanting porn and masterbation more than the real thing. It's affecting MY sex life! His body has become immune to my touch.
5 Answers
- ?Lv 61 year agoFavorite Answer
Ummmmm...he wants to have sex regularly. He should have a choice about who to have sex with...his wife, or himself. But while you are tending to the baby...
OK, well there is not much you can do. If you don't want him to watch porn and masturbate, you need to give him a better option. But if you are busy caring for the baby, you can't do that.
How do you stop him? You don't, and it would be cruel to even try. He's settling for second best already. Don't make him go without completely.
- ?Lv 71 year ago
He isn't being "cruel" to you by watching porn. In fact, he's being kind.
Would you prefer he go out and cheat?
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- a Guy bein a GuyLv 71 year ago
Just delivered? What is that in weeks?
Because if its 6 weeks or less he is doing what he's supposed to be doing.
Not pulling stitches or going out and finding another warm body.
Give it a rest for a while. You major changes are over with the delivery.
His major changes are just starting.
