I hate my mom?

The majority of children want to be with their parents All The Time, until about the age of 7.

Sounds like your mom is tired of you complaining about how much she doesn't help you.

Can you hire someone, a 10 or 12 year old, to keep your 4 year old entertained while you are at home watching a movie or on your computer?

They often will work for less money than an older teen, and will sometimes be willing to swap watching your child in return for playing a game on your computer.

I am sorry. But at 29 you should really have your own place. You should be cleaning if you are 29 and still living with your mom. You should be grateful she doesn't kick you out.

Oh you poor thing, leave home, with your child and support yourself, you big baby.

You may have to be the strong one in the family. Think of yourself that way.

maybe you should move out if you hate her that much

YOUR kid. YOUR problem. Deal with it. It is`nt your mother`s responsibility. She already had to put up with you. Now it`s YOUR turn.

It’s not her daughter. It’s your daughter. 

You are an irresponsible parent.