How often is an acceptable amount of times to pee myself, so I don't have to stop gaming.?

Do what race car drivers and poker players do....wear a diaper.

There is no acceptable amount of time.  When you bladder needs to empty itself, it will let you know.  Ultimately, you decide if you want to soil yourself or continue to game.

i wouldnt do that, thats gross, just tell her you dont want to game anymore

You stopped gaming long enough to post this rubbish.