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Advice and support please?
Sooo. Me and a ex of 3 years broke up. And there was a lot wrong with the relationship it was just becoming toxic and neither one of us was happy anymore. I for some reason when we drank. I would contact my ex just to upset him. Well he became a huge issue. It was starting to become a every time I drink kinda thing. Anyways he dumped me left for the LAST time and he knew what he was doing. He knew if he left it would be the very last time. So knowing this he still left me.. I drank and hit up my ex. Only this time my ex came to see me. We didn’t have sex. Kiss. Nothing. But in a way I still feel like I cheated and I feel guilt. I know it was stupid. But I was hurt. And he dumped me. I haven’t talked to either one and that’s how it will stay. I need some advice. I’m depressed as it is. Feel like my half is missing. But guilt on top? Some advice please.... thank you
3 Answers
- ?Lv 712 months agoFavorite Answer
Your ex was right to leave you under the circumstances, and I'm sure you realize that. Clearly neither of you were happy or right for each other, and breaking up was the right decision. It's painful, and I'm sure right now you're lonely, but you're in the best position. You are now free to meet the right person for you who makes you happy. In the meantime, focus on yourself. Grieve this relationship. Take care of yourself - eat well, exercise, cut down on drinking. Work on self improvement and the rest will follow.
- ?Lv 712 months ago
the entire problem is that you become a complete moron when you drink. Think about it, and consider cutting yourself off after one or two drinks from now on.
If you're feeling guilt, you are, but guilt is ridiculous. It's for criminals, and you're not one.
We all do stupid things in life. It's part of human nature. so i would think that the right thing to do is to work at not repeating this behavior.
the behavior didn't work the first time, it won't work in the future. Common sense.
- Anonymous12 months ago
Advice. Stop drinking and leave your ex alone.
Support. This isn't a support group. You made you choices and now you live with them. You'll either learn from this and do better in the future or you won't. Up to you.
