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I have a Marriage question ?

So you’re leaving for work you walk over to your wife and she sitting down with her back turned She Hears you you go to hug her and she says Why didn’t you ask first why didn’t you ask first  Especially since I wasn’t looking at you. 

Should husbands have to ask for a hug

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  • 9 months ago
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    maybe nothing else than you just scared her.  im sure if you came around to the front of her first there would have been no problem. but if you didnt talk it out right there and then, thats on you.  no assumptions, they never work.  no guessing either, same thing.  communication is the key, never stop communicating.  use your words always.  or assume it will be over and you can guess it will be soon enough. getting along is 80% up to each person.  that leaves lots of overlapping as a couple and some left over as individuals. 

  • 9 months ago

    Of course not...

  • 9 months ago

    I think there's a problem somewhere, maybe in her childhood. Talk to her about it, but no reproaches to help. Love will cover everything.

  • KTJoe
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    Men have such poor timing, anyway wife could've had gas, body odor or bad breath, just overall not feeling well and you surprised her. No asking for hug just be more conscious of wife's moods instead of jumping out, move slowly.  Smell wild onions.

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  • 9 months ago

    I like when my husband does that. I like when he randomly touches my *** or my front area. I like when he comes behind me and starts humping me. Shows that he still finds me attractive and wants to fu... Something is up with her. Only way to find out is to ask her. I mean haven't you ever done that before? If so, what's changed.

  • 9 months ago

    That is going too far, asking for a hug? from a wife? It should be daily, infact:

    “We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth.” – Virginia Satir

    Hugs require a lot of bravery for the person who initiates, but they communicate vulnerability, trust, and softness that the recipient often responds to.

    And boy does it ever take vulnerability to try to initiate a hug. It is you putting yourself out there, hoping the other person will hug you back, but having no guarantee that they will.

    You need to touch more as a couple and another great way to increase touch is by using this guide into an intimate massage for couples, FIRST result on Google, just copy & paste search the phrase: COUPLES EROTIC MASSAGE COUPLESEXGUIDE

    We are all human, and many of us will not be brave enough to start a hug or loving enough to accept every hug, but in many situations, a hug shows the type of vulnerability and sudden softness that can help couples suddenly respond in love.

  • 9 months ago

    Screw that. time for another girl.

  • 9 months ago

    One of my most cherished moments with my late wife was when she'd walk up behind me where I was sitting watching TV and give me a kiss on the top of my head.  I think those spontaneous signs of affection, like a hug from behind, are among the greatest gifts a spouse can give to their partner.

    I don't think husbands should have to ask for a hug.  But if your wife does...then ask.  But I think that takes some of the romance out of the hug.

  • CB
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    Maybe she had just slipped out a silent fart - easier to build a bridge to Hawaii than to understand women.

  • 9 months ago

    If your wife is doing that, this is a very bad sign. She is wanting to show you resentment any way she can, so she can justify leaving you.

    If you scared her, that is a simple apology, and life goes on. To get permission just for a simple hug, is far-fetched. She is fishing for reasons to get mad at you.

    I would recommend learning about the Red Pill, and how women work in these scenarios. If she is not chit testing you, she is definitely setting you up to fail. Sometimes women want to see how you will react. If you act weak, or strike them as a kiss-up, they will resent you.

    Either way, you better be careful. Your life might be within months of being turned upside down.

    Source(s): MGTOW
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