How to let go of someone you feel a strong love  connection with?

Most people at some point in their lives get rejected.  Doesn't matter if it is for a job, a date, or something you worked extremely hard to achieve only to get beat out, and lose to someone else, or the person you have your heart set on, simply is does not feel the same way, or has someone else already occupying that position.  Rejection in any form is uncomfortable and can be very painful.  Doesn't matter what it was that caused a door to be slammed in your face, fact is sometimes it is just better to walk away, or when you mentally feel like you have been knocked down, pick yourself and your hurt pride, broken heart and any other damaged bits up again and try to put it behind you, and move on. Often for a lost love, finding someone new can help to fill the void, only make sure you allow yourself time to heal because you certainly do not want to walk from one bad situation smack dab into another. You can do some soul searching and try to figure out what went wrong and that is fine, but only if you learn from it and don't use it as a crutch.  Best thing you can do for you, is to learn to love yourself, live a life that you love, at a job that you love and enjoy, because happiness is a huge draw to other people.   Don't change for others, as that will only bring you pain, but you can and should make changes that you make only for yourself. Find what interests you, do what you enjoy, because when you are doing that, you will meet others that have like interests and will share your joy.

Too many selfish women out there.  Move on, buddy.

Nothing is changed because you don't like it. "Wishin' and hopin' and thinkin' and prayin'; Plannin' and dreamin' each night of her charms That won't get you into her arms" ( Dusty Springfield).  You can accept it and move on or you can suffer.  She HAS rejected you.  That is the fact.