Did I ruin my friend's party?

A year ago I made a mistake by tagging people in an inappropriate facebook post and I deleted it and said sorry. Some people forgave me while others didn't and continue to ignore me. One person in the group hosted a google meet bday party and I went. However during our chats, the people who haven't fogiven me (Let's call them INC) kept trying to remind me IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE PARTY about how rude and inconsiderate I am for tagging them in the post. They found ways and the right timing to say those stuff. I kept trying to ignore it. Sometimes I would laugh but they just told me it's not funny. Me and Some people told the INC to stop. After the 6th callback of the tagging incident. I lost it and told INC  they are snowflakes and to respect the bday boy's party because this is about him.......not a confrontation or debate about my tagging post. I said sorry, I deleted it and it has been over 10 months. I added that if they are going to keep reminding me about it..........they should leave. They all left google meets. One person told me It was not right for me to tell them to leave and I sort of ruined it. I just don't get it. I wanted to just set all animosity aside during the party but INC kept trying to remind me. Like not in the chat don't remind everyone what I did.