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Post Breakup ED?

I went though a Beak up few months ago and finally met a new girl I have been casually seeing. We finally decided to have sex and when it got to it, I could Not get hard even though I wanted to.

Me and my GF would have regular sex, sometimes 3-4 times a day. It was never a problem for me. I am just 30.

So am I suddenly suffering from an ED or is it performance anxiety?

Some facts about me: I am 30 and fit. The new girl is Hot as f and really fun to be around. 

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    5 months ago
    Favorite Answer

    Chances are you're just trying too soon after the breakup. It takes people awhile to get their heads clear enough to pursue something new when they're still clearing our the cobwebs of the last relationship. An erection after all is just a physical response to emotional stimuli. 

  • 5 months ago

    You need to ask a doctor this question.

  • 5 months ago

    Almost certainly performance anxiety, but you could see a doctor about it. Look- I know this sounds old-fashioned, but it used to be that when people dated, they started by making out, and then gradually, as the relationship progressed, went on to more intimate touching. As one of my friends put it, by the time she had sex, she knew exactly what she wanted because of all the making out that had preceded it. Try taking it slower. 

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