How to confront friend about her lie?

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I live in Los Angeles as a reference. A few months ago, 4 friends and I took a trip to Vegas. We all agreed that it would only be the four of us since we all knew each other well. One friend has to work late the day we plan on going so we pitch in to buy her a late night flight so she can join us out there while we took a SUV out there early in the day.

Day of the trip, she MISSES her flight despite having FOUR hours to make her flight. She says her boyfriend can drive her to Vegas but says he has to spend the weekend with us since it wouldn't be right for him to take her to Vegas only to go home the exact same day. Anyways, seems like they treated the whole trip like a romantic getaway since they insisted they get the bed since they were the only couple there.

We strongly feel as if she did all this intentionally but I'm not sure how to confront her about it since she's very defensive.

Foofa · Answer

Just don't invite her next time. If this was some once in a lifetime trip from the east coast and it really meant something it might be worth a discussion (but never a confrontation because that's for unhinged people). But as a fellow Angeleno I know Vegas is barely considered out of town so it's really not that big of a deal.

ANAL BlTCH · Answer

She did this on purpose. Definitely. And he was just planning a Gangbang.

The Truthseeker · Answer

Just let it go. It will not solve anything. Next time the three of you go.

Kate · Answer

Hahaha my goodness the level of toxicity is outrageous. She definitely 100% did it intentionally. I hope she freakin paid y’all back for the flight you guys all pitched in for her @ss. 
 Honestly that’s just not even right on her part.  I would be like “this was supposed to be a girls trip {I’m assuming that’s what y’all were aiming for} & I get that you love your bf, want to spend time with him & that’s ok.. but this was supposed to be a fun filled trip with just us girl, you have plenty of time to be with him & this was just supposed to be about all of us having a good time. I find it very disrespectful that you couldn’t respect that during our trip.”

Is what I would say. 
Also call her *** out for lying about it! It’s so obvious she did this intentionally. Like “girl how the heck are you going to act brand new”.. ask her how it is again she managed to miss her flight? Because she’s big lying there.  Urgg idk. 
 Personally I would begin distancing myself from a friend like that.

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