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Ive got tennancy for flat i got keys on tuesday but now regret signing up for it ss my mother has health issues?
Up till now ive stayed with her looking after her but as her healths got worse shes started making accusations of theft and neglect and sometimes can be aggressive so thats why i started looking for my own place as i found the situation difficuilt to live with but now ive had courage to find a place and sign up for it i feel guilt snd that ive abandoned her just looking for other peoples thoughts and what they would do
Anon i live in scotland my mother has copd she has carers that come in 4 times a day thats the max shes a!!owed but one does her personal care (washes and changes her) rest all they do is empty her commode thats it little support at all ive asked if she can be refered for restbite to give me a break been told no she doesnt meet requirements ive asked if she can be refered to an organisation that send staff out to sit with her so i csn go out for a couple of hrs this was refused as well
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- Anonymous5 days ago
Obviously, you're not in the US, but I'm sure you live in a city that will help you out. There's a way for you to live your own life (which you've earned) but still be there for your mother. It's hard to say, because you didn't give any details about her worsening health, but the accusations and aggressiveness sound like dementia or Alzheimers. Has she been diagnosed? I ask because these diseases reach a point where professionals HAVE TO be involved. One person can't be expected to be there 24/7. So you need to research what's out there. She may be getting close to the point where she can't live alone.
