If your husband said he had huge sexual chemistry with his affair partner but still wants to keep our family together ?

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My husband was seeing another woman 8 years. They had no sex just some pleasuring. We have 3 adult kids. He wants to keep family together.   I'm taking him back. He is not able keep erection with me.   When I went crazy he said it's just the " chemistry " was good with affair partner and he felt she really wanted him and that they really wanted to sleep together buy she wouldnt coz he married. He assures me he will work on our sex life as he said it just happened with her and from emails he was hard with her all the time. Hes 54.  I'm 50 . Shes 39 with a curvy figure and big breasts.....I'm boyish....my confidence is affected....do u think they loved each other. He said " very fond" of her

n2mama · Accepted Answer

Since you have already decided that you are going to take him back, it doesn’t matter. If you truly intend to move forward with your marriage and keep your family together, you will have to let this go. You cannot drive yourself crazy wondering about feelings, etc. You either decide to believe him that they never had sex and it was just crazy sexual chemistry and that’s all and you move forward with your marriage, or you decide that you don’t believe him. But since you’ve made the choice to take him back, dwelling on this will only make things harder on you going forward.

Personally, I don’t think I’d be willing to go along with his wishes to keep the family together unless he was willing to go to counseling.

Anonymous · Answer

Your question/lie appears to be, Does my husband love another woman? How should I know? Did my mum like her birthday present? My advice to you is stop lying.

princess pounder · Answer

I dont know why you would stay with him.

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