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Say someone is having an affair.  No sex. But gr8 conversation and some hugging n kissing. They have loads in common with affair partner.  But both married to other ppl for 25 yrs plus. How can you expect them to break up their families and lifes over an affair??  Why do this ?  I mean it would destroy lives that have been built? Is a buddy you are over affectionate with so bad?

I'm married, have 1 adult son. I'm 48. Hubby 63.  Will never leave my husband even though we are living in a celibate relationship,  he doesn't want sex anymore and discussion after discussion no resolution.   Obviously I still want a sex life. I was badly abused at one point in my life so its complex how I feel about sex. During a tumultuous time in my life when I lost both parents and sister a man entered my life and iv fallen head over heels. Hes married. Adult kids.  We have been having an emotional affair for 8 years, some kissing and hugging. Never sex.  We both want to as intense chemistry but I will never go there.  How I feel about him is intense affection......I like him and his family......and I dont want them hurt, hence I keep distance.  To he honest what I'd really like is to be a family friend not an affair partner but he always pushed it this way. Lately he has included family and that's really lovely. I want him to be happy and I love my own partner.  I'm not a bad person guys. Do you think I'm really evil?

Someone I know is having an affair for 8 years with a man who has 3 adult kids in 20s.  They have never had intercourse or any sex.  But have kissed and hugged and get on very well.  She doesnt want to break his marriage. She has a hubbie. They all know each other. Hes doing work for her at moment. He took his adult kids to visit her and they had a fun time.   He says to her if circumstances changed and basically wife died before him he wants to be with my friend.   They have massive massive chemistry but dont have any sex out of respect for respective partners. They have loads in common.  They both 49 married to partners in 60s.  What do you think of him suddenly introducing kids to her

I'm 50. Am I too late to have a baby  met my first boyfriend .  What's the best contraception.....I'm a virgin

Hi I'm in my first relationship.   I'm 50. A virgin. Not menopause.   Regular periods.   Me and my new boyfriend want to try for a baby. It is possible tell me it is?

I'm married to a man 28yrs my senior. I'm 30.  He is loaded with money and my life style is super.   However b4 I met him he thought I was a model and dancer.....I had another life in adult entertainment.   He thinks I mean ballet dancing. I worked all the dark smelly clubs.  And met alot of shifty folk. And slept with married single young old rich poor ugly pretty man or woman..I was very active and he thinks I'm a virgin.  Obviously i need my lifestyles to continue but bit by bit old lovers n sinners are drifting back to me and I cant resist....I had an old boyfriend in our bed last night.....help me

On 50. Never made love. Iv met a guy. We love each other do I admit this

Is having a no penetration sexual affair with no intercourse  oral or hand jobs or French kissing evil.

Just pecks and cuddles

Wud u say these ppl are just as evil as the top heinous crime

We know what these crimes are.  Are ppl having an affair considered same as perpetrators of the awful crimes 

Why are they judged by society so harshly when it only concerns the direct family members involved 

I'm with a married man. I want him. I'm thinking I'm pregnant.  Missed 2 periods.   We together 4 yrs. He says he will leave her now. Will this work

I'm getting treatment from a psychiatrist my parents pay for but he wants to run my life and trys to order me around.  I cud never be friends with him. What can I do

If couple are bored is having a kid a way to stay together and also have a friend in the kid in years to come?

Do people have kids for companionship and as a way to navigate a boring bleak life with one partner if married?  Do they feel it's the only way to have life filled

Anyone enjoying a long term affair without any comeback apart from missing your affair partner. 

I'm so upset. Just got period.  I'm 35yrs old.  Iv got 2 boys and 1 girl.  I want to finish my family b4 I'm too old.  My kids are 6 4 and 2yrs. I wanted this to be over by 35

 I want another girl to complete my family. Why cant I get what I want. We are trying for a whole7 weeks

Why are affairs judged by ppl in society who probably do more sick things but are not found out? 

When an affair is discovered how come outsiders like brothers n sisters of cheaters feel it's ok to judge?  Or neighbours or friends getting involved? Surely its between the 3or 4 ppl who are involved in triangle?-  not every dog on street.  What business is it of other people outside the immediate affected family?  For that matter what's it got to do with the kids of these people once those kids were brought up well what had their parents sex life got to do with them...thanks