Girls, why do you hate it if a guy likes your body?

It's when that's all he's interested in that there is a problem. I was a topless model in college, of course guys are going to like the physical, but if that's all they're interested in we have no relationship. I mean I actually have a brain.

They don’t . My boyfriend is in love with my body and I love that he loves it. But I do also like that he likes my personality, my brains, my hard work , and seeks conversation with me that is above my body. My body shouldn’t be the conversation 24/7. Us ladies like to be treated with respect. Funny how you guys want a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets but don’t understand why we want more than just our bodies to be loved. 

They don't.  But they do hate it if the guy leads with that.

Let's say you are a guy and you're dating a girl for a while and you've clearly shown you like her intelligence, personality, wit, laugh, etc. and then you let her know that you think she's got a sexy body, she'll absolutely love it.

But if that's the first thing you let her know that you like about her, she'll likely think you are shallow and don't care about her, that you just want to have sex with her.

So by all means, you can let her know she's got a rockin bod, just not right away.

Most women don't hate it if a guy likes their body. They just don't want you to come up to them and talk to them about it.

Because I don't want to be viewed as being just an object for his pleasure.

I want to be appreciated for my mind, my heart, my values, my strengh.

Women are not men.  Most men would probably love to have a woman like his body .. but we arenot men.

Women look for emotional closeness and commitment the way men look for sex.

I have never met a girl who hates it when a guy she WANTS likes her body.  She hates it when a guy she DOESN'T want likes her body yet can't understand that attractiveness is a very non selective mechanism.

Because its creepy and threatening if its not welcome. Women got to be extra careful and other people should respect it.