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I made a mistake by signing up for track, my guidance consouler gave me wrong information, things change, and now i cant do track. My parents are forcing me and I dont know what to do. Im horrible at track, my coach doesnt like me, im not vaulable to team at all, and i also i dont have time. I have a job tutoring kids, state tests, a french exam, and my regular school work. Not only that, but competing gives me extreme anxiety. my coach changed some rules around and now basically i have to do a race i am not prepared for. I have serious anxiety problems, and panic attacks that cause me to vomit. Im 13 and I cannot handle this. Im not even in high school yet. My parents are forcing me. I have no idea what to do or who to turn to. I understand i signed up and its my fault, but there were several changes to competition standards we were made aware of weeks after sign up. My mom thinks im dramatic and vomiting and panic attacks are normal. I realize i made a mistake by signing up, but i dont know what to do now...

I'm 14 and I know this may sound strange, but I only find men in their early 30s to late 40s attractive, mentally, sexually, and physically. My friends alwags tease me about it, but I've felt this way as long as I could remember. I was an early bloomer puberty wise, while most of my friends can say guys are attractive, they still see sex and men as kind of gross. I feel the exact oppisite, I find everything about men just really hot and I feel a strong sexual attraction towards them. I dont like boys my age, I have crushes on my teacher, neighbor, older actors, men of that age group. I know its obviously illegal for me to date/have a relationship with someone 18+, but I wish I could understand WHY i have this odd attraction. Would a man in his 30s-40s ever date a girl in her 20s for reasons other than sex?

I'm in 8th grade and I wear

- some foundation/coverup to even out my skin tone and cover up pimples if i have them

- fill in my eyebrows

- mascara

does that sound like too much makeup? I really enjoy makeup and putting it on other people... seeing my friends faces light up when I can make them look like a girl in a magazine makes me genuinely happy. I have a growing collection and I really like trying different products...however I dont want to be known as the "cakeface" or whatever...so does that sound like too much?

I tan in the sun in the summer, my mom even encourages me! I get a really good color very easily, not orange or gross, but it never stays. It lasts for about a week after summer and then im REALLY pale, like noticeably more than normal pale. All my friends tease me and even the rest of family too! It's embarrassing, I hate it. I get straight As and I'm taking honors classes, I don't get in a ton of trouble, I help my mom around the house, etc. And they won't let me! My cousins all do, my mom even owned a tanning bed when she was younger. I offered to pay for it myself and they say its "not about that". Its actually better than tanning in the sun, which my mom encourages, because you can control the amount of UV rays youre getting. So dont tell me its unhealthy. I'm so mad. I have no self confidence. I just want a little color, not orange. I just dont want to be so pale! I hate myself! Self tanners never work and they streak, and i hate spray tans. Please help me.

Girl 1; 5' 7.5" and 135 lbs. Solid A cup, very long dark brown hair, small brown eyes, thin lips, large nose, thin face/high cheekbones, little gap in front teeth.

Girl 2; 5' 1.5" and 104 lbs. Full B to small C cup, long light brown hair, large blue eyes, full lips, little bump in nose, oval face, straight teeth

Which girl would be more attractive BASED OFF THESE DESCRIPTIONS, NO PICTURES. I'm just curious.

My measurements are 36-25-35.

I'm about 103 lbs and 5'1" (My BMI is a 19.5). My cup size is a full B/small C depending where I get the bra.

What's my body type? Apple, Pear, Ruler, etc?

I was on the phone with my guy friend and was complaining about how all the girls in our grade are taller and more flat chested than me, like models. I'm small, 5'1", thin, yet I have C cup's, which can look a bit out of place on my body. Then he started teasing me and telling me I was "a little spinner", and he kept teasing me and wouldn't tell me what it is was.

so...what is it?

(i looked it up and all that popped up was some old band called the spinners)

I want a long lasting BB/CC cream that will give me medium coverage and won't break me out. I've heard good things about Maybelline, Ganier, Avon, ect. What would you suggest?

So I have a best friend, not gonna name names here, we'll just refer to her as "A". We're extremely close and have been friends since fall, we trust each other completely and we both have never had a friend like each other before. We're practically sisters, we hang out with friends as a pair, go on trips together, ect. So anyway, her mom has been in trouble with the law for stealing, and her older sister takes her clothes all the time. Earlier in the school year, I'd visited my dad in Chicago and bought a new, 50 dollar sweater from PINK. After I came back, I wore it to school exactly ONE time, then I'd washed it, and hadn't touched it for about a week until "A" and I were texting about how she was shopping with HER dad at the moment, and she sent me a picture of what she'd got, which included the EXACT sweater I'D bought. Naturally, I was really excited and said I'd recently gotten that exact sweater too, and that I'd worn it to school last week. She was surprised and in almost disbelief it was the exact same one. So I went to get mine to send her a picture, I couldn't find it. I changed the subject and said I'd show it to her later, but it was really bothering me, where was my new sweater? So throughout that whole week I searched my entire house, because I hadn't taken or worn the sweater anywhere else. I still could not find it. Weirdly enough, even though she doesn't have that much clothing, though out the entire school year, I barely recall her wearing the sweater even one time. Which is strange, because wouldn't you want to wear your new sweater? I kind of had made a joke throughout our group of friends how MY sweater had gone missing right around the time she'd gotten the same one. And she got really defensive about it, claiming she'd show me the receipt, even though I kept it all strictly to a joking manner. To this day, she hasn't worn the sweater, and I still haven't found it. It's been months.

I love her to death, I don't want this to ruin our friendship

So school is starting back up in around two months, and in the fall when it gets chillier me and most of the girls at my school wear yoga pants. I've gotten plenty of comments from guys that I have a "nice a*s", but what really matters is how I feel about myself, and I want to improve. I know how to do a proper squat and lunge, but I was wondering if anyone had an everyday routine I could do to see results in two months? I basically want a rounder, tighter, firmer butt that looks good in skinny jeans and yogas. And no, it's not to impress any guys, I just want to e confident in myself and I'm willing to work for it.

thanks(:

Nothing, I'm assuming...but if they HAVE to... like to school:3

So I've been thinking about getting extensions. I have a friend who has them and they look really good, so now I've been seriously considering them. But where should I get them? Sally's? How do find a good color/length? How do I know what a good quality is? Should I glue them in, or clip? Any and all advice is appreciated, preferably from people who have/had them. Thanks guys!:)

So I've never bleached my hair, or dyed my whole head. However, starting in 3rd grade, I began dying my hair unnatural colors. I began with red streaks, and these past few months I've been doing the underneath of my hair blue and purple. I have a lot of layers, so basically I just left the short, top layers (1/3) of my hair natural, and the other 2/3 dyed. Anyway, I was considering dying all my hair one color like purple, or doing something similar to the pictures in the links below. But I have my concerns. Manic Panic and Splat (the dyes I use) show up quite well in my hair without bleach. However if I were to do my whole head, I would bleach it. But exactly how much upkeep would this take? And what would it take to get my hair back to normal? How long would it take to get something close to my natural color back? If at all? And anything else you think I should know as a beginner with whole head dying. Thanks!:)

Pictures: http://www.polyvore.com/pastel_goth_tumblr/thing?i...

http://www.polyvore.com/xxlurancyvennumxxs_profile...

http://www.polyvore.com/empty_hearts_places/thing?...

http://www.polyvore.com/%E0%B2%A0_%E0%B2%A0/thing?...

P.S. Please no trolling or hate. I want honest opinions and tips, but I don't want someone just saying "Why would you dye your hair purple that's dumb". Seriously, if you don't have valid evidence or something to back up a statement like that with, then don't bother saying it.

Any questions for me just ask, I'll put them in additional details:) Thanks guys!:D

Yeah my boyfriend and I are bored and we're playing around with names....What do you think of these?(:

1. Boy - Christian

2. Girl - Heather

3. Boy - Axel