Maybe Imortal

I got a little drunk... Told her I was horny... Told her how hot she was... and then I told her that her legs look yummy... I tell her these things when I'm sober... Why is she mad?

My wife and I divorced 6 years ago. At the time I was on active duty in the US Navy and deployed during the divorce and custody proceedings. Because I was not there to defend myself, the judge granted my ex with supervised visitation in the children's city only. Fast forward over the next few years, fighting with the ex to have mods done to the visitation schedule, deployments, etc. and actually getting one summer with my children while still on active duty. That summer was 4 years ago. The next summer I gave up my visitation because I was scheduled to leave active duty about the time the girls would have gotten to my location and I was worried that I would not have a place to live. I didn't want to put them in harms way. The next summer I was set up and settled with appropriate living conditions for them to stay with me. That brings us to this summer. I again have a safe secure place for them and have my visitation with them. Now to the meat, my youngest daughter has fought tooth and nail coming for visitation during the summer every single time that I have had the opportunity. While she is here, she spends most of her time moping and miserable and doing her best to make everyone around her miserable. I am in therapy with her to work out any issues she has with me(I know I wasn't around a lot during her first 9 years, but I did my best), but things have gotten so bad that I am considering not having her out for visitation again. I just want to be a part of my daughter's life. What can I do?

I currently pay 600 a month in child support for two children. The amount was more than fair while I was on active duty and single. I am now married, have 3 step-children, and have been medically retired. I do receive a disability pension, and I still pay my current rate. Thing is, we are having trouble meeting our bills, my step-son's SSI payments have been cut in half because of my VA pension. I want to continue to contribute to my kids, and support them. I want to stay active in their lives, and I want to do right by them. So I guess my question is, am I still doing right by them if I ask for the adjustment to my child support or am I just being another dead-beat dad?

I eat as right as I can. At least two freshly cooked meals a day, lunch and dinner. I drink 2 cups of coffee when I first get up and then drink water, juice, and tea the rest of the day. I sleep at least 8 hrs. a night. After all this, I am still always tired. I force myself to stay awake throughout the afternoon and evening, but I am still just dragging. Any ideas.

One of my wife's ex-boyfriends that she is still friends with has been calling a lot more than usual lately. Suddenly, she is taking his calls in another room, I have found text messages asking about hotel deals in our area from him to my wife, and the other day she lied to me and told me she was going to go meet someone else for coffee when the text and phone calls said she was going to go meet him. Am I crazy for thinking that he is becoming more than just a friend now? Am I just to paranoid for my own good? I want to trust her, but I have seen this pattern before with my ex-wife and the results ended in divorce. Should I confront her, or just let it ride and see what happens?

My wife doesn't have any urge to have sex. It is actually to the point where I feel like every time we have sex I am almost raping her. She does give willing consent, so it is not rape, but I feel like I am. I am to the point where I want to chemically castrate myself so that I will not have the urge to make love to her anymore. She is defiantly against me doing this, but I don't like the way I feel. I understand that I may have a problem, but I don't see any way to fix myself other than chemical castration. I have talked to her about this and it only seems to cause more problems for us. She has tried the female Viagra and it is so confusing for her that it feels wrong. I have tried all sorts of cognitive blocks, hypnosis, and herbal supplements and they have not reduced my libido. I want to make love about 2 times a day, but realizing that this is unreasonable, I am willing to try to curtail this to 2 times a week, but I am more likely to get it once every 2 months, and this still makes me feel like I am raping her. I am so tired of feeling dirty just because I want to have sex with my wife. How do I fix myself?