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I might be over thinking this, but maybe not. On our first date a 3 months ago, my boyfriend mentioned his future plans of wanting to be in the naval band and that if that happened, he s hoping that I m ok with moving. I was thrown back, since I ve never experienced a guy saying something like that. Well, today, we were riding in the car and he mentioned that he really wants the grandfather clock his grandmother owns, but only the first one out of him and his siblings will get it from the first married. I questioned a bit about the clock, then he said, "I might be the first one married." I tried not to stay on this topic, but then he said, "It s quite possible that you ll be the owner of that clock too." I m not really sure what s going on in his mind... I really love him and do see a potential future with him; however, isn t it a bit fast to be bringing up such topics? Or am I just overthinking this?

All of the bosses are over their 40s except me. I'm in my late 20s. Several of the associates that flirt with me are in their late teens to mid-twenties. I treat everyone the same, yet I'm constantly being asked out to go get food with some of them. I don't mind if they're joking around, but I think that some of them are serious. So, is it just a fascination of getting with your supervisor or what?

Earlier today, an associate of mine went out of his way to grab a large flag, hide us behind the flag, even though other associates could see us, and then said, "Hey (name), I noticed that you like (food) by seeing it on your Facebook. I think that we should go get some (food) sometime."

I'm pretty confused, because I'm not sure if he was actually serious or joking around. Also, two months ago, he came into my office and asked me if we could leave work together for a bit and get breakfast. And random fyi, he's 9 years younger than me.