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My husband and I have been married for 13 years. We have both put on a little weight. I have never been a skinny woman but Im not obese. He was thin when we married. I love him even more know and he feels the same. Just wondering if others feel the same. Please dont be rude. If you dont like thick woman or men that is fine but not every one likes skinny either.

I have read it more than once for a few people that adoptive parents only adopt because they cant have children of their own. Why do you think that. Just because some one adopts doent mean they cant have children. My mom adopted me when she was 34. She had been married at the age of 17 but only because it was her way out of a sexually abuse home. She only stayed with him for 3 weeks. she could stand the thoughts of him touching her. She could have had children but didnt stay married long enough and she want to fool around with other men. I was her first choice and she loved me as her own because I am hers and she did what by birth giver wouldnt do.

This is a question for those who gave a baby up because they felt they couldnt take care of it. Did you have more children and did you keep them and if so why did you keep them and give up your first?

I dont know what you are thinking but it is not the same! How could it be the same? The child you gave up could one day want to meet you but when your child dies there is no chance of that until after your death. So how do you compare that?

why does all the concern seem to be for the woman who give up a baby?

but why is it so hard for others christian's to see that arguing about it with those who chose not to believe only causes hurt feeling and it makes us all look bad. I refuse to argue about how I believe. I love everyone and respect their right to believe how that want to. I have always heard you get more bee's with honey than lemon juice.

I have a good friend that is gay. I love him to death. We work together. Not many people know that he is gay and so when we are at work they think that I am cheating on my husband with him which I think is funny and so do he. I think he is one of the sexiest men I know other than my husband. But I was wondering do gay men like it if a woman thinks they are hot?

Lets say a 18 year old get pregnant and she gives the baby up with out trying to raise it. Do you feel that is ok? Dont be rude. Its just a question.

respect and to be patted on the back when they are the ones who gave up the child. I have asked a few questions and have gotten a lot of flack about my question. I along with many others friends and my bother do not feel sorry for our birth giver. We are the ones that she left we did not leave her. So why is there so much compation show to someone who willingly gave away there baby. dont get me wrong it was the best thing for me. She was not fit to be a mother. She had 3 other children before me and 2 of them are crack addicts and one is dying of Aids so I am very blessed. I have forgiven her and I see her often but she knows she is not my mom and never has been and she is ok with that. It seems that I am the only one that has a problem with all the attention that birth givers or birth parents get.

I know that there are many adopte's and a lot of first parents on here. So my question is when the first parents decided to contact the child do you stop and think about how it will affect them or if they even want to see you?

weather your married or not? I have been married for 12 years. I like porn and my husband not so much. he will watch it with me but its not something we do alot.

Do you feel you have to or have they given you a reason not to trust them?

I have often wondered why when someone gives up a child a few years later after the child is settled in and know who their parent are and is in a loving home why would the birth giver want to come back and say I made a mistake I want my child back? Do they not think about the child and how much confusion and hurt that will cause?

My husband and I have been married for 12 years. He is the best man I know. He is very jealous and always looks to see if men are watching me. At my job I have a friend how is a guy. Now he is also gay and has been in a relationship for 8 years. We kid around and can talk about anything. I was going to get lunch with him the other day and some one asked what I was waiting on and I said THE MAN meaning my friend. When I told my husband he got so upset. Now everyone at work knows my husband and they know I call him MY MAN. Im not sure why he got up set. Would this up set you?

How would you feel if your partner always dressed sloppy and never wanted to dress nice for you, fix there hair and maybe even put make up on? I dont mean spend a million bucks to look good. Just look nice and smell good for your partner. and how would it make you feel if you where dressed up and someone thought your partner looked good. Does it make you feel good know you have someone that can turn heads? I dont mean in a vain way. I like knowing I have a husband that looks good and that he is mine.

I know this may be crazy but i asked a question yesterday bout men and women looking at other people when they are married and thinking they are hot and some nut thought i was vain. So let me ask this. How many of you while out and about see someone and think they are hot? Even if you are married or in a relationship? Not looking at them because you want them but you just see someone and think wow he or she is hot?

yes I know some of you are going to say we are not thick we are fat and that is fine. It doesn't offend me in the least.

at another woman? I know that they say it is a respect thing but we woman also look at men. You cant tell me that if a hot guy walks by you dont look. The same goes for men. They are visual. Just because they look doesnt mean they are going to leave you. If they get turned on take them home and let them have there way with you. Everyone has eyes and we all look so why get so upset?

My husband works alot of hours and a much harder job than I do. He does all the out side work and is great with our kids. For the most part our sex life is great. I have not problem doing the things that make my husband happy in the bedroom nor he I. I love being the keeper of our home. Are there any other woman like this. And do you men still like this in a woman.

used toys that you had bought for her while you were out of town. My husband is out of town and he has bought me lots of toys that we use together but he doent like it if I use them with out him. He works out of town alot. We have an awesome sex life but when he is not here I sometimes need some relief.