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I work with this girl at a local hospital. We became solely work buddies because I grew weary of some traits she exhibited and for that reason, I never honored her home invites. Fast forward: she got a gym membership and I loved the results, so I signed up and we went together twice just to get a head start on how to use the workout equipment. The rest I figured out myself. She went to the gym in the morning and I went midnight after work. As a slim lady trying to bulk up, I ordered woman s multivitamin to supplement whatever I ate (I have a poor eating habit) for faster results. Then, I took a picture of the bottle and sent to her saying; "whatever it takes to have your round behind". To my horror this sicko sent me a picture of her naked butt bent over with an emoji partially covering her bits. I was furious! Warned her and blocked her! Funny enough she was mad at me saying she wanted to apologize and it s not worth it, that at least she didn t send a picture of a guy s stuff!!! From that moment I vowed never to have anything to do with her at work. Who does that?! I couldn t focus. I just didn t want it sticking on my phone so I made sure it got deleted and I blocked her on every social media page. I know I didn t overreact. Will you have reacted differently?

How do I get it and what s the difference btw that and our current one? I ll be traveling soon and I want to get prepared with up to date documents. Thanks!

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I will try to make some sense of this: I was returning home from work, and half a mile from my apartment a driver was going 35 miles on a 45 miles road. But I stayed back because I was getting to the turn leading into my apartment. There was an impatient driver behind me also. As I decided to make a turn to my apartment the impatient driver aka stalker cut in front of me and pulled up at the bus stop right at my apartment. Once he saw where I want in from, he angrily backed up on the wrong side of the road into the trailer park. P.S. there are trailer parks right next to us, so that's where he was going. I didn't think anything of it. Rather, I just thought he was some nuts driver.

Forgot to add that these two evens happened on the same day. First one happened at 5:30pm and the other happened at 10:30pm.

This time, I and my mom were returning from a family friend's house. As I was about to make a U-turn, I saw the same white car coming out of the trailer park. Then he drove behind me, then it clicked that I'm encountering the same old person. I knew not to turn into my driveway, so I drove all the way down to the end with my mom in the car with me. When I got to the end of the apartment, he stopped, took a peak into my car and my mom saw him do that. Then when he realized that I am aware of his presence, he drove off. Then I went to my apartment. What do I do about this mess? I am so shaken up. I want to make a police report since I know the make and model of the car.

Part 1

I will try to make some sense of this: I was returning home from work, and half a mile from my apartment a driver was going 35 miles on a 45 miles road. But I stayed back because I was getting to the turn leading into my apartment. There was an impatient driver behind me also. As I decided to make a turn to my apartment the impatient driver aka stalker cut in front of me and pulled up at the bus stop right at my apartment. Once he saw where I want in from, he angrily backed up on the wrong side of the road into the trailer park. P.S. there are trailer parks right next to us, so that's where he was going. I didn't think anything of it. Rather, I just thought he was some nuts driver.

Part 2 cont...

I work at a county hospital that gives 1,040 hours a year to per diem employees. Meanwhile, their year starts in July and their probation period is 9 months. I started working there July and in March I'm pretty much done with my hours. So I won't be going there till July. The problem is that I'm traveling July 22 - September 2. But they're telling me they have to let me go for being away that long. Mind you since I've been working there, I was supposed to get feedback early on based on my performance but never did until I took myself into off the schedule, basically my last day on their schedule. The asst. manager always said she needed to see me for that but never did. But when she finally did, but when she finally did, I realized she had a pile of complaints from nurses that was never brought to my attention until then. My feeling is that now their excuse to get me out will be that I'm traveling for too long. I work at another hospital in the main time.

Background: I am in a long distance relationship with a guy my sister living abroad introduced me to...

Anyways, while on the phone I told my friend about my new catch. P.S she's knows about my first relationship that didn't work because the guy was dishonest...and yes long distance. She asked for his name and I told her but I made a mistake of telling her who he was on my fb page. Something just told me that was not a good idea.

I met her two days after and she told me she chatted with him. She was like she wanted to make sure he's right for me so she tested him. Hmm. Then I found out that she got her husband involved and even her daughter to evaluate him. Like what the heck without my permission.

When she sent him a message he asked her question like where is she from and she didn't like being asked that and why did he respond right away, is he always online? He was right there with his phone. Then she said her husband said he's not the right one for me. Like they decided for me in just a minute chat. But her daughter said it's not a big deal. After evaluating everything about the message I told her I would do the same thing he did. I want to know who I'm chatting with. As for responding right away, if I was online at the moment I would if I wanted to... Then she said her husband said he made some mistakes in his English.

So I told her to send me a screen shot and his response was perfect. So my question: is it a normal thing to do or did she go out of line?

Can I sue The Embassy of Nigeria In D. C.?

On the 20th of January, they received my American passport and my visa application and fee for a trip to Nigeria. The process is supposed to take 2 to 3 weeks or at least get posted on the 4th week. Today marked the 6th week. On the visa I said I was traveling next month April. Thankfully I booked July to give myself more time. I called, but the number is no longer in service. Yes an embassy! I emailed lists of contacts on the site, two came back with error messages saying email does not exist. Looked online at reviews...tons of negative reviews and I'm scared and angry. Some say they sell people's passport. Some people never got their passports. I emailed the embassy directly like over 10x and they never replied ever! These people were probably raised by wolves. Sadly, I'm a Nigerian too. It's so embarrassing. What steps do I take because I will be mad if I have to go there in person all the way from California?

Thanks

On the 20th of January, they received my American passport and my visa application and fee for a trip to Nigeria. The process is supposed to take 2 to 3 weeks or at least get posted on the 4th week. Today marked the 6th week. On the visa I said I was traveling next month April. Thankfully I booked July to give myself more time. I called, but the number is no longer in service. Yes an embassy! I emailed lists of contacts on the site, two came back with error messages saying email does not exist. Looked online at reviews...tons of negative reviews and I'm scared and angry. Some people never got their passports. I emailed the embassy directly like over 10x and they never replied ever! These people were probably raised by wolves. Sadly, I'm a Nigerian too. It's so embarrassing. What steps do I take because I will be mad if I have to go there in person all the way from California?

Thanks

Do I need to apply with or without a plane ticket?

I'm like what the heck (to myself). His exact words "Do u know sometimes I get really intimidated by ur exposure?" I told him he didn't have to feel that way bc all that matters is that I love him. He said he's not worry bc I'm humble. He's so sweet but really I never knew he felt that way. I don't get it, why do guys feel that way? By the way he's 28 and I'm 22 and he's smart bc he's studying to be an engineer so why would he even feel that way? I was telling him about a study that shows that married people and people in a relationship have little likelihood of getting heart problems (which is not always true BUT makes sense) and referred to us. That was when he said that. Earlier he admitted to me that he's a jealous guy which but he's definitely not possessive. I'm not sure if it has anything to do with it.

Today, while working I ran out of supply, so a random coworker was like how can I wait to run out and I should be ashamed of myself! Hello, I'm not some of your slaves! O___O I was so shocked and didn't know what to say so I kept quiet. In my head I was like how dare you talk to me like that! But I was just calm but furious inside. So I came home to think about my response either to talk to her or to report it the the manager. IMO this is a working environment and therefore, should be professional. Right? You don't bring other people down. Since I'm imperfect I wouldn't know exactly how much I need. It's ok to make fun of me in a joking way but when an insult is involved that's a NO NO!!! But if I should talk to her what can I say to her or should I talk to the manager? I really want to make sure this dumb stuff doesn't happen again. I'm a quiet and goofy person, maybe too friendly I don't know but lately my coworkers have been getting on my nerves and I usually ignore it. But this!..

When I apply to a job I always get those two but I'm not sure when we are accepting applications mean vs the other one. Is it better to apply for a job when they are only accepting applications or when they are hiring?

Honestly, I'm fed up with my mom cos she doesn't take responsibility like she did when we were younger and I find myself reminding her to do her own things. She got an application for a job she need and I ran after her to fill it up for 3 months before she finally did. Now she has another important form that will cost her almost $700 if she missed the deadline and she won't call unless I remind her to. As a side point she paid for the form. She is so annoying I just feel like I'm having to guide her thru something I shouldn't do. Plus she doesn't listen to advice on how things should be done. I told her that I'll never remind her about it again and she should get ready to pay another fee cos I'm done. I feel like she's being irresponsible but I don't have to push her cos it's her life. She's not old she's in her late 50s. She barely started saving thanks to me! She gets her pay check and the money goes as it comes until I told her she had to save cos she needed one she still didn't get it! So I had to talk to my aunt and my aunt told me to keep her debit card and help her save so now she agreed and she's saving. I could care less cos I'll not have to live with her forever and it's her life but I care. But now I feel like I should care cos I just want her to learn her lesson! Pls do not judge me for being a little hard on her cos as for te savings she like the fact that she's saving. She also knows I don't spend her money I give her the card when she needs it and I told her that when she's ready to have her card back she can. But she said I can have it saved for her. What do u think is wrong with her? Is she unmotivated? She's just not putting effort into things she used to like 5-7 years ago. I remind her that in 2 yrs I may not be with her to do all this for her so she needs to learn how to cos hopefully I'll have my own life and be married. Enough of my ranting! TYPING ON MY PHONE sorry for the punctuation

What will happen to my teeth or gum? Originally I extracted four teeth so now I'm using rubber bands aka elastics. I was told to use two but I think it's too slow so I want to fasten the job. I decide to use an extra set only at night. Is there any danger to this especially cos I wasn't prescribed that amount?

What will happen to my teeth or gum? Originally I extracted four teeth so now I'm using rubber bands aka elastics. I was told to use two but I think it's too slow so I want to fasten the job. I decide to use an extra set only at night. Is there any danger to this especially cos I wasn't prescribed that amount?

I used the tracking number to see if my parcel had arrived. Then i noticed that it had been delivered but i never got it. so i waited the next day and the same notice was there that a customer woman recieved it. to cut a long story short, i later descivered from my own investigation that the UPS man said a different race from mine took it as he walked away from the door; the lady came out and took it in her house. for clarification i live in a townhouse and the doors btw i and my neighbor is really close but mine is in plain sight while hers is in the corner like and L shape.

hers was blocked by a wall so he wouldnt be able to tell what door she was from. so they said they will do an investivation. so my question is that after the investigation they find out her identity what will they do to her? will they fill charges against her for stealing the parcel or will they just leave her? actually i care less what happens to her cos she will deserve any punishment she gets from the law for what she did. plus my home manager is strick and next week i will inform her about the incident, will they evict her for stealing? i was assured that i will get my money or the parcel after the whole stuff but im just curious as to what will happen to this lady?

Ok this 8 yr old kid is sleeping over at our place cos his mom is working late. But gosh he snores louder than a full grown man! It's so annoying I have to put ear plugs in my ears so I can sleep. I don't snore so I don't want anyone interrupting my sleep. I'm hope he doesn't sleep here tomorrow cos he slept here yesterday. What should I do? I can either let him sleep in the living room which could be a bad idea cos if anything happens I won't hear or tell his mom but what can she do? I'm just pissed. Plus I think he has asthma. I don't know what to do?

Today, I was on whatsapp chatting with my bf about the day's activity. So after that I told him "my sister showed me a pic of ur friend's gf. Do you know which friend?" He didn't respond then he went offline after being on for a minute. Then I sent another message. "Hello where did u go my love?" He didn't come back online. He left at 2:47 pm. Then later I went online and saw that he was there at 5:06pm. I was really sad that he ignored my messages and didn't reply. I know what he's gonna tell me next is that he fell at sleep. Is he jealous I'm talking about his friend or am I overreacting?

If so how is that possible? What can one do to show that they love somebody than they do themselves? I'm talking about an intimate relationship.

"You don't know what you do to me when we chat and talk". I was like what to I do to you that I don't know of? He said it is embarrassing to say and that i will find out when we get married and also love is very strong. I'm like ok!