Madi

I'm about to go to college for aviation. The cost of the flight labs get more and more expensive each year because each year I will be getting a more and more advanced license, and whatever extra is in there can be used to rent a plane, so I'm pouring all of my extra money into savings for flight and bills through the school year.

I have a lot of extra money right now, and my boyfriend's new boss cut his hours really bad. He hasn't been able to pay the last 2 months' bills. He is trying to get a second job. He keeps refusing the money I offer him for his debt. He wants me to save it. (He owes over $1k right now to his uncle, who is helping him out.)

Should I pay off his debt for him or should I put the extra money into savings for the flight account? Our anniversary is on the 25th.

I have 2 men that I'm falling in love with. (I'm a girl if that makes a difference.) They're about the same age, man A is 19 and B is 20, I'm 19. If I were to describe their basic personalities, both guys have about the same profile. I get along great with both. "A" I've known for so long I don't get the "new love" happiness I get with "B." I'm not sure if the way I feel with "B" is from that new love happiness (because it's been 2 months now) or if that stage has passed and I'm just extremely happy with him.

The difference between A and B that really makes me question my love for A and made me start to even consider continuing my love for B when A and I and I have such a deep, long-lasting bond is that when I met B, he treated me so nicely and with so much respect that I realized what I thought of as "being respected" isn't even close to what it really feels like. I feel pampered. I feel like I'm number one in his life (even before himself) when I'm with B. But A doesn't not treat me like that out of disrespect. I feel like he comes from a rough crowd and never was taught how to act. It does annoy me... A also has a temper. It's just a part of him that I accepted (since he never turned it on me) until I met B.

Should I drop the new relationship B and continue the old deep love with A? Right now I am at a crossroad. I have to lose one. (They're demanding it.) A is a fun, interesting, complicated relationship with a temper, B is simple (kinda predictable) and respectful.

I go to college. My boyfriend lives in my hometown, and I still see him a lot through the week, but there is another guy who has a huge crush on me. This one does sweet things for me like opens doors for me, waits for me to sit down before he chooses a seat, when I stay with his younger sister he gives me his good pillow, lets me have his bed to myself, he let me borrow his 3DS which is a big deal to gamer guys (it's in my car right now actually). He asks me how my day is and if it was bad, he buys me something like my favorite candy, a flower, or he asks if I want to go hiking. He does small things that are so caring and sweet for me all the time. I love my boyfriend, it just makes me realize I'm not being treated as nicely as I could be treated.

My mom has criticized me for my boyfriend's rudeness before. He is the youngest child in his family so his life is "me me me." I sound selfish too, but I really do want him to treat me sweeter. I feel like I'm not being respected especially because we have a kinky sex life. Girls say they feel "treated like a princess" but I don't. I feel like I pick up all his slack. When I considered breaking up with him, I told him instead that he needs to give me more respect. When he asked what I meant, I told him a short list of examples like "hold the door for me, don't cuss so much when we're talking, stop using such crude humor," etc and he hasn't shown any effort or interest at all.

How do I make him respect me?

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Male half moon plakat. 10 gal tank, 80*F, filtered. I cycled it with a bunch of tetras before getting the betta. Rummy nose tetra says no toxins. (Small school of tetras with him.) But I also keep a pretty big filter in the tank (Whisper EX30) and even though he doesn't have giant fins, I wonder if he's stressed by the water flow just because of his nature. I've had the betta for about 4 weeks.

Fins clean and whole, energetic, doesn't act sick at all, it's just his fins have the bright red coloring along the bases. The only weird thing he did was make his first bubble nest a few hours after I topped off the tank after being away on vacation, so I did a water change last night to clean it up.

Do you think this red is just a new color, or did he hemorrhage? And why? Thanks.

I have been eating really healthy in college. I eat so clean and such a well-rounded, monitored diet that when I came home for christmas break and started eating the food my parents give me, it is upsetting my digestive system (which is embarrassing and uncomfortable).

The thing is, my parents think they are being really generous by feeding me and giving me a place to stay, which I agree is generous. But their diet sucks balls. How can I bring my own food into their home and replace their meals with my own without offending them? I would have to store it in their fridge and their cabinets, which feels intrusive and ungrateful. Is there something I can say or do to make it easier to do without disappointing them?

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This is a testing the water type question. Im not sure what to expect saltwater care to be like. What would I need to buy for a clownfish pair and their anemone (and what animals/fish would be good tankmates)?

Ive heard "the bigger the better" and ive heard people say some tanks arent even big enough to make a stable saltwater tank, so would a 75 gal tank with a 30 gal sump tank be big enough to keep stable?

I have 3 female guppies 1 female platy and 4 neon tetras (need 2 more soon) and 6 guppy fry that are big enough to feed with the adults but havent matured enough to sex and cull yet. Should i use 1 tablespoon salt per 5 gal or 1 teaspoon salt per 2 gal? I think 1 teaspoon per 2 gal is a little more potent but barely. I think it evens out to bw the same because 2 tsp=1 tbs or something. I hate math, im so confused. (And worried about salting my tetras too much.)

I have a 10 gal tank at 80*F with 3female guppies 1 female platy 4 neon tetras (i need to add 2 more soon) and 6 guppy fry. So basically when the fry grow ill be a little overstocked and need to cull my fry down to two. So theres no room for a loach. I also have a 30 gal and 75 gal but I'm about to move into a dorm so ive been getting my small fish adjusted to life in a 10 gal. I dont really need a bottom cleaner but id like to do everything i can to keep the ten gal as healthy as possible. Im running a 30 gal whisper filter in it, bubbler, automatic shut off heater, and 1 tbsp salt per 5 gal (btw i have a question on increasing the salt level if you want to check it out and answer). What is a good tank cleaner who would not stress the bioload but would keep the tank a little cleaner between gravel vaccuum days but not require me to feed it its own food (so no catfish)?

I have 4 neon tetras, i need two more tetras to stop their death match fighting. 5 of them fought in a 30 gal tank and they killed 1 so i moved the rest to a 10 gal with 3 female guppies and 1 female platy. I want to add 2 glo light tetras to complete their school instead of 2 neon tetras if they will school. Will neon tetras consider glo light tetras part of their school and vice versa?

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I have a 2002 chevy cavalier that had a bad radiator and blew the gasket last week. The shop replaced my radiator, head gasket, and a bunch of stuff like oil change spark plugs wires coolant grinded my head to be level etc, but today, i had my car in cruise and when i got to this huge hill, my car started revving up really high (was in top gear, 4500 rpm up a hill) when i blew a head gasket. Does the shop need to repair my head gasket bc they did something wrong or do i have to pay all over again bc its my fault?