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  • Which ring should I get?

    hey I want to buy a superman ring but I'm unsure about which one to get so I need some opinions. which one looks nicer?

    http://www.ebay.com/itm/Super-Hero-DC-Superman-Fas...

    or

    http://www.ebay.com/itm/Men-Silver-Super-Man-Stain...

    thanks guys!!

    2 AnswersOther - Beauty & Style8 years ago
  • How to move on from being molested without therapy?

    I know this is long sorry, but I do need help.

    When I was younger about 10 or 11 I was molested by one of my teachers at a private school I used to go to. He was the cool teacher that everyone loved and I loved him too, he was a good teacher. It went on for the whole school year, he used to tell me he loved me and me being naive would think that I loved him too. He would tell me that if he had a chance he would marry me, there was one time where he lured me into a room where we were alone and he kissed me and then pushed me away and then I turned around and his wife was there, she never did anything to help me and I bet that he told her that I seduced him I don't know for sure what he told her but she never tried to help she just made it seem like I made him kiss me. His wife was my academics teacher and he was my religion teacher. She would pull me out of his class a couple of times and make me stay in her class but she did not make it seem like it was for my benefit. I remember once he walked into the room and I looked at him and then she got mad and yelled at him and said why is it that everywhere you go she has to watch you (this was in front of a lot of other kids), then he got extremely mad and started yelling in Gujarati (that was their first language) and he stormed out of the room and all she said after that was when he gets mad the roof can come off or something like that. The only reason it stopped was because the school closed down, but they reopened with a new name and new management.

    Now this is going to sound totally weird I feel embarrassed about typing this and even remembering feeling like this but I feel if I don't say it then I wouldn't be telling the true story. He asked me if I was going to the new school I said I didn't know he told me that I should go because he was going. I remember wanting to go to the new school and begging my mom to go (I feel so embarrassed right now but I need to tell the truth) and of course I went to the new school, they hired new teachers so they rearranged the classes and I wasn't in the guys class anymore.I missed being in his class, I didn't miss the things he use to do to me the only thing i did miss was him holding my hand and I just missed him just being my teacher. I would catch him looking at me a lot and whenever there was the opportunity he would talk to me nothing weird just normal talk. After half the year passed by I started to realize what he did was not normal and it was very wrong so I said that I hated him and I wanted nothing to do with him. Him and his wife stayed teachers at the school for 1 more year

    then they left. I still hated him, all of my friends loved him and never understood why I hated him so much.

    I pushed everything I felt in the back of my mind and pretending like nothing had happened all that mattered was that I hated him and that's all that I had to feel about him. I thought about it maybe once or twice every week for the next 10 years but I never let it take a front seat in my emotions i just stuffed it all down.

    Now 10 years later he has a stroke the 1st thing I think is good for him, but then I start thinking about how I use to feel sometimes excited to go to school and then I felt bad for him, so I called him to see how he was doing and with a slight hope that he would apologize for what he had done. It was a normal conversation he asked me how I was doing and how college was going, but never did he apologize, I remember feeling angry and sad and crying after I hung up because after 10 years that's all he had to say to me. Ever since then I guess all of the feelings and everything I pushed down for so long is coming up now and I don't know what to do, I think about him and what happened all the time literally all the time I don't want to anymore, I don't want this to run my life.

    And I hate how I feel, like i miss him i hate that i feel like this and i DO NOT want to feel like this anymore, sometimes i think its my fault i feel this way because i could have said no i could have stopped it but i didn't so I think this is half my fault too. I just want to know what I can do to finally get over this and move on with my life i'm sick and tired of it running my life of him running my life. I don't have money for a therapist and I can't go see a counselor because my parents will wonder what i'm doing and I don't want them to know because I don't want to hurt them. please help me, I don't want to tell any of my friends because to this day they still love him as their teacher, and I would be totally embarrassed to tell them the whole truth.

    Please help me, Thank you!

    1 AnswerMental Health8 years ago
  • How do I get over being molested as a child?

    When I was younger about 10 or 11 I was molested by one of my teachers at a private school I used to go to. He was the cool teacher that everyone loved and I loved him too, he was a good teacher. It went on for the whole school year, he used to tell me he loved me and me being naive would think that I loved him too. He would tell me that if he had a chance he would marry me, there was one time where he lured me into a room where we were alone and he kissed me and then pushed me away and then I turned around and his wife was there, she never did anything to help me and I bet that he told her that I seduced him I don't know for sure what he told her but she never tried to help she just made it seem like I made him kiss me. His wife was my academics teacher and he was my religion teacher. She would pull me out of his class a couple of times and make me stay in her class but she did not make it seem like it was for my benefit. I remember once he walked into the room and I looked at him and then she got mad and yelled at him and said why is it that everywhere you go she has to watch you (this was in front of a lot of other kids), then he got extremely mad and started yelling in Gujarati (that was their first language) and he stormed out of the room and all she said after that was when he gets mad the roof can come off or something like that. The only reason it stopped was because the school closed down, but they reopened with a new name and new management.

    Now this is going to sound totally weird I feel embarrassed about typing this and even remembering feeling like this but I feel if I don't say it then I wouldn't be telling the true story. He asked me if I was going to the new school I said I didn't know he told me that I should go because he was going. I remember wanting to go to the new school and begging my mom to go (I feel so embarrassed right now but I need to tell the truth) and of course I went to the new school, they hired new teachers so they rearranged the classes and I wasn't in the guys class anymore.I missed being in his class, I didn't miss the things he use to do to me the only thing i did miss was him holding my hand and I just missed him just being my teacher. I would catch him looking at me a lot and whenever there was the opportunity he would talk to me nothing weird just normal talk. After half the year passed by I started to realize what he did was not normal and it was very wrong so I said that I hated him and I wanted nothing to do with him. Him and his wife stayed teachers at the school for 1 more year

    then they left. I still hated him, all of my friends loved him and never understood why I hated him so much.

    I pushed everything I felt in the back of my mind and pretending like nothing had happened all that mattered was that I hated him and that's all that I had to feel about him. I thought about it maybe once or twice every week for the next 10 years but I never let it take a front seat in my emotions i just stuffed it all down.

    Now 10 years later he has a stroke the 1st thing I think is good for him, but then I start thinking about how I use to feel sometimes excited to go to school and then I felt bad for him, so I called him to see how he was doing and with a slight hope that he would apologize for what he had done. It was a normal conversation he asked me how I was doing and how college was going, but never did he apologize, I remember feeling angry and sad and crying after I hung up because after 10 years that's all he had to say to me. Ever since then I guess all of the feelings and everything I pushed down for so long is coming up now and I don't know what to do, I think about him and what happened all the time literally all the time I don't want to anymore, I don't want this to run my life.

    And I hate how I feel, like i miss him i hate that i feel like this and i DO NOT want to feel like this anymore, sometimes i think its my fault i feel this way because i could have said no i could have stopped it but i didn't so I think this is half my fault too. I just want to know what I can do to finally get over this and move on with my life i'm sick and tired of it running my life of him running my life. I don't have money for a therapist and I can't go see a counselor because my parents will wonder what i'm doing and I don't want them to know because I don't want to hurt them. please help me, I don't want to tell any of my friends because to this day they still love him as their teacher, and I would be totally embarrassed to tell them the whole truth.

    Please help me, Thank you!

    5 AnswersPsychology8 years ago
  • I'm in a calorie deficit, and I'm not losing weight? please help!?

    I recently lost 28lbs by eating smaller portions and eating healthier. I am female age 20 5' 3" and weigh 131. I want to lose about 6 more pounds, it's been about 1 month and a half and I haven't lost anymore weight. I weigh 131 pounds and I want to be at 125. my BMR is 1422, if i multiply it by my activity level which is 1.2 since I'm sedentary it goes up to 1707. I subtract 500 calories a day to have a weekly deficit of 3500 calories a week which would equal 1lb weight loss per week. I have been eating 1207 calories or less 6 days a week for a month now and I haven't lost anymore weight. This past week I gave up and decided that 131 is a good weight so throughout this week I have been eating around maintenance I ate between 1200 and 1400 a day, and then yesterday I decided to give it another shot and see if I can lose 6 more pounds. But I don't understand what was happening before, I was in a calorie deficit so I should have been losing weight right? I think i might have actually gained 1lb, how can I continue to lose weight? Will I be able to lose 6 more pounds by eating 1207 a day? I ate 1660 calories today :( I'm losing hope, I really want to lose that last extra 6 pounds.

    19 AnswersDiet & Fitness8 years ago
  • I'm in a calorie deficit, and I'm not losing weight?

    I recently lost 28lbs by eating smaller portions and eating healthier. I am female age 20 5' 3" and weigh 131. I want to lose about 6 more pounds, it's been about 1 month and a half and I haven't lost anymore weight. I weigh 131 pounds and I want to be at 125. my BMR is 1422, if i multiply it by my activity level which is 1.2 since I'm sedentary it goes up to 1707. I subtract 500 calories a day to have a weekly deficit of 3500 calories a week which would equal 1lb weight loss per week. I have been eating 1207 calories or less 6 days a week for a month now and I haven't lost anymore weight. I don't understand what is happening I'm in a calorie deficit so I should be losing weight right? I think i might have actually gained 1lb, how can I continue to lose weight?

    38 AnswersDiet & Fitness8 years ago
  • I'm in a calorie deficit but not losing anymore weight, please help.?

    I recently lost 28lbs by eating smaller portions and eating healthier. I am female age 20 5' 3" and weigh 131. I want to lose about 6 more pounds, it's been about 1 month and a half and I haven't lost anymore weight. I weigh 131 pounds and I want to be at 125. my BMR is 1422, if i multiply it by my activity level which is 1.2 since I'm sedentary it goes up to 1707. I subtract 500 calories a day to have a weekly deficit of 3500 calories a week which would equal 1lb weight loss per week. I have been eating 1207 calories or less 6 days a week for a month now and I haven't lost anymore weight. I don't understand what is happening I'm in a calorie deficit so I should be losing weight, how can I continue to lose weight?

    35 AnswersDiet & Fitness8 years ago
  • How many calories should I eat a day to lose weight? to maintain weight?

    I recently lost some weight and i want to lose a bit more but I think that I was eating too little calories before ( I was eating about 800 calories a day before). I want to know how many calories I should eat a day to lose weight? and maintain weight after the weight loss? I am 19 5ft 3in and I weigh 130 pounds aiming for 125. Now I saw this equation that you can do to determine your BMR:

    655 + (4.35 x body weight) + (4.7 x height in inches) - (4.7 x age) = 1427.3

    after you get your BMR it says multiply it by your activity level and that will determine how much calories you should eat a day to maintain your weight. Since I'm sedentary it says multiply by 1.2 and i get 1712.76. It says to lose weight subtract 500 calories a day so that would be 1212.76 calories a day.

    1st question: What is a BMR? Is it the calories you burn everyday if you were to lay in bed all day?

    2nd question: is this equation accurate?

    3rd question: Is 1212 calories too much to eat in order for me to lose 1lb per week?

    4th question; is 1712 calories too much to eat to maintain my weight?

    Thank you so much!

    33 AnswersDiet & Fitness9 years ago
  • how many calories should i eat to maintain my weight?

    I recently lost some weight, and I want to know how many calories I should eat a day to maintain my weight? Every website online gives me different answers, I just want 1 accurate answer. I am 19 5ft 3in and I weigh 130 pounds. Thanks!

    5 AnswersDiet & Fitness9 years ago
  • Free internet on sprint phone?

    I have an LG Rumor Touch and I was wondering if I changed the IP address on my phones browser to use my home computers IP address, would I get Internet for free on my phone? I tried it and I saw when I tried to connect to the Internet on my phone the cable modem lights started flashing the ones that flash when receiving and transmitting a signal. I checked on my sprint account to see if I was charged for trying to g online, I haven't see a charge for data usage yet. do you think it works?

    3 AnswersCell Phones & Plans9 years ago
  • How to hide a incoming UPS parcel from my mom? HELP!?

    So I ordered a harry potter wallet online after my mom told me not to buy any more stuff and I was hoping that they would ship it using USPS, but they shipped it using UPS even though it weighs less than a pound. Anyways UPS will leave the package in front of the door and usually packages come during the morning they usually ring the doorbell and leave the package by the door and my mom is awake way before I get up. My problem is how can I hide it from her, if there is anyway to, or what to tell her it is. If all else fails and I can't hide it I'll just say that I bought it before she told me not to buy any more stuff and it was $5. Any other ideas??

    4 AnswersFamily9 years ago
  • Is this watch too big for a girl?

    Do you think this watch is too big for a girl to wear?

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0061S2TKE/ref=ox...

    1 AnswerFashion & Accessories9 years ago
  • Dumbledore and Harry and the Dealthy Hallows?

    I need someone to please explain to me thoroughly why Dumbledore wanted Harry to know about the dealthy hallows? I think i remember Voldemort said when he was facing harry for the last time in The Deathly Hallows that Dumbledore meant for the Elder wand to fall into Snapes hands, so how did dumbledore expect harry to get the wand?? someone help me understand pleaseeeeee. thank you!

    3 AnswersBooks & Authors9 years ago
  • Is Valencia Community College hard? why or why not?

    this is my first year going to college, im doing dual enrollment and im very scared.

    2 AnswersHigher Education (University +)1 decade ago
  • is college really hard?

    it's my first year..and im scared.

    2 AnswersOther - Education1 decade ago
  • Is rateyourproffesor.com reliable?

    I just wanted to know because i looked up one of my professors and it said that he was the worst teacher ever! and its my first year in college.

    1 AnswerOther - Education1 decade ago