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  • THC edibles daily use - how long til out of system?

    I ate marijuana every day for over a year. I stopped six weeks ago. I took a urine drug test today, and didn’t do anything special before the test except take a couple niacin. I am small and thin , have a fast metabolism, and drink a ton of water everyday.

    I’ve read a lot about daily pot smokers, but do the metabolites stay in my system longer because I ate the THC?

    Kind-of freaking out...

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    2 AnswersOther - General Health Care1 decade ago
  • How to add light to my dark kitchen?

    I have a very small kitchen area (5x9 maybe) the floors are a dark brown tile, the counters are a brown santa cecilia granite and cabinets are a blonde wood. There is a window but the room gets very little natural light. This room is so dark. I’m wondering what it would look like to add down lighting under the cabinets that would shine down on the countertops. Or what suggestions someone might have to get the light to reflect in this area. Would a reflective backsplash help? Any suggestions are appreciated!

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    4 AnswersDecorating & Remodeling1 decade ago
  • can I connect track lighting to an existing fixuture?

    I have a kitchen table with a pendulum light hanging down. I would like to add track lighting around this pendulum in this small area. Is it possible to splice the wires in the ceiling access where the pendulum light is connected and use this connection to bring power to track lighting that I would like to install around this pendulum?

  • Can I become a lesbian?

    I’m just having no luck with men and relationships. I’m a pretty girl, in great shape, am independently wealthy, but my boyfriends have been nothing short of selfish and pigish. Yes, I know, I am attracting the wrong men, but I try and I still find pigs. So I’m wondering - can I change to a lesbian or is this something I have to be born feeling? I don’t know, just need something different!

  • Should I move to Indiana? And if so, where?

    My daughter is starting college at IU Bloomington in the fall and I want to move near her not only to establish residency, but to be a little closer. I am in Michigan now with my 14-year-old daughter who will start high school in the fall. On a side note, I absolutely hate where I am and although my daughter is having a lot of trouble with “mean girls”, she still is against moving anywhere. I know, however, that a change would be good for both of us. I am looking for a town that is within a two hour drive to Bloomington, that isn’t too sleepy, has some action, but that also has that small town feel. Good schools, of course, and wouldn’t mind a pocket where the weather tends to stay warmer than other midwestern areas (as it seems to be the case in Bloomington, IN). I’m a single mom, and would not need to find work right away, maybe grab a part-time job of some sort down the road. I would like to go where the housing is both nice and not extraordinarily expensive and I would be renting. Any suggestions?

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    1 AnswerRenting & Real Estate1 decade ago
  • Can my ex husband stop me from moving?

    My daughter is 13 and has lived with me since my ex husband and I divorced when she was 4 1/2. He had no involvement as first, but over the last two years has seen her somewhat regularly every other weekend. I can no longer afford my home in Michigan and haven’t worked in over a year. My mother has an open condo in Florida she has offered to let us live in for free. I plan to rent my home in Michigan, and move my daughter and I to Florida to start over and get back on track. My daughter is not doing well here, her grades are poor, she is being bullied in school, and she is in therapy for depression. However, my daughter says she “loves” it here and doesn’t want to move. She has talked to her dad and he has told her that we can’t move without his consent. I know this move is the best thing for my daughter and for myself, but what about my ex husband? Can he stop us from moving?

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    12 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Should I move? Daughter is being bullied & I’m unhappy.?

    My daughter was tied up and choked last night at a slumber party. Her description was that the other girls were having fun with her, but that it got out of hand. Even though my daughter was crying and trying to get away, the other girls just continued and laughed. My daughter has bruises and red marks on her neck, but refuses to let me contact the other parents for fear of creating more problems. These girls have been my daughter’s “friends” since Kindergarten and they are not always her friends. These girls have cyberbullied her many times, are mean to her at school often, and this is not the first time she has been hurt at one of their slumber parties. I want to move her from Michigan to Florida and change our environment, but she refuses to agree and says she loves it here. I haven’t worked in a year, I an single, and have an ex-boyfriend who is relentlessly stalking me, and my daughter is dealing with this bullying. I have her in therapy, on Prozac, and her grades are not good. She says she’s happy, but as far as I can see neither of us are thriving here. My mother has an empty condo in Florida (kind of in a retirement community) that she said we could move into. This would mean I wouldn’t have to worry about selling my underwater MI home, I want to move, but would I just be hurting her more? Please any advice I would greatly appreciate!!

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    5 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • I went nutts please help me to understand?

    Been having an intense physical relationship w/ a man for over a year. I fell in love w/ him and he became an addiction. I was terrified of his calls after some time, because I was incapable of saying no to him. I would drive to his house at any time of day or night to have sex with him. He never took me out, never showed any interest in me, the most we said to each other was hi, good-bye and see you soon.

    His fb page showed pictures of him w/ beautiful girls and even one of a girl in her tank sitting in the window of his closet on a morning. I tried to get rid of him several times but always went back. I even discovered he had given me herpes and I couldn't stay angry with him.

    I was so distraught and such an emotional wreck I went to see a psychiatrist, she said I was bipolar and put my on lamictal, aderral, celexa, topamax and lithium. then I drank on it. I called him that night around 6:30 and he never called me back, then I continued to text him all night long escalating into anger, he finally responded in the morning saying he was sleeping because he was tired from work. I apologized, but then the next day started all over again he again told me he was sleeping and tired from work. i txt him that I loved him, he said sorry. Then couple days later i txt him that i was confused that we were only having sex and I thought I was in love with him. He responded w/ xo call u later baby. And then he never calledl.

    I then felt it necessary to explain to him what had been going on with the meds so i could better justify my insane behavior. I started sending him long detailed emails about my experience with the meds and how I thought i'd gone crazy and how angry i was at him for not talking ot me and on and on and on, I was also txting him and calling him and getting little responses, like "i left my phone at home today" This was going on two weeks now.

    I thought the whole time I was normal, but looking back i was not because of these meds, I was completely insane. Manic, compulsive, no control over my thinking or my actions, weak, crying, confused, disoriented, couldn't work, couldn't think and i just kept going after this guy. When i finally figured out it was the meds, I took myself off them and then had a mild heart attack (i'm only 41)

    I called this guy to talk to him because I felt I could make sense with him my behavior now that I thought I understood what was going on. I called him and he answered and said, "call you right back baby" and he didn't. he didn't i text him twice and he ignored me, so I sent him another email, telling him how I had gone off the meds and how i'd had a heart attack and how i was so embarrassed about how i'd been irrational w/ him then went on to tell him how much I'd missed him. He responded w/ "talk soon, I've been working a lot."

    I was pissed. A couple days later I sent him an email saying how I was laughing at his response cuz I'd just seen him 30 days ago and he was inviting me over just two weeks ago and now I realized that he simply just didn't care and that i would quite stalking him now so he could go onto his next piece of candy. He responded by deleting me from his friends list on fb. I was really hurt. I had been up and down, angry then sad, sent him detail in my messages beyond what I would have ever sent anyone and kept txting and calling even after he was ignoring me, I just couldn't stop.

    Then a couple days ago, I decided I didn't want to end it this way and sent him an apology on fb, told him I was sorry I had created the situation and that I was not mentally or physically well and told him I was wrong for trying to bring him into something he didn't want to be a part of and told him I'd wished him the best in everything.

    I won't contact him again, but I'm just so embarrassed, I've never behaved like this before and I know I did this because of all this medication. As I went off it, I was slowly starting to understand and feel what each med was doing to me indiviually. i can't change the past, but I'm horrifically embarrassed by the information I gave him, by the inconsistencies in my moods that were so evident in my txts and emails and also in how pathetic and unstable I appeared. I get up everyday hoping It will go away, but It's really not getting much better, the pain in my gutt is so intense. I know I'm not crazy, but this guy definitely thinks I am and i don't know how i can live with that.

    i don't know what happened to me, I've been off the meds now for three days and just starting to feel normal again. I'm looking back in absolute disgust, I'm soooo embarrassed. My friends keep telling me to chalk it up to 'sickness' and to move on, but i'm just having so much trouble getting past it. Please help me.

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    4 AnswersMental Health1 decade ago
  • Can I get MS from smoking from their pot pipe?

    I met with an old friend who has MS. He smokes medically prescribed cannibus. I took a couple hits off his pot pipe. Could I contract MS through his pipe??? I don't know much about the disease and nothing I've read tells me anything.

    3 AnswersRespiratory Diseases2 decades ago
  • I just started a home cleaning business I am doing well so far, but how can I find more clients?

    I have utilized Care.com, Craigslist, yellowpages.com, kijiji, GoNannies, I'm telling my friends about my service, I have run an ad in our local newspaper, I've secured domain names and built webpages. What else can I do? I know there are people out there who need their homes cleaned. Anyone have anymore ideas about how to get my service out there?

    2 AnswersSmall Business2 decades ago
  • Can my ex call a support order obsolete because of his own interpretation of an agreement?

    My ex (who has lots of money, but hides it all in his dads name who has the same name) was paying me directly a measly $500/mo. for child support. I opened a case with FOC three years ago and requested a modification, which entailed a financial review. He freaked and agreed to pay me a higher amount if I closed the case. So we agreed on an amount ($1450/mo.) and an agreement was drawn, filed and signed by a judge. The agreement stated that the new payment of $1450/mo. would only be effective if I immediately closed the case with FOC. So I did and he's been paying me directly the $1450. All was well for a couple years, but in the past few months, he's continually 2+ months behind. So I reopened the case to get FOC to collect for me. My ex now says that since I reopened the case, the new agreement is obsolete and says he only has to pay me the original amount of $500/mo. The thing is, the agreement said that so long as I closed the case, the $1450 would come into effect. I did close the case, so I followed the guidelines. The agreement says nothing about reopening the case, so I don't feel I went against our agreement. Can my ex really do this? Will FOC have trouble getting the support order for the $1450?

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    4 AnswersLaw & Ethics2 decades ago
  • Is it bad to vacuum different houses with same vacuum?

    I just started cleaning houses and have an awesome vacuum that I use in my own home. I have been using it in my customers homes. I need to vacuum my own home still, of course, but is it unsanitary to use this vacuum from house to house and then use it in mine? Am I spreading anything? Are there steps or precautions I should be taking?

    6 AnswersCleaning & Laundry2 decades ago
  • I signed a lease to rent my home and now cannot. the tenants are threatening to sue. do I have an out?

    I was engaged and going to move in with my fiance. signed a lease renting my home to move into his home. engagement cancelled, now the renters are trying to force me out of my home based on their lease. They do not take possession for over 30 days. I signed the lease 7 days ago. Is there anything I can do? I'm desperate and have nowhere to go. I offered my home well under what it was worth monthly and these people know they're getting a steal and are fighting for it.

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    7 AnswersRenting & Real Estate2 decades ago
  • I am totally obsessed with a guy and made a drunken fool of myself, how can I fix it?

    I am totally obsessed with a guy who owns a bar. I am a homebody and shouldn't drink, but had to go sit up at his bar alone and wait for him to show up. I proceeded to drink beer after beer until he finally showed up to work. He doesn't remember introducing himself to me a year ago and I know he find me interesting since he seems to gets nervous whenever he sees me in his bar. So I got sloppy, shitfaced, stumbled up to him and moved in on him. I felt him up his shirt and whispered in his ear "you are so hot." He was taken aback and said "whoa!where did you come from?!" Now this is where I black out. can't remember, did I sloppily and unconfidently stumble away with red slit eyes?? The next thing I remember is ordering another beer and the bartender telling me they can't serve me anymore. Humiliated, ashamed and embarrassed, he gave me a water and I stumbled out and walked home. I'm so stupid. Do I never go back to this place or do I start showing up more and more to show them I'm o.k?

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    1 AnswerSingles & Dating2 decades ago

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