Peace

We had a horrible break up and haven't talked in a month. Last I've heard from her, she told me not to text her anymore. On friday and saturday, I sent her a few drunken texts telling her that I still love her and stuff. Of course she ignored them. Today, I got a text from her, asking if I still have her bed. Huh? When I asked her about it about a month ago, she told me she got a new one. She wanted to pick it up on wednesday and she wants it for her brother. I told her I have plans on wednesday and am booked all the way until saturday. She said she can pick it up then. The weird thing about all of this is that she was replying really fast to all my messages, until I said "Would you rather one of my friends was here instead? Don't really think you want to see me." SIX hours later, she replied "I don't care. My friend is helping me with the bed." Am I just over thinking this? To me, it seems like she didn't want to see me, she would've replied right away, like all her other messages and that she would take me up on that offer. What could be going through her head?

We had a horrible break up and haven't talked in a month. Last I've heard from her, she told me not to text her anymore. On friday and saturday, I sent her a few drunken texts telling her that I still love her and stuff. Of course she ignored them. Today, I got a text from her, asking if I still have her bed. Huh? When I asked her about it about a month ago, she told me she got a new one. She wanted to pick it up on wednesday and she wants it for her brother. I told her I have plans on wednesday and am booked all the way until saturday. She said she can pick it up then. The weird thing about all of this is that she was replying really fast to all my messages, until I said "Would you rather one of my friends was here instead? Don't really think you want to see me." SIX hours later, she replied "I don't care. My friend is helping me with the bed." Am I just over thinking this? To me, it seems like she didn't want to see me, she would've replied right away, like all her other messages and that she would take me up on that offer. What could be going through her head?

A couple of months ago, she used to bring her ex up all the time. What really made me upset was the fact that she said: "today would've been our anniversary". I let it go until we were cuddling in bed later that evening and I said something and she said that's what her ex used to say. I told her this upsets me and she said that she's not in love with her but she still loves her and that it was a long relationship and that her ex helped her through a lot and that she's not out of her life. A couple of months later, it seems like when things get rough, she's pushing me away. I can't help but think that if it was her ex, she would let her in, but not me. I can't help but feel like she doesn't see a future with me. I love her with all my heart but I'm starting to doubt her love for me. What should I do?

We are both female and I love this girl more than anything but lately we've been bickering a lot. She wanted some space and it was great seeing my friends without her but the fact that she wanted space and because every time I try to initiate sex I get turned down, it made me feel kind of unloved. The other day, I was mad at her because she didn't want to cuddle. But yesterday, I got to see that she does love me even after all my bullshit. How do I stop picking fights with her before it's too late?

As a lesbian in a happy, commuted relationship, I am often told by men things like "You just haven't found the right man yet. When the right one comes along, everything will change". No it will not. I am finally happy with someone because I was a lesbian all along but it took me a long time to come to terms with it and I can't even think of ever dating a man again. Bisexual women do not face the same problems as lesbians do. Men love seeing their girlfriend with another woman and some girls do it just to get a rise out of their boyfriends. I have met plenty of married women that also have a woman on the side. How is it fair that you get to play two people at the same time? I would never be able to date a bisexual girl. I don't want to be left for a man. Am I the only lesbian that doesn't think bisexuals don't have the same problems as lesbians?

We are both female and it's understandable that she would refer to me as a friend in front of her young siblings, until they get used to me but yesterday, I guess her little brother asked her something and she answered "I don't have any girlfriends" right in front of me. It hurt my feelings that the person I love and loves me would straight up lie about something like that but i bit my tongue and decided not to say anything. Surely, there could've been something less hurtful she could've said. Am I just over reacting or do I have a reason to be upset?

For all you religious nut heads who come to LGBT section and pick and choose from the bible, which is by the way, man-written. Why would you say that the bible says it's a sin to be gay but completely overlook that it says you're not supposed to judge others? And why would you even care how we live our lives unless you're desperately trying to join in kinky, homosexual sex with us? I'm a lesbian by the way. I dont know who your God is, but my God made me this way and loves everyone. And if you say I'm going to hell for liking the same gender, you'll be right there next to me for being so judgmental. Get your facts straight knuckle heads.

I'm just coming out. I'm 21. I'm not really announcing it to the whole world but it's not exactly a secret either. I have long hair and I am very feminine. When I go to the lesbian bar, I go with my guy friend and everyone probably thinks we're together, even though I don't flirt with him or anything. I don't have lesbian friends. It seems like they're all in a clique. There was a girl that I thought was interested but she probably thinks I'm straight and backed off. How do I date females without chopping off my hair and wearing plaid?

I've decided I'm really good looking and that I should just date myself. Would you date yourself? Why?

I found this high-end consignment shop a few hours from where I live. Apparently, they sell Chanel flap bags for $750. I usually don't like buying second hand stuff, I bought my Louboutins brand new, but $3,900 for a dang purse is outrageous. I have always wanted one and was willing to save up to $2,000. Would you buy a second hand purse?

I went to New York yesterday to get my first pair of gorgeous white Pigalle Plato, 140mm. I guess I was more focused on how stunning they were instead of the fit. I am a 10 in US, 41, sometimes 40 in Europe. I wore the out yesterday and it was torture. My toes were smushed, blisters (my feet are really wide), and even the bone at the back of my ankle hurts. I looked like a complete idiot trying to make it to my car. How can I get them to stretch? I don't think I can return them as you can see I've already worn them out.

I want to order Louboutins from Neiman Marcus and for that kind of money, I want to be sure that they're 10001% real. Does anyone know? Or should I drive to New York and buy them at a boutique?

I just found out today I need to get it and the only day I can get it is Friday, or I can't go on leave (vacation) on saturday. My 21st birthday also happens to be on Friday and I have plans already. Can I drink after getting the shot? I haven't had any bad reaction to it in the past.

I might be in trouble tomorrow, and my mom is coming to visit on thursday. How long do I have until they put me on restriction? Should I just tell my mom not to come or do I have time?

Today, I was called into the office at work. I'm in the Navy. I'm underage. My chief and my roommate's first class talked to me, asked me to explain why me and my roommate were fighting, so I told them. I asked her first class when she said this, and he told me today, but we made up yesterday and she denies telling him anything today.

Then, he told me "What is this I'm hearing about you coming home drunk?" I didn't, so I told him, but he still wants to see me and my roommate in his office tomorrow morning. She has PT and can't come. I asked him who told her that and he told me that she did. She denies telling anyone.

Do you think someone else told him that I supposedly came home drunk or is she lying to me? And if it turns out to be her and I get in trouble, how can I get her in trouble for buying me alcohol before and sleeping with two second classes? She's an E2.

It worked fine before and then all of a sudden, it started doing this:

When I click on download, it starts downloading the file, without giving me the option to "open" "save" or "cancel". It just downloads by itself and then takes me to Winrar.

It doesnt give me the choice of where i want to save the file. How do I fix this?

Today, I went to Bebe and bought a $60 shirt I've been eyeing for about a month. Then I went to the bar, then I took the bags to the hotel room and went karaoke, not thinking much about it. When I got back, I noticed that the shirt was gone along with the paper inside the bag and the bag was opened, not torn, from the bottom. What the hell? What happened here?

I'm in Vegas for a few days. I'm 20. The date on my ID is messed up. You can't see it. So I was telling people I'm 24, and getting drinks until my drunken *** decided to gamble. I went to the counter to see if the lady can read my date of birth and she couldn't, but she was telling me how young I look and she was wondering how I got the alcohol and when she said that the security can probably read it, I took my I'd and left. What if she remembered my name? can they track my credit card purchases? Am I getting arrested tonight?

I dated this guy a few months ago, and I thought he was the prince charming, but then he told me that he might not fall in love with me. That hurt, so we broke up. A few weeks ago, we started talking again and I confessed that I still had feelings for him and that I made a bad decision when I broke up with him. So we hung out, and he started hitting on me. Then he told me he has a new girlfriend, but wants to come back to me. I told him that he needs to choose who he wants to be with.

Today, he texted me saying that he broke up with his girlfriend and that he wants something from me. I asked him what it was and he said he wanted a picture of me in my underwear. I told him no. Then he got mad and told me that I backed out on him even though I told him that i don't ever send anyone pictures of me in underwear. I asked him if he was mad at me, and he said "Don't care. Busy." I told him "Fine, be that way" and no reply after that.

What the hell is going through this guy's head? What do I do?

I've been in the Navy for 11 months, didn't take leave during Christmas or New Year's. I'm a big Cher fan so I applied for leave for 3 days. I'm leaving around 1900 that monday and I would be back before 0700 that friday. I keep asking them if my leave was approved but no one can give me a definite answer. They said that I will get a definite answer a few days before I'm supposed to leave. I know that my DIVO already signed it, now it went up to the air boss. I want to get the tickets today, because I want the really good $300 seats and I also want a plane ticket that doesn't cost me $500 because I waited too long. Everyone in my division is telling me to go ahead and get them because it'll probably be approved but I'm still worried. Should I get the tickets?