Kristy W

I have been with my husband for 12 years. We have had our ups and downs . But here lately things are not the same. His brother lives with us cause he is going through a rough break up. His brother is an alcoholic and drinks everyday. Me and my husband don't drink that much and never brought beer in the house. So hubby thinks it's ok for his brother to do this. Anyway the other day I get off work and my stupid *** brother in law tries to have sex with me. I mean he stood up and started unzipping his pants and asked if he could hit that thing. Like **** no. How could you do that to your own brother? Then all he could say is he is sorry. Sorry don't take it back. Well I debated on telling my husband cause I didn't want to hurt him. Well I did and I got called a liar and he didn't even confront his brother. I mean wtf is wrong with you. Well later that night we got into an arguement over something stupid and my husband put his hands in my face and i just pushed his hand out of my face the he punched me in the arm really hard it still hurts I have a big bruise on it now. My husband has changed since his brother has been living here. I have been seriously thinking about leaving him . What would you do?

Well his brother has been here for 2 months and he is going through hard split up with his ex girlfriend) Well me and hubby have 2 boys ourselves and we both have a full time job,we have hard enough time making sure that we are taken care of... His brother is 28 and he does do side jobs to make money. He doesn't help with nothing and he doesn't even help ex girlfriend financially with their kids. All his money goes on beer and cigarettes. To me he is very selfish it's always about what he wants. He gets his kids every weekend and then tries to keep them at weeks at a time, I don't mind this at all I love them to death,But its hard to keep groceries in the house cause my Bil and his kids waste alot of food and I don't allow my boys to do that at all. He want even buy groceries for when they come and visit. I told hubby somewhat how I feel but don't want to hurt his feelings cause that is his brother. But I can't keep taking away from my kids for them. My youngest had to give up his room for him which I didn't like at all. And when his kids come over he don't discipline them at all he lets his youngest son talk to us like we are dogs and he treats my youngest that way to. So guess my question would be .... Would it be wrong to tell hubby to choose me and our kids or his brother that want help out?