Brooklyn

So Iv'e suffered with self harm for many years now and every time I think I'm over it I end up relapsing, I don't want to but it's almost a subconscious choice now, take today, I've been free from self harm for 6 months + and yet yesterday I was sitting watching TV and a panic attack hit me out of nowhere followed by the urge to cut (I am NOT suicidal btw) and before I know it I had slices half way up my arms, I regret it so much especially since I usually avoided my arms all together except from 3 or four times on my hands and yet I also kind of don't regret it at all.

It seems like every time I make progress in not cutting I relapse worse then I was before, so my real question is will it ever stop, will I ever not go to that place whenever I get angry or scared? I do want to stop but after constant battling over the past few years I wonder if I will ever reach a point where I don't crave it.

I stopped cutting a while ago and only have scars on my thighs and wrist. I've always worn bracelets and my friends just thought it was a thing with me. In a rush to leave the house I foot them and I know at least 3 friends saw the scars on my wrists.

1 Ignored them and continued on as normal. 1 Kinda stared and then kept glancing at my wrist throughout the day and one caught sight of them and went quiet for the rest of the lesson...

How would you HONESTLY feel in the case of seeing a stranger or friend with them?

Hi so I stopped self harming a few months ago and was left with visible scars on the top of my thighs which I don't mind, yesterday my parents surprised me saying that we are going on holiday in august, I freaked out thinking they will see my scars, find out and get angry, my boyfriend gave me bio-oil saying it will fade them not knowing I started cutting again a few weeks ago.

Basically will the bio-oil work on both the old scars and the new ones when they heal and do you know any other tricks to hiding them that can work especially since I will be wearing a bikini?? also I don't wear make up so taking foundation with me would hint something wasn't right so I can't use that to cover them.

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I've been self harming for years through burns, cuts and bruises on my thighs, I stopped for nearly a year before starting again. The only person who knew was one of my friends which I regretted immediately and thankfully who completely ignored it, My ex found out as well and dumped me ...

Anyways I told my boyfriend of two years after he questioned why I kept refusing to have sex. I promised to stop after telling him and its been a fortnight now. But recently I've been feeling the urge to start again including cutting my arms which I've never wanted to do up till now, I'm worried I'm in over my head and the only thing stopping me is the fact my boyfriend will finally see my scars tomorrow and I don't want to freak him out more by having fresh ones.

I need to know how to stop myself from a relapse, not for me but for him so any advice please!!

I'm going round my boyfriends in like 20 hours and for some reason I got razor burn/bumps for like the first time ever down there!!! I need it to go away as quick as possible or least be less noticeable !! please please help!!! Im trying a cold compress now as I heard it helps. is this true or any other ideas would be brilliant!!!

I'm 19 now and overweigth I've already got my new diet and exercise planned the problem is my friend has been on a diet and says that her skin has gone all baggy and disgusting especially on her boobs how can I avoid this?

Right so this year I'm on a tight budget and I already know what I'm getting my mam and my dad and one of my neices I still need:

Girls:

Something for my 10 year old neice she's still quite tomboyish but girl as well

something for my 10 year old sister but is suitable for someone younger

something for my 3 year old neice (this I am really stuck on)

Something for my other neice who is 8 and tries to be grown up

boys:

For my 2 year old nephew :-)

I don't want anything really expensive so please give me ideas or even just websites with great stuff on. Thankyou!!!!!

Xoxox

hiya people. right so I live in newcastle whoop whoop and me and some of the girls are going for a night on the town next weekend the problem is I have nothing to wear!! usually I would wear a dress but I don't have any I feel comfortable in right now :-( any recommendations would be helpful but please bear in mind I'm a size 14 right now (hopefully not for long) so I don't want anything that is to tight or anything. shops picture or links are all appreciated as well as descriptions.

I know this is a bit detailed but please help!!

my very annoying little sister has just dropped my kindle in a sink full of water. I of course pulled it out immediately and wrapped it in a towel saying to leave it ALONE!!! of course no one lists to me about my kindle and my mother decided to reset the thing ...it has now went from the buttons working and the light working to doing nothing and being frozen on the screensaver with nothing working at all !! what should I do ?? I know I should use rice but has my mam destroyed the electric...stuff by resetting it ?? or does it just need to dry out?? please help!!!

xoxox

help right so yesterday I was on my phone and everything was fine and all that but then today ive turned it on and all my photos are gone. All the ones that had been taken on the camera sent over Bluetooth or downloaded I cant find them anywhere. these include baby photos holiday photos and last day of school moments. im devastated that they are gone please help btw I have a Samsung galaxy ace and have tried putting the sd card in the computer but it didn't work.

right so this is kinda awkward but I get really bad Pms like major mood sings bad but I can't help it my temper flares up and I cry at the drop of a hat. see this wouldn't be that troublesome if it wasn't for my mother she's past that stage in life yet with out fail at the same time as me she becomes irritable and defensive. our arguments are destroying the family and I don't know how to stop please help !!! xoxox

hey so these were my brothers books and were unfortunately lost with him. it involves a boy called will I think who wants to become a knight. so to join the school he becomes a whipping boy but it turns out he was never going to be allowed in. so anyways he makes a potion which slows down time or speeds him up. one or the other. yeah I know it sounds weird but I think there's three or four books in the series and one of them includes something about a knightmare (spelt that way) so yeah that's all I can remember except that there's a girl who's based on red riding hood but isn't...

Over the last 3 months I have been talking to a lad who my friend introduced me to...problem is we have never met. We text everyday all say and have spoke on face time and called each other. He asked me today to go christmas shopping with him :) I want to but what do I wear ? And what do I say ? I'm fine talking to him when I'm not with him but not so sure if we were face to face. I really like this guy please help :)