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Basically I'm 16 and I was in class the other day when my boyfriend decided that he was going to kick on of my friends' butt as she walked away after speaking to him for a second. I was speaking to him later and he said that she was being annoying so he decided to kick her butt as she walked off. I reminded him that she's my friend and that she wasn't happy about it and then asked him if he was flirting (because kicking someone in the butt is kinda flirty isn't it) and he denied it strongly but I'm not sure if he was telling the truth. I know I should trust him but his ex said that he sometimes flirted around when she dated him and he said he's changed since then and she doesn't like him anyway so she might just be trying to get him into trouble with me. Does it sound like he was telling the truth or do you think that he was flirting? Or am I just being paranoid as I really want it to work out between us? Please answer!! :/

Recently I have started to like some rock bands (for example black veil brides, falling in reverse and asking alexandria) and I have also started to act more true to my own style by wearing dark clothes and makeup. My so called 'friends' however have started to say that I look like an emo (emotionally unstable person) and that my new-found strength to be true to myself isn't a good thing. This is really knocking my confidence and word has got around so that now I am constantly faced with people asking me why I am an 'emo' and avoiding me because they think that I am the stereotypical 'emo' and that I am bad company. I just wondered if anyone knows how I can deal with this without pretending to be someone I'm not and going back to what I was like before?? Thanks

Recently I have started to like some rock bands (for example black veil brides, falling in reverse and asking alexandria) and I have also started to act more true to my own style by wearing dark clothes and makeup. My so called 'friends' however have started to say that I look like an emo (emotionally unstable person) and that my new-found strength to be true to myself isn't a good thing. This is really knocking my confidence and word has got around so that now I am constantly faced with people asking me why I am an 'emo' and avoiding me because they think that I am the stereotypical 'emo' and that I am bad company. I just wondered if anyone knows how I can deal with this without pretending to be someone I'm not and going back to what I was like before?? Thanks in advance

I know you people get all these type of questions almost every day but I really need help! We're in the first year of highschool. I'm a geek.. not particularly pretty and am top set for my year. he's really good looking though he isn't the kind who knows it and is in one class below me so pretty clever too. we're best friends but i really wish it was something more. we tell eachother everything. he wanted to know who i loved so i got my other good friend to tell him that it was him. it was really awkward but it didn't change anything between us and we're still best friends. he told me who he fancied and it was a really pretty, really nice girl who is also really clever. I didn't expect it but i was really sad when he told me and now I'm really down all the time even though i knew before that he didn't like me back. I had a dream that we were going out last night and cried when i woke up and found it wasn't real. I love him so much and really want to go out with him and us to be together and i can't get over him because i'm the kind of person that when I love i love for ages. please help what do i do sorry about the long story but i needed you to get the whole picture. what do i do i've tried being the best friend to him that i can and i'm going to carry on but i get really depressed when i think that he doesn't love me back. what do I do?