Nikki

I am 19 and have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months. We were really good friends before we started going out and we grew up together but lost contact for a few years. Our relationship is going very well except we did break up once and he confessed to me it is because he has commitment issues and is scared of being hurt. We are very close, tell each other everything; he is my best friend. And recently i've been starting to realize how strong my feelings are for him...I've never felt this way about anyone before. I honestly think I might be falling in love with him but i've never been in love before so it's a scary thought.

My boyfriend has told me that we were made for each other, he looks at me like i'm the most precious thing in the world to him, he is always, always there for me and is currently helping me with a really big problem. Yesterday when we were on the phone he even mentioned getting an apartment together next year if I decide to go to a college near his. One time we were having a heart to heart and I swear I thought he was going to say the L word; he looked like he wanted to say it but didn 't know how.

I'm scared to tell him how I feel bc I don't want to scare him away and I don't want to pressure him into saying it if he doesn't mean it yet. Any thoughts?

I have known this guy since I was a little kid; we grew up together. When we both moved years ago, we lost contact, but a few months ago we started talking again and we have hung out a few times since. 2 days ago he admitted to me that he likes me, and I really like him too. My biggest issue with dating him is that I don't want to truin our friendship, because we have become very close and I talk to him like every day. We can talk to each other about anything. His biggest problem with us dating is that he is moving for college, 2 hours away at Purdue Lafyette...he is doubtful that it will work bc of that. I don't drive, and he isn't allowed to have a car on campuys bc he's a freshman. I really want to make this work and I know he does too. HELP?

I'm 18 and will be 19 soon. I've been on birth control for about 4 1/2 months (I take a pill every day) and I have had only one period since I started. I have had unprotected sex while I have been on the pill, but my boyfriend also pulled out every time. I have missed a pill only once or twice because I accidentally dropped it in the sink, but I never forget to take it. I haven't had sex in 2 weeks. I have noticed that I get discharge sometimes in my underwear and pee quite frequently, but I have had both of these symptoms for a while, can't remember exactly when they started. I have had a one day period maybe a month ago, normal flow, but it lasted seriously like not even a day. Then yesterday I thought I was getting my period bc there was a normal flow of blood but that has al;so stopped. Yesterday evening brown blood came out...since then, no blood. I have taken a pregnancy test a few weeks ago and it tested negative. I don't think it was too early to tell bc I have been having these symptoms for a while. HELP?

My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a little over a month but he has made it clear that he wants us to have a serious, committed relationship. He is sweet and kind but one thing that I seriously cannot stand about him is that he watches porn online. He says he doesn't watch it a lot but I don't like that he watches it at all. Every time I usehis computer I look up at the favorites tab and see a link to a porn site/ video and last time I was at his house I was bored, and i'll admit...kind of snooping, and found a dirty pic saved to his computer of a girl sucking a guy's...yup.

One time when we were having sex he even put on porn and I noticed that he was looking at the tv more than he was looking at me...I'm not going to lie; I feellike crying every time I think about him watching it. I'm very insecure and this makes me feel like he's more into those naked girls than me, and that i'm not enough for him. I don't think he would understand it if I told him how I feel. He acts like pron is no big deal. Maybe to him it isn't but to me it is. I feel like a hypocrit too bc I use to watch porn a lot, but I was single at the time. Why does he watch it if he has me? What should I do?

When I was little my family adopted a stray cat. No one really knows how old he is but we've estimated about 13yrs. He's a really sweet, lovey dovey cat but lately he hasn't been wanting as much attention as he usually does. He is very bony and has seemed to lost much weight, he seems disoriented and often can't tell where I put his food when I set it down for him, he also will walk like he doesn't know what's going on. He rarely uses the litterbox anymore and his fur is all clumpy like he's dehydrated. He'll sleep in random places, mostly near his water bowl, and earlier I stepped on his tail but he didn't whine or anything. He barely makes any sounds anymore, not even when you accidentally hurt him like I did. He also wanders around ther house aimlessly and will circle the rug in my room for a while before deciding whether to come in bed with me or leave. It takes him a long time to walk up our basement stairs and he seems very weak. I feel with these symptoms he's getting ready to die. If he is dying, should I take him to be euthanized or let him die naturally? I am scared he is hiding his pain and I know cats have a high pain tolerence but I don't want him to suffer. Please help.

I have been dating my boyfriend for three months but things are not going too well right now. When we first started dating, he would want to be with me all the time, call me all the time, text me "good morning beautiful", and even kiss me on the phone before we hung up. He doesn't do any of that anymore. I rarely talk to him on the phone because he is always busy and i'm scared if I call him he'll get mad at me bc he was in the middle of something. I haven't seen him in almost a month and I feel like I never get to talk to him. So basically, I feel like I don't even have a boyfriend even though I do...Last time I saw him he told me that he started getting busy with school and now he has two jobs so he is always doing something. He said that he likes me and doesn't want me out of his life but that he would rather be friends with benefits bc he doesn't want a committed relationship. He said that he doesn't want the obligation to call me and he doesn't want to hurt me by not seeing me. I don't love him, i've never been in love, but I want to make things work. I feel like he doesn't make time to see me and the time I get to talk to him is spent listening to him complain or get mad about something (not me). I lost my virginity to him after we dated for only three weeks, but I don't think that has anything to do with what's going on now bc things were perfectly normal afterwards. Our relationship really didn't turn into just sex. I don't want to breakup with him bc he was my first and I doubt i'll get another boyfriend. So basically I don't think I can do better. What should I do?

I am writing a seven page paper on offshore oil drilling and need help coming up with an introduction. It is a PERSUASIVE and I'm taking the view that it should be banned.

I need my main points. How about:

1. Damage to environment (wildlife)

2. Effects on tourism

3. Alternatives for oil usage and future risks

I'm 18, have a pretty round head and medium-thick hair. I currently have bangs over my forehead but they have been bothering me lately. I only ever want to put them down when I straighten my hair. I want a hairstyle that is easier to manage and will look good on me no matter what I do with my hair.

This is me now:

http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f164/The_nickana...

I was thinking about something like this:

http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f164/The_nickana...

Any suggestions? Thanks :)

I am writing a story now. It is a romance b/t a werewolf and a human. I want the werewolf to be the human's protector, like every human family has their own guardian to watch over them but by accident, they end up meeting and falling in love which is forbidden b/c in my story, werewolves are only supposed to be with other werewolves. But I am not sure what exactly the guardians should be protecting the humans from? I was thinking somewhere along the lines of demons. But I need it to be something that my main character, the human girl, is in the middle of. I'm not sure if I should make her special somehow or just have the love be forbidden and put them in danger. Help please?

I am writing a story now. It is a romance b/t a werewolf and a human. I want the werewolf to be the human's protector, like every human family has their own guardian to watch over them but by accident, they end up meeting and falling in love which is forbidden b/c in my story, werewolves are only supposed to be with other werewolves. But I am not sure what exactly the guardians should be protecting the humans from? I was thinking somewhere along the lines of demons. But I need it to be something that my main character, the human girl, is in the middle of. I'm not sure if I should make her special somehow or just have the love be forbidden and put them in danger. Help please?

In my creative writing class at school we will be starting to write children's stories soon. I want to illistrate my own story but have limited drawing ability...I am getting pretty good at drawing rabbits! Any ideas for a children's story (for kids in 3rd grade) with rabbits? I would prefer my story to have a moral! Thankyou.

My parents are convinced recruiters lie to get you to enlist. I believe them, but I really feel like my recruiter is a good guy. I want to join the Navy, anything I should know? (bad or good)

Also, I have not recieved my overall asvab score yet, lk not added together or anything. But on the screening I got a 45 and on the real thing, the estimate (when the guy graded it by hand) was a 38. I know you need a 35 to pass so I did not do too well...but my recruiter said I did awesome and another recruiter was telling him how none of his kids ever pass.

When I looked online to see what jobs I will qualify for, they were numbered lk 88, 102, 150, ect. I'm assuming that is lk all the different areas added together. I will get my scores from the computer sometime this upcoming week. I may have gotten a little higher if the guy made any mistakes. But, do you think I will get the crappy jobs? I wanted to be a photographer possibly.

I met with a navy recruiter this past Wednesday because I have been thinking about joining. I wanted to know what things girls are actually allowed to bring. Will we have to cut our hair and will we ever get to look nice or is it always hair up? I haven't heard much about the navy till I requested information and met the recruiter. I'm guessing we can't wear any makeup or anything? I just want to know how much of my gender I have to give up, lol.

I'm 17 and will be a senior next year. I know I want to work with animals after high school, preferably wild animals like big cats. The thing is, I can only find Universities with majors in Zoology and Animal Sciences and I do not have good grades. I don't want to even say my GPA because it's embarrassing. I regret not trying earlier in high school but I'm not to sure I will have time to raise my GPA a lot before the end of the year (bc colleges look at your junior year). My guidance counselor tells me I am doing fine but when I talk to friends and family they all tell me the same thing "no college is going to accept you." I'm very sure I will not be able to get a scholarship bc I don't do anything (except choir which I recently quit and rejoined for next year). I need help. :(

I'm 17, pretty pale, round face and thick hair. I currently have forehead bangs kind of like Demi Lovato. This is me: http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f164/T%E2%80%A6 and http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f164/T%E2%80%A6

I love my hair when it does what it's supposed to but sometimes my bangs messup and they don't look right if I "swoosh" them to the side. Any ideas? have layers but they annoy me. I'm getting my hair cut soon so I would like some ideas for a new or new"ish" style. It doesn't have to be drastic.

PICTURES PLEASE?? I also recently dyed my hair light beige blonde (from walgreens, not professional) I like it but want some highlights too, know any good brands that are cheap. Also, what color highlights? I want to stay blonde.Thanks!!

I'm not going on vacation and my best friends go to different schools then me and we have different spring breaks, so what can I do? I still have one of my good friends, De'Jonette to hang with but we want to go somewhere. I really want to go to a waterpark if any are open, or some place fun but we can't spend a lot. Any ideas?

I have pretty Irish-white skin and a round head. I am a natural dirty blond/brown and my hair is currently like honey blond. I want to dye my hair red (natural red!) and so does my best friend but when I told my other friend and my two sisters, they said it would look bad on me. What do you think? Pictures would help.

http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f164/The_nickana...

http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f164/The_nickana...

My hair looks kinda red in this pic! It's kinda old though.

Do they both euthanize animals?

I think it's just a matter of time before Ted does, especially with his new movie out, but what about randy or Cody? I've noticed Randy being a lot calmer on RAW now days. What do you think?

I might want to own my own humane society one day, it's been a dream of mine for a while but I honestly don't know much about businesses yet. How would I go about doing this? How do humane society owners make their profit? They need money for caring for the animals and maintaining the shelter. Any information will help, thanks!