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I'm 40, maybe a bit old fashioned and new to phone texting and sending pics to people, but am i wrong in feeling that it's kinda innapropriate for other guys to send pornographic, (usually humorous in nature) to my younger girlfriend's cell phone? I have no problem watching porn with my girl in private, just the two of us, but I don't really like the thought of another man arousing my girl by sending her dirty pics. Am i being rediculous or do i have a point? Didn't realize porn was so mainstream that everyone did that on a regular basis. I know she wouldn't ever cheat on me or cyber sex anyone else but can't help being tiny bit jealous. To me, porn is still a very dirty subject unless viewed with special someone and i've never just willy nilly sent out porn pics to girls.

A few years ago i caught a girlfriend cyber sexing online with another man and it devastated me. Is that why i'm bothered by this even though its different and kinda harmless and meant to be a humorous thing?

Heard 2 people lately talking about having a 'mulligan' and it seemed like they were talking about something sexual? What does it mean?

Wow, weird situation here....very disturbing to me. The other night I was walking around an apartment complex on my cell trying to find a certain apartment where a party was. I walked around the back side of one of the buildings and it was dark outside. As i walked by a particular window, lights were on and blinds were open just enough where anyone could see in and out of instinct I couldn't help glance over. I couldn't believe what I saw! I stepped back, hell it was like seeing a live porno. There were 2 guys and a girl having a threesome, totally naked and going at it. Kinda hard to NOT look....hope i'm not a pervert. Well, I made it to the party and just couldn't get it out of my mind. I'm a very modest person about sex and don't approve of that group sex which to me is obscene and lewd. Ok, well I told my friend what i saw and he said "no way, she's got a boyfriend and I know him and he's a soldier out on military leave". We feel we should tell the guy that she's cheating because he should know that his girl is a filthy wh*re! Right? I feel we must tell him when he gets back.

Saw something disturbing to me last night while at a party with much younger people than myself. A young college guy i work with invited me. There were 2 guys there with a video camera walking around showing people a video they made the night before of the two of them having sex with a young college girl at her house. They were bragging about gang banging her and calling her a stupid whore and can't believe what a slut she was while everyone seemed to enjoy watching the video and laughing about it.

Maybe because I'm older and have never been with more than one girl at a time or even seen anything like that other than in a porno, it distubs me and shocks me that a girl would let 2 guys bang her at the same time. To me that's sick and very lewd, immoral behavior.

Is this common????? Does this really happen alot??? These guys were just as guilty of being sick and perverted as the girl but the girl must have been messed up mentally and a total whore to let this happen and let them film it, knowing they would share it with friends!

I know some people do that but damn i just hope the majority of women would not be capable of doing that? I could never be in a relationship with a girl that had ever done something so indecent like that. I could never trust or respect a girl like that.

What are your opinions on this? Have u ever done this?

Do you ladies get aroused if your boyfriend walks around the house naked? Do you like to watch him masturbate or touch himself? What if you're at a party and some drunk guy strips and parades around naked...does it do anything for you at all?

I'm kind of an exhibitionist when in front of girlfriends and it turns me on to be naked in front of them...and I'm hoping it turns them on too. Is it annoying when a guy does that?

I guess all guys want their bodies to be sexually attractive to girls. It's an ego boost. I LOVE to see my girlfriends naked around the house...drives me nuts!!!

Do you enjoy looking at pictures of nude men online? Just trying to figure out if girls are as 'visually' stimulated as guys.

My married friend told me that he's afraid his wife doesn't find his body sexually attractive anymore. He said she used to have a high sex drive but seems mostly uninterested in sex for a while now. He told me he can walk around fully naked and aroused in front of her and she hardly notices or seems to want to look. He sometimes will try to get her attention by playing with himself next to her in bed while she's reading or something but she never even glances over at him. Do you get tired of seeing your partner nude after a while? Do you no longer get excited by the sight of his nude body and become aroused?

I can't imagine ever not being turned on if my girl is walking around naked or touching herself in front of me! I'd get all hot and bothered.

Do women just not get excited by the mere sight of a naked man? Seems abnormal to me?

First off, I'm a 40 yr old man who's never been married. 15 yrs ago I was engaged but fiancee cheated so that ended. Up until a month ago, I was in a serious relationship I thought was headed for marriage but, once again the woman screwed up by lying to me about things and found out she wasn't the person i thought she was. Thats over with.

I've dated alot over the years in between those relationships but never could find the right one for me. All the women I meet seem to be either gold diggers or have bi-polar disorder, or they cheat, or we have nothing in common or they drink and party too much or something. I want someone simple, down to earth, faithfull and affectionate and doesn't act like a teenager! Most women I meet seem to be raging alcoholic, attention seekers who like to hang out with girlfriends and act like their single when they aren't. They think they should be just like the girls in the TV show Sex and the City. That show is a terrible influence btw.

The sanctity of marriage just seems like a joke to me, I mean 2 people loving & respecting each other while being totally faithfull for the rest of their lives seems like a fantasy rather than reality. Divorce has become an epidemic in this country.

QUESTIONS: For you that are married for number of years:

1. Do you still love your spouse the same as you did when you first got married?

2. Do you still find your spouse sexually attractive and do you have regular sex?

3. Has marriage become mundane and do you feel tired of coming home to the same person every day? Do Kids kill the romance?

4. Do arguments and old grudges distance you from your spouse to the point that you wish you were divorced?

5. When you go out with friends of same sex without your spouse, do you contemplate whether or not to cheat if you could get away with it?

6. Have you cheated and why?

These are some of the things that SCARE ME TO DEATH about marriage. I guess it's divorce I've always been most scared of. Most of my friends are divorced and warn me to never get married.

Thanks.

After 2 months of a great relationship, my ex already wanted me to marry her. She pressured me and if I said I want to wait a while, she'd get mad. She also pressured me for us to move in together after a month. She wanted me to have sex with her without a condom also. Sounds like she had another agenda besides wanting a loving husband. She has an 8 yr old daughter who's dad isn't in the picture. My ex liked to hang out with her friends 2 nights a week and drink too much and if I asked her to spend more time with me and drink less, she get mad at me and tell me to stop controlling her. She had always maintained she loved me and wanted to marry me but was distant alot of the time. What was she up to?

My ex girlfriend and I had a committed relationship and she said she loved me and I satisfied her sexually BUT I found out on at least 2 seperate occasions when she went out with her girlfriends for a night out and drinks, that she did so wearing NO panties under her skirt. WTF? I find this highly innapropriate for a public place. To me, this implies possible cheating or sexual gratification of some sort. She never gave me a real answer for doing it and thought it was no big deal. She's 30 years old! Do women normally do this????

I was wondering what stores sell those cool shirts like Charlie Sheen wears on "Two-and-a half men" show? They're usually 2 color with vertical stripes, not hawaiian style. I live in Texas but can't find them anywhere.

Thanks.

I'm not a teen but have heard stories about young teens, even underage teens having group sex at parties or anywhere basically and that they think its no big deal? I personally find it sickening and immoral. If girls are going around giving sex to numerous guys at random, then they have some serious problems, possibly they were abused/molested as children or just have terrible parents. Anyone ever witness this behavior and what did you think of it?

Just Curious. I'm 38 and have been a bit shy, confident, but still shy about approaching women my whole life because I just can never think of anything interesting to start a conversation and I seem to bomb everytime when meeting someone new. I'm not much of a talker.

Whenever I see guys approach woman and they start talking for a long time, I always wonder 'what are they talking about and what did he say when he approached her to make her like him so much??'

So my Question is, when guys approach you, what are some of your conversations like? What are his first questions to you?

I know I sound pathetic but really, its a problem for me.

Thanks.

I've seen too many beautiful girls out with Loser looking guys with baggy pants, hats on sideways, chains, etc. These guys look so damn rediculous it's laughable...at least to most people. Don't you know these guys are losers who'll never amount to anything and they'll probably live at home and never have good jobs. These types are usually abusive ******* who'll just knock you up and leave. When my friends and I see these clowns, we laugh at them. What's so appealing about these gangster wannabe losers? What's wrong with clean cut, responsible, hard working guys who are 'real' men?

...have sex with their ex-husbands?? I've dated 2 different women who were going behind my back and having sex with their ex-hub's and they always try to deny it.

My last 'ex' g/f used this excuse once: "I went to pickup a few things of mine he still had, but started feeling kinda sick so I just spent the night in the guest bedroom". Yeah right, like I'm friggin' stupid.

Ladies if you are guilty of doing this when you have a b/f, then this is totally wrong. To me it shows major lack of morals and decency. You can't have your cake and eat it too!

I have always been in love with my high school girlfriend. We haven't been together since 1989. I'm 38 and she's 34.

Everytime we've seen each other or talked/emailed over the years, either she has had a b/f or I've had a g/f and the timing has never been right where we've both been single at the same time. I just recently tracked her down again after losing touch for about 3 years and again, she said she had a b'f she'd been with and lived with for those 3 years.

She told me that if I'd contacted her 3 yrs earlier that she and I could have got back together. This is killing me. She hasn't said to me that she loves the guy, just that he's wonderful and all that. My Question is, should I ask her if she 'loves him'. Maybe she is just 'comfortable with him and used to him' but not in love. If she isn't, should I try and talk her into leaving him and giving me a chance?? Is that too selfish of me to try and break them up when she has a life with him now?

Gross question but...I was wondering if the reason some women won't give a guy oral sex is because of an odor? Alot of girls I've been with smell bad down there but can guys smell rank there too? Have you ever not wanted to give a guy oral because it smelled bad?

Guess it depends on a guys personal hygiene?

I've heard so many girls say that a man's penis is ugly and not attractive at all? C'mon now, if you are attracted to men, then how could you not be attracted to him nude? Seems so natural to be unless you're a lesbian. Men are always attracted to the female anatomy...dunno why, we just are! Its natural.

How could you give a guy oral sex if you aren't attracted to his penis? Do you girls just do it as a chore? Do you hate doing it and pretend you like it? Oral sex, giving and getting is my favorite thing, waay more than intercourse. I think a vagina is a beautiful thing and the sight of it makes me horny as hell.

Girls say they don't like porn either and never watch but gimme a break, I don't believe it for a second. I bet girls when together at home, in front of a computer, look at penises all the time, just like guys look at naked girls! It just seems like a natural curiosity.

1. You know how all guys when they pass a good looking girl on the street or wherever, we'll always turn and look back to get another look as they walk away. Why is it that girls almost never turn to look at a good looking guy when he passes? Girls almost ignore us sometimes in public. Are girls that damn snobby? Girls never give me a second look and I'm an attractive guy who is told I'm hot all the time. I'd love to get that second look!

2. Why is it that when a girl sees a guy naked in person or wherever they always laugh and its no big deal to them? When guys, see a naked girl anywhere its like we're instantly aroused and it's like damn!!!

3. Why do girls say they want a guy to be good to them and when he is, they aren't happy and dump him for an asshole?? I'm a great guy, gentleman and I don't treat women like crap but it gets me nowhere.

I'm a 36 yr old guy and I go to dance clubs alot on the weekends and I'm always attracted to the college age girls. I want to approach and talk to the younger girls, maybe ask them out but I'm not sure if they see me as too old? I'm a good looking, athletic built guy but are college age girls attracted to guys my age at all? Should I even bother with them?

I dance with them sometimes and they grind on me and let me touch them but I think thay are only teasing me and wouldn't date me?

Girls, I need your advice. Thanks.

Ok, Ladies, why the hell do you advertise yourself on online "dating" sites and your profile says you don't want a relationship, don't want to hook up, don't want a boyfriend, etc! Geez why sign up?? Do you honestly think guys just want to watch tv with you or just talk?? Get real.