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My bonded pets are very healthy and happy animals. I adopted them 6 and half months ago, both very sweet temperament sibling cats eat fine and use the kitty litter without any issues.

They beautiful light cream color with very sparse tabby markings. I speculate that after using the kitty litter - the litter has somehow changed their fur and I've always used the same brand and food.

I checked all areas they lay on - I do not have clothing/sheets with reddish or burgundy bleeding dye.

I changed the kitty litter brand after noticing the change - I even went to a professional pet groomer three times and their fur is STILL a reddish brown color.

I called 7 veterinarians - they had no answer or their determination was really vague and unhelpful leaving me with more questions than answers. Even though their fur isn't falling out - I'm still worried. I love them so much and don't know what to do.

I haven't had a Valentine since 7th grade(lol), being a divorced survivor of domestic violence, and a single parent; seeing my peers happily married/in relationships (all long term), seeing happy happy couples everywhere, wedding plans and bragging on top of being the third wheel makes things all the more awkward for me, and dating is difficult these days.

This year, I decided to make a Valentine for a teacher that I liked for over 12 months. Before writing it, I asked if he had a girlfriend or dating seriously so I won't offend her or put a damper on their relationship: he replied no. I handmade the card instead of purchasing one. It took me an hour and a half to make which I didn't mind; I love being creative, especially if its for someone I care about.

When I do see him, he'll wave but that's it. Other times he sees me, he doesn't say anything, he keeps walking. It hurt my feelings because it took a lot of courage as a socially awkward introvert to be brushed off like that. I didn't say anything offensive or sexual in the card, I meticulously drew a rose, tied it with a satin bow.

I'm too nervous to talk to him because of being rejected. Any suggestions?

I'm 30 years old, and I lost my virginity at the age of 19. I was in a marriage with my kids dad for a few years, whom I divorced more than 3 years ago due to domestic violence and adultery on his part. I have been a single parent since then, working and going to school for my bachelor's so my kids and I can have a future.

Since my break-up, I've only had 4 sexual partners.

One of the 4 men I did have sex with - he TOLD his best friend that's in a relationship (who I was cool with from a distance) that we had sex and that my vagina isn't good all. I was so embarrassed and upset. The guy is not cool with me anymore, no thanks to his best friend blabbing about us having sex.

I was set up on a date with a guy I've known since high school - it went great, and we are attracted to each other...but I'm really nervous about having sex with him if that ever comes up. Any suggestions please?

I'm 30 years old, and I lost my virginity at the age of 19. I was in a marriage with my kids dad for a few years, whom I divorced more than 3 years ago due to domestic violence and adultery on his part. I have been a single parent since then, working and going to school for my bachelor's so my kids and I can have a future.

Since my break-up, I've only had 4 sexual partners.

One of the 4 men I did have sex with - he TOLD his best friend that's in a relationship (who I was cool with from a distance) that we had sex and that my vagina isn't good all. I was so embarrassed and upset. The guy is not cool with me anymore, no thanks to his best friend blabbing about us having sex.

I was set up on a date with a guy I've known since high school - it went great, and we are attracted to each other...but I'm really nervous about having sex with him if that ever comes up. Any suggestions please?

Good evening.

Im recently.divorced (6 months ago) and.i was alone.for that time. However, there is a guy who.i.like alot, hea been my close friend for like 2 years. We have this connection..its not lust.or infatuation...i wouldnt say love either....there is a stronger emotion. He feels the same way, but he guards his feelings more (he is a Scorpio). I am a Cancer. Both of our relationships with our exes ended terribly.

I recently had.a.dream.where. i was a fish, a black and white tang, and i cant remeber.what.color fish.he was. We were swiming and ive noticed that.we.were swimming next.to each.other, never.in.opposite.directions. when i swam.one.direction, he did the same, always in.sync.

Could someone.explain this. Ive tried to google answers im not getting anywhere.

I have 2 wonderful children and i left my husband because i dont want the girls to feel that marriage is about fighting, lack of respect and communication. My husband refuses to divorce me and let me move on with my life. I dont want to take his daughters from him at all, im sick of being miserable and my kids seeing me cry. The girls make me so happy, but he has held me back from working and going to school to be a pediatrician. Any positive advice? Thank You!

A good friend of mine has an child abuse investigation. someone called in and said that she was allegedly abusing her children with keys and punches. However, we are roomates and we help each other out with our kids. She gets overwhelmed like most parents, but she always takes the kids to the park, or goes to the library with them and reads with them. she always shares and is a good kind hearted person and very intellegent. she helps others children with science projects and cooking and babysitting. My friend does not leave her chidlren with anyone, and teaches them how to read and write, overall has fun with her kids.

She was a few days from moving when she went out with her children, the child protective services came in without authorization and left a note stating that she is being investigated for child abuse. when she told me she was so heart-broken and devastated, because coming from an abusive home growing up, she vowed never to make the same mistakes (neglect, sexual abuse, etc.). She is going to school to be a pediatrician and she takes her kids everywhere.

My question is, how can she find out who called child protective services? Ive heard it was confidential, but there are ways around everything.

Can anyone help? i would greatly appriciate it.

i would like to change my last name but i do not want to come up in the search engine. is there a way i can try to keep it from coming up when i cange my name?

i have numbers and pictures on my phone and my screen is broken so i cant see anything. i would like to download them but the thing is when i got this phone there was no downloading software. i have a Samsung Messager r450. does anyone have any ideas?

Thank you.

I plan on becoming a pediatrician at nyu next year. i was told that the residency and the internship is nessicary.

Is it required and madatory to do the residency and intership? I would like to go right to working after i graduate and help sick kids.

Please help!

thanks so much!

A book i havent seen?

there was a book i read twice about 19 years ago, when i was like in first grade. its about a girl who was lonely and had this teddy bear. somehow she managed to move from the real world to the teddy bear's world. she loved the teddy bear and he was good to her for a little while but then he became irritated when she asked him questions about him. he was mean and i specifically remember one part when he had her get into a tub and sit in there. thats about all i can remember.

does anyone know the name of that book? im not sure if it was pulled from shelves or its still out there.

I'm married. And i keep thinking about sex, a couple of times a day, maybe about 10 times, especially with other women (its great), but im not acting on it. what's wrong with me???

Hi everyone! i have been married for two and a half years. we were gettin in on like twice a day. my husband recenly gotten a new job that requires him to travel a little farther than usual so he leaves as 6.45 am and comes home like around 4 or 5. he works long hours, which is understandable.

However, our sex life has diminished dramatically. at his old job, he worked the same hours, of not way longer, but we still had some kind of flame there. a couple of months ago, he went on a business trip and when he came back, he was acting jumpy and strange, i knew it was something, but i didnt know what. A few days later, i wanted to take pics of my 2 daughters and there was no room in his phone for pics, and then i saw another womans you-know-what, with his hands on it. i was at the highest level of pissivity. i confronted him, and he cussed me out, he was cheating and wouldnt admit to it.

I am not working right now, which i hate cuz im used to working, but im at home potty training a 3 year old and nursing a 1 year old, im cooking, cleaning , doing laundry, listen to him complain and talk about himself and how much money he makes. We dont really communicate, i try my best but it dont work. I dressed sexy, i smelled nice, i give him massages, even though my back is in pain, i gave him hugs and kissed him, he still wont touch me. And when im in the middle of sleeping, he then wants to have sex, and when i say no, im very tired or in pain he told me "forget you," or "you wonder why i dont do you." Yesterday we had an argument and i told him to (you know) himself and he said, "i do have sex with myself. Sex is not that big of a deal, there are things in life bigger than that." I was so hurt, i was crying, i have communicated my feelings to him, he just ignores me or says something that dont pertain to our sex life. I feel so ignored, hurt and unappriciated. Im doing so much and trying so hard, what is wrong with me?

I would like to get some Princess Jasmine stuff for my daughters room. I cant find it anywhere. I have noticed after 9/11 and all this terrorist stuff did they take Jasmine off of all their Disney Princess stuff for a long time, and they just recently started putting Jasmine on "Disney Princesses." the only reason i can think of is that since Aladdin originated in Saudi Arabia, and therefore its a Muslim country and negative media portrays all Muslims as terrorists...which isnt true.

Anyway,its completly unfair because she is part of Disney and there are people out there that would like Princess Jasmine merchandise only, not crowded with other people around it.

I dont want Disney Princeses, just Princess Jasmine only which is hard and frustrating cuz Cinderella, Princess Aurora, Snow White, Belle have everything that is by themselves (shirts, toys). I was 9 when Aladdin came out, and for many years you could find Princess Jasmine everywhere, actually she was very popular for a long time, till 9/11, she disappeared until recently. Odd.

Can anyone help, i would really appricaite it!

Hello. In my dream, I almost had sex with Christan Bale, cuz well...hes really hot....anyway, we were in a secret place - will smith's private hidaway (my dreams are wierd like that) and yes i am married. We were making out and everything and was about to do it, then I heard my husband calling me, and i was panicking and saying to Christan "Hide!!" It strangely, my 3 year old daughter was hiding instead of Mr. Bale....I can NEVER hae sex in my dreams. Its either my one of my 2 daughters or my husband that takes place of my fantasy person (not in sexual way). What i meant by that is Im always interruped just when im about to have sex. It happned to me on a number of occasions, even before i was married, gettin interupped..., my brain would not allow me to have sexual fantasies with i dream about! Its not like i want to act out on them at all....

help!

Thank you!

This is my favorite game. i have been looking for a while now and no store seems to have it because its old. Its for PS 2 (Playstation 2). Any suggestions?

mother in law guilt

a few days ago, my husband found out that was smoking cigarettes. Nothing heavy, a few puffs and im ok, throw the rest of the cig out. I did it once in a while. wen things got a little too overwhelming, with me not working and being at home as a full time mother and my husband always here driving me the hell crazy by finding something to argue about, i would sneak away and take like 3 drags and thats it. Now me and him mom was cool up until she told him i was smoking so he could be nice to her i guess. after she told my husband that, he fliipped out. he told his mom to get out, and we was fighting for hours. I felt so bad. He gets mad at small things and not only that he dont smoke, but i know he drink (he denies that, dont want to go there). so when i mentined that i'll be working soon and his mom said that she'll watch the kids, now he tells me today that his mother will never associate herself with me.

ok, this is weird: im attracted to my friend and its not a guy!! I dont know what to do. I was raised as a muslim and that is not permitted: i need advice and i would not like answers that says "get professional help" because i have done that and that didnt work. I like this chick, and i dont want to tell her either becuase she dont go that way but neither do i but, i dont know what to think. i dont want to offend her and embarras myself. Is it a healthy sexual appitite (if there is one) or am i losing my mind because i'm afraid of going to hell for liking someone of the same sex and i dont have a boyfriend!?! I have nothing against anyone's opinions or sexual orientation, but i just need help on this question.

I understand spanish as much as i can. I want to learn more because my daughter is 1/2 Puerto Rican. Im afraid to speak it around my best friend because i'll feel like i'll sound stupid and therefore i wont speak it. I been trying learn more spanish, but i live around a lot of people who look down on black people learning spanish, or when i try to speak spanish, i get responses in english. i cant learn if there isnt anyone to respond in spanish. thats why i give up.

HELP!