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Since young my father followed his father's footsteps- towards bad habits of drinking, gambling.

Everytime he had to pay for our study fees(books, uniforms) he paid it reluctanctly and insecerely.

He never manage to save any money, spend most of it on himself

He is not poor by the way, he earns more than average joe.

But he is selfish towards our family, owning money here and there but yet i didnt see where the money goes...

My mother has to pay a share of everything.

Recently i just got a job and i tried to give my mother as much as i could to help her to pay whatever my dad was to suppose to pay( house loan, daily expenses and fees for my younger sisters)

I paid for my own tuition fees with a study loan- very high interest and it took almost 70% of my basic pay.

Yet, he is forcing me to pay him money as it was his right to have his hands on my savings just because he paid for my living expense when i was studying.

The truth is whatever he gave me for my monthly use in Moscow- place i graduated from was not enough, i had to work my way through my uni life. Coming back and to pay back my study loan.

He didnt pay a single cent for my other sibling's tertiary education. Yet, he took my sister's money when she won prize for being top student.

he milked my mothers' EPF once she was eligible to withdraw them.

I had enough of his selfish ways..

I wanted to disown him and never have to see him again.

But how to start and where to go??

It's too late as i know old habits die hard..

I dont want my future to be affected financially by his debt and his selfish act just makes me hate him even more.

Please someone tell me what i can do.......

i really need some advice.....please

i just bought 0.5liters carton of milk. It wrote there energy value 65kcal(nutrition value per 100g) so how do we know how much of calories intake in the 0.5Liters milk if we finish the whole thing. I kept searching but it wrote that liters cant be converted to grams.So how do we count calories intake in juice and milk products?

just bought new ventilator..can anyone tell me where to place it? near me or near the window?

My classmates consists of 2 clans-A and B-they are of different race. Since they were racists eventhough it might be just their preferences to mix among people with same race, i don't mix much or get too deep with either group.

As the clan A, are not speaking the same language as i do, i can hardly get close to them.

But clan B they speak the national language, so i understand well of what they are talking about, but i dislike the topics of their conversations(gossips and untrue things about innocent people they can step their foot on)They are rude and not to mention,since they make up about 50%of the class population, they think that they are great.

I dont mix with them often but since they are my classmates,i need them sometimes.But often they talk badly of my friends which i knew so well tht whatever they are saying isnt true..i felt its my obligation to shut them up,sometimes i would rethink of the effect to myself.but i need to protect my friend.wht sud i do?

I am a medical student from RUssian State Medical University and soon about to graduat in year 2008. I would like to work in Finland and migrate as the prospect seemed bright there. Is it possible?i can speak in English ,Chinese,Russian.

I am currently 5th year med student in Moscow.Graduating July 2008. My interest in rheumatology started since year3 during the first assesment of patient by our lecturer in the clinics. I am determining to pursue my career in future as a rheumatologist. Can anyone tell me how to get from here to there??Thank you.

help!!!i think i got extra fat around the belly belt after my exams.coz during exams i didnt do much,didnt eat preoper food but only bread and coffee and some oranges..i m going home in 4 days..i need to lose it!!fast

we r in the market.but not much ppl seemed to be interested in dating us*i mean especially me..but if i didnt tell them what i m doing they will call me for second date but if they found out,they wont call me..y is tht? i m a pretty gal with great sense of humor and people do have fun going out with me..but are they afraid of inferiority dating v me?or they see the future blurred bcoz of my job in future?

My bf who s far from me had a friend stayed over,a female.He didnt tell me earlier tht she s gonna sleep in his bed in his tiny room until he told me on her second day stay.I felt very sad and upset for jealousy took me over..then he told me the person was his god sister..other than that he forgot his words to come home earlier to chat with me online since both of us are busy nowadays..there are other things too..he asked for permission to come back lil later coz he wana watch a movie with her.If he already made up his mind y does he bother to ask me for the permission?It broke my heart also when he made a joke about having a baby with her and tht they are having great time, while i waited for him at home halfway acros the globe.there are time zone difference which make the meeting between me and him difficult.i felt helpless the whole day,upset,sad,dissapointed,i know the person is a special person to him too bcoz she s his god sister but i cant help to feel this way.

i need to study loads of stuff. anyone has good suggestions please

i need help !too much coffeee after awhile is taking its toll

It s like a trend nowadays..so what you guys think about it?

being myself,my weight was like a yo-yo,sometimes,i m a skinny pretty lil lass,in the winter i m more shapely figure with some bounce..so here i am asking a silly question..but so far,i see that men who went out with me prefer me when i m skinny..are there any good reasons?I like myself better with bouncier and juicier body..in general,what type men like best?!

when we take it slow does it help to make the relationship lasts?if yes then how does it help?

Because the recent relationship potrays the time now and future ..not past that matters,right?Is it because he just want to learn from his mistakes in the past relationships?or just want to give examples of situation?is it normal to be angry when he mention her?

It's confusing.Can this be real?havent meet the person but fall for him and him for me by just chatting and viewing the webcam(includes exchanges of photos and materials over the net)

Especially in Extremely cold places like Russia