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My good friend called me this morning to tell me about some drama going down in her relationship. She has been with this guy for almost two years. Here is the story. His phone was messed up so he was using her phone for the past couple of days(mistake #1 if u ask me...anyway) she looks online to check her minutes and stuff and she sees this Mississppi number on there numerous times. So when she asked him about it he told her that it was some chick calling for his friend that's married(mistake #2. If he just started using her phone how would the chick in MS have the number to call unless he gave it to her) So anyway she sees the numbers again so she calls and talks to the chick that answers the phone. She tells my friend that her man has been calling her and that he said that his so called girlfriend(my friend) was his secretary That constitues a beat down if you ask me. So basically this dude is tryin to holla at someone else and it not claiming his so called girl. I told her that she needs to confront him and then kiss his azz to the curb I told her she doesn't need that in her life and she don't need a man to make her happy!!!

What do yall think? What would do if you were in the situation?

A very good friend of mine has been dating her current boyfriend for almost two years now. I was talking to her the other day and she told me that they had had a discussion the other day and he told her that he had slept with someone else prior to them dating. Now this is where the problem comes in, at the time that he slept with this person, my friend and him were suppose to be in a committed relationship.I mean they had just started their relationship and she went out of town for a week and this is when the incident happened. She now doesn't know what to do. Should she leave him or stay with him and is it really cheating. He states they started dating after the incident but you know a woman never forgets a thing.

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What would you do if you have a friend who is in a relationship with a bonafide drug addict? She says that it's love but when someone has an addiction they love nothing but their habit. She is a good person and I just know what to tell her or say to her to make her know that she is better than that. What would you say to her is she enables him to do it by supporting his habit? Please help