krislee08

I have been married for 15 years with many ups and downs. Right now my marriage has been good and I can't get into details of everything but I am unhappy with my husband with a few things. Someone told me that I have an empty spot that needs to be fulfilled with happiness and that I am holding on because I feel bad and I have been with him for 15 years. We have no kids.

My husband is very loving/very caring but there has been certain matters that I can not forget which is the guilt he feels with his ex wife and 2 grown kids that he left over 19 years ago. They never forgave him and never want to meet me.

I have been talking to a friend of his but not going out but his friend and I have connected for some reason and the chemistry is so there. I am myself, I am laughing, he laughs with me, we can't seem to get enough of each other. I feel I want to continue but I feel so terrible but I can't seem to forget what I read from my husband to his ex and her to him and I know this woman is always hoping he goes back to her. She is 8 years older than him and his kids are 26 and 22 and they both are having children and she sent him an email card for his birthday saying I hope that we can celebrate these births, birthdays, anniversaries as a family. He lives far from them about 6 hours and they don't want to meet me so he doesn't go there. She even wrote Love you always...

I found an old email from her years ago with laying a lot of guilt on him and he wrote back to her I will turn this mess around and stop smoking s you can be alive so you see I can turn this mess around.

When I confront him about this he says so what and that I had it on my space 3 years ago that I met him when they were married but I didn't do it intentionally. He also states that I don't bring him any new information and he feels that I have no right to feel this way and I am always wrong.

Well, his friend totally understands how I feel and I don't want to let go. My husband is not going to find out about this because we talk when my husband is not around and his friend doesn't feel bad but I am losing sleep every night after I speak to his friend for an hour or so and I can't stop thinking of him.

It is tough and I do not know what to do.

Any advice?

My co-worker is friends with the manager and he is an utter goofball. He can't answer the phone correctly. He will say travel 2 times with like a gagging sound like a frog is in his throat. My supervisor sits close to us and hears this and never says a thing. It is so annoying.

This co-worker hates speaking to clients. He will say something is available and then say oh no, it is not. He will say the ticket is refundable and then says oh oh wait it is non refundable. Most of the assistants hang up when they hear he answers the phone. I been sitting with this person for over a year now and just want to strangle him.

It is every day. He can't do more than one thing. You transfer a call to him and he is unavailable and you tell him. He goes hold on, hold on, hold on...

One client today said what is wrong with him? I am still surprised they keep him.

I had to vent.

Not on his penis but below it and between the crease area of his legs. He has had this for a few months now and it goes and comes but he sometimes scratches it so much and the only thing that he feels better is taking a hot shower and sometimes pouring very warm water directly on it and also uses some aloe vero lotion.

I don't have anything there and nothing itches me. We have sex often and I don't have anything but the itchy bumps came back.

My husband is 50 years old.

The doctor gave him some fungal medication but it didnt work.

I wonder what this can be?

Any ideas?

I am paying for my sister's cocktail hour for her wedding and I want at least 5 appetizers...

Originally I had two pasta choices, cheese display and veggie display but I can eliminate the cheese and veggies and add this.

Would guest like shrimp and lobster spring roll more than jumpo cocktail shrimp

also having

mini chicken cordon bleu

stuff mushrooms

mozerella caprece

Then when we go into reception we will have melon with proscuitta and then the main courses.

Is the menu for cocktail enough? This is a Florida wedding and my sister said they do not usually have that much at the cocktail hour...

I want to throw my mom a 65th birthday at her house on October 31st in florida. I would have to fly out to florida for this occassion and arrange with my stepdad to take her to church for 11am and we have to start setting up for the party at 12noon and guest arrive at 1230pm and have my dad bring her at 1pm.

He has to stall for that extra hour .

Is giving a 65th birthday surprize party a good idea?

I will have it catered but I am providing the wine/sodas/beer and cake..

My niece who is 5 wanted my sister's fiance to get something for her so he said something where she called him "good for nothing"

When my sister came home and her fiance told her what Jules said she said to my niece go and get the spoon so she knew she was in trouble.

My sister said what did you say to Peter and Jules replied I love you. She said no, what did you really say and she said I said you are a "better for nothing". My sister said she wanted to laugh so hard but she couldn't.

My sister said each time you lie you are getting to tushy smacks.

She said ok I called him a good for nothing and just started to cry without getting a little smack but my sister gave her 2 smacks for lying.

These kids ....

will it work if I take it to florida or can use on a flight?

Is it best to throw a bridal shower on a Saturday afternoon from 2 to 5 or a Sunday?

It is for my sister most likely at my Mom's for 20 guest and thinking of a catered luncheon.

She even wants her fiance to be there.

I saw on the real housewives of ny last night an event at Saks.. I loved the 2 glass pedestal candle holders... i can't find those candle holders for the life of me.

Can anyone find any links and send over to me ?

thank you

Come on give me a break. She stunk.

There is never an excuse why you do bad on stage.. You either suck or you don't...

Go Michael

Hello. I found such a beautiful bridal gown for my sister. She loves it. She is a size 6/8 so we can order a 10 for her and the seamstress can take it in.

I contacted the two wholesalers in china about the gown. They wrote back within 24 hours to my work email. They sent the order form to measure exactly which it looks like an order form from a bridal store. It doesn't look like they do not know what they are doing.

The websites are legit and come up with no problems.

It is the ordering payment I am worried about. Even though the gown is 150 on one website the other website from the other company is 300.00 it says bank transfer , wire or paypal... Nothing that we can pay with debit card. They said they make the gown within 30 days and we can get it custom if we do not like something on the gown.

The company sends the gown via DHL

Would you be leary about this?

Hello,

This is my sister's second wedding and the bridal shower will be at my moms house in Florida. I have to fly down for the weekend cause I live in another state. I am the maid of honor. I am also giving her money towards her reception but she knows I am throwing her the shower so we decided I will not give her money in the envelope which she is fine with cause I am helping out with everything else.

There will be about 14 to 16 adults at the shower and my nieces...

My moms house is beautiful and I want to make it special so should I hire a catering company to come and have buffets and it will be one server. I would do a nice lunchon on a Saturday.The prices are not bad in Florida...

Would that be nice or should I just buy appetizers from Sams Club with wine/drinks...

Which would be better? I appreciate your input.

I owe IRS for 2008 and they said I can make a payment plan with them. I did my tax forms on line and just can afford right now to send to IRS the federal tax which I think is more important right now. they are waiting to receive the papers and gave me up until 3/14 to mail and then told me to call back on 3/26 to set up payment.

Can I do my state taxes for 2008 in two weeks and send it in to IRS in 2 weeks?

When I watched the show last night Keeping up with the Kardasian's and saw how that reject Scott acted at the hotel for Kim's birthday I was totally disgusted. If Khloe was there she would have beat the s... out of him. LOL.

I thought on the show Kourtney kicked him out because of the way he acted and she must have taken him back.

That is going to be her life to put up with this miserable guy.

She is beautiful and can handle all this on her own and have Scott just have visitation at her house 2 or 3 times a week.

He is such a loser and she can do much better for herself.

He is only 26 years old who wants to be a father at 26.

What does she expect from him?

hello. reading up info cause my husband has grand mal seizures 8 months after a head trauma. He has the seizures every 3 months or so and this happened since October 2006. The head trauma occured in March 06 and from that he has what is called post concussion syndrome.

My husband was a heavy drug user from 91-98. He quit in 98 and was fine. He never had a problem with withdrawing from drugs he actually was able to quit cold turkey.

He doesn't drink.

In your opinion do you think the seizures are definitely from the head injury?

thank you

My husband and I have a lawsuit because he was injured very badly and has seizures and has memory loss cause of this injury.

On our claim it says this:

"my name" claim is derivative in nature and, unless otherwise indicated or required by context, the term “claimant” shall refer "my husband's name"

Can anyone explain. I would appreciate it.

We have trial next week for our case.

this is my sister's 2nd marriage and I am throwing her the rehearsal dinner and I am just playing around with samples for the invites and I said am I using your married last name on the invite or our maiden name? She goes don't use any last name just my first name I told her that would look retarted and she said she isn't going to use any last name of hers on her wedding invite.

I told her I never saw a formal wedding invite without the brides last name and she actually said to me do what you want, and I will do what I want.

I told her to shove the wedding up her a..... and not to bother me with any of these wedding plans.

What do you think?

Am I right cause my co-worker said it is wedding etiquette to have the last name on the invite.

If I was interested in going to college would I have to get my associates degree before my BA or I can go straight to getting my BA degree?

I am interested in psychology.

When would I be able to have my own clients at an office? Would I have to go for more schooling for this?

thank you

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Yesterday was my stepdaughter's 24th birthday and she still lives at home with her mom. My husband and I live about 6 hours from them and he hasn't seen his two kids in a while. They do not want to know me so I never met them and him and I been married over 14 years. Believe me, no loss for me.

I told him try your best for the past 3 years or so to call them and speak to them and see if you can make peace with your children. Him and his ex were only married from 1985 to 199. I met him in 1989 but we married in 1996. He didn't leave her for me. The woman he left his ex wife for died in 1992.

Anyway, when he called for the past 3 years he would talk to his ex for about a 1/2 hour at a time. Sometimes it was 4 or 5 times a week if he couldn't get ahold of his kids. Their cell phones were off or they were at work.

They never called our house or his cell phone.

So I felt during this 3 year period these calls led his ex on. she never remarried.

He tells me no. When he emailed his daughter 2 years ago about me and I am the one that told him to really try to make peace she or the ex didn't want to hear it and they felt insulted. (they are trouble)

and when he called after this email the ex wouldn't speak to him.

He hasn't called his kids in about 3 months. My husband said they have their own lives. His son moved out and lives with his girlfriend. He is 23 and his daugther is 24. She lives now with her boyfriend and also at home.

So last night it was his daugther's birthday and he called and the ex answered and just handed the phone to his daugther.

She really has some grudge with him .. I don't know what it can be and I get so mad about it. I told him you led this woman on calling her 4 or 5 times a week and don't say you didn't...

She still holds feelings for him and still makes him feel guilty cause she didn't want to speak to him because he hasn't called.