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So I was with this guy for 3 years on and off. Yeah I loved him but to be honest the spark faded and I wasn't interested in doing anything sexual with him. It was getting to the point I repulsed even the thought of it. No I didn't lose all sexual interest I started showing interest in other guys. I left him and I been seeing someone else and he wont leave me alone. Always telling me he loves me or misses me. I want to stay friends but he'd driving me crazy. I haven't told him bout my boyfriend yet cause he would try and start stuff and fight him and I don't want that.

So everyone here's the deal.....My past relationship lasted for 3 years on and off. We constantly fought over everything and he was always rude to me. He would get abusive and hit me whenever he was pissed off about something. He was emotionally abusive as well and would always put me down. He always holds it against me that he would buy me whatever I wanted and paid for so much. Its not like I asked him to and he acts like that should be the reason I stay with him. He cheated on me and lied to me several times but act like he did nothing wrong. I never cheated on him. I literally have no self confidence and I feel like I'll never be good enough. A few weeks ago I got the nerve to leave him and I gave him all his stuff back. Now he wont leave me alone always asking me to come see him and his dogs. Recently I have been talking to this other guy and we went on our first date last night. I hate that I have to hurt my ex but I don't want to be with him anymore. How can I make him give up on trying to get back with me???

I originally have green eyes but they change a lot not drastically but from dark green to light green and also sometimes blue. My friends always comment on it and the fact it looks like I have gold flakes in my eyes and a blue ring around the green part of my eyes.

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been trying to conceive for awhile now. My period was late this month I had this brownish looking blood for one day then it went away for a week. Now I'm having it again with extreme nipple tenderness, back pains, and I have been having some really weird off the wall kind of dreams. Could I be pregnant today the blood was brown and looked like mucas.

Okay well here's what I mean I recently quit being on the Depo-Provera shot which I was on for almost 3 years on and off. Well my doctor said my period should start coming back. My periods usually only last 5 days. Last month when I did get my period it lasted over 2 weeks. This month my period only lasted 3 days and now 2 weeks later I keep having a brown discharge that comes every now and again. Is that normal or should I talk to a doctor about it?? By the way yes I am sexually active and yes I know not being on birth control is stupid I just want an answer to my question

Okay on a daily basis I'm hit on by black and white guys. But here's the thing: One I'm not single so they have no chance and two I don't date black guys. Its not that I think their nasty or hate them or anything like that. I was just raised on the belief of not mixing races (black, white, Mexican, etc..) Well I keep getting called racist for it. I have plenty of friends who are black and I have nothing against black people but I just wont date them. Why does people think that makes me racist?

See here's the deal. I am 18 years old and I'm graduating this may. My father has been in and out of my life but for the past four years he has been trying to keep in contact with me via text and calls, sending gifts on Christmas and my birthday, etc.. My mother is constantly criticizing my father and it bothers me to a point. I understand somewhat of why she does it but does it really matter when he is trying to be here now. I would much rather get to know my father then not knowing him at all. I don't judge him for what has happened in the past. Well him and his fiancée plan on coming to my graduation. I want them there but I know my mom is going to try to start something. I have already told her I don't want her starting crap at my graduation but no matter what event she makes it about her instead of the person celebrating. I don't know what I will end up doing if she says something to them at my graduation. My mom doesn't understand what she says does hurt my feelings but I don't think she really cares cause she is kind of self centered. What should I do to avoid this because I'm not going to tell my dad he cant come to my graduation.

Okay I have been with the same guy for over 3 years now. We have spent almost every single day with me unless he is working. He don't have time for another female nor does he want one. My problem is his ex from over 8 years ago will not leave him alone. We changed his number cause she was always blowing his phone up. Then his freaking friend gave her his number again...I cant stand her at all she has always gone after guys I've dated which I don't care about that much it's just her trying to mess with my man. He is nowhere near interested in her at all she literally looks like a hippo now she use to look good back in the day when he dated her. She has a kid now about a year old and every time he is mean to her or pisses her off she threatens to take him to court about that kid. I know that kid isn't his she don't look a thing like him and at the time she conceived he was always with me cause he didn't even have a job then. He's not afraid of going to court over that cause he knows and so does everyone else that her daughter ain't his baby. He just doesn't want to pay for a DNA test on a child when he already knows the answer. That's $700 dollars for the DNA test and then he has to have money for a lawyer and all that stuff. I really just wanna kill the chick anybody help me find a way to deal with her before I do something stupid. Please and Thank You.

I'm not sure why she treats me so differently than my other siblings but she does. I am now 18 but this has happened my entire life. I'm her only child that doesn't have another parent or grandparents. I have 4 other siblings. My older sister got pregnant at the age of 16 and moved out but her grandparents raised and paid for her when she was a kid. My younger sister lives with her father and is a spoiled brat. My younger twin brothers live with their father too. My grandparents use to be around a lot but they both died when I was very young. My father has rarely ever been around pops in and out of my life as he pleases. My point is that I have always been here for my mother and supported her through everything: all the loser boyfriends she brought home, all the physical and emotional abuse she has put me through, all the drugs she use to do. Everything I never abandoned her. She has always called me her middle aged child because I have always been mature for my age and took on responsibilities I never should have at that age. Though no matter what I do I'm never good enough when my other siblings are around. Anything they ask she gives to them. All my siblings have iPhones and I have a crappy prepaid phone I have been paying for since I was 15 all by myself. She buys my siblings whatever they ask for but I ask for something simple and I'm asking too much. I don't know why she treats me like this when I have been supporting myself since I was 16. I talk about moving out and she practically begs me to stay. I don't want to stay around and be treated like crap all the time while my siblings are the golden children and I'm treated as the black sheep of the family. She needs to learn that she treats me unfairly. What should I do?

Okay I had to delete my question because I had some people being rude on it. Okay I stopped my birth control last month via a request from my long time boyfriend of 3 years. I am 18 years old and he is in his early 20's with a stable job. We have been having unprotected sex and using the pull out method. Yes I know its not an effective version of birth control. He doesn't like cumming in me that much because sometimes we go back to back several times in a row. We were not trying to avoid a pregnancy that in fact we actually want a child at the moment. My question is here recently I have been having a stiff feeling in my stomach and I was wondering what could cause that? We didn't think I could get pregnant but we wanted to try. I cant explain it very much it kind of feels like a pulling-stretching feeling when I try to stretch out in bed or put my arms over my head. I'm not looking for criticism just answers please about the stiff feeling.

I'm 18 and have been on birth control since I was 15 years old. I recently stopped the Depo-Provera shot because its side effects were killing me. While on it which was my first shot in awhile cause I was trying the pills and I couldn't keep up I had unprotected sex a few times. I thought I was pregnant I had almost every early symptom. Every test I took was negative. Now a month later people are even telling me I look pregnant and I'm getting nauseous in the morning. Its really weird and its starting to bother me. Should I go see a doctor??

Hi ladies. I am 18 years old and I recently quit taking the birth control shot Depo-Provera. I had such terrible side effects: swelling, uncontrollable weight gain, instead of no periods I had extended periods which lasted two to three weeks, bloated, nausea all the time, constant pounding migraines, cravings and a whole lot more. For awhile I thought I was pregnant but every test I took was negative. I stopped taking the shot November 21st the day I was suppose to receive my next shot. I usually start my period the last week of every month but I never started. I was having unprotected sex while on the shot but since I stopped we have used protection. Did any of your periods delay after stopping the shot? Can there be a problem I need to consult my doctor about? Also on average how long did it take you to get pregnant I have been on the shot for 3 years now and I would not recommend that sort of birth control to anyone. Please try and help me out!! Thank you.

Me and this guy had been best friends for a long time. Well we got into a relationship and it was great for four months. He would always tell me he loved me and he was so glad to be with me. Two weeks ago he became more distant with me. Two days later he dumped me saying his life was messed up right now and he needed to get it back on track. Now he wont talk to me at all. I don't care if we don't date anymore I just want my best friend back. What do I do?

Okay this is really weird....I have been on birth control since I was 15 and I am now 18. Well from January to September I didn't use any but I went back and got on the shot. I have never had side effects like these. I have gained weight in my stomach area, I'm always hungry, I have mood swings like crazy, and my boobs keep swelling. Also I took two early response test they were both negative but people told me the shot can giver me false readings on test. Please can someone give me advice if they have had this before.

I have been with a guy for almost 3 years now. He was my entire world but he cheated on me on more than one occasion and he is abusive and controlling. He has done so much for me that I would feel bad to leave him. I met a guy last year and he instantly became my best friend. I told him about everything and I had to stop him from going to kill my boyfriend. Well things started to get heated between me and my friend back last April and I have to say I think im in love with him. He makes me so happy and tends to whatever needs I have. He isn't controlling or abusive at all. I don't know how to break things off with my current boyfriend. He has gone to threatening to kill me if I ever left him.

Help???? :(