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Say you were being brought out to dinner, where would you rather go to see a movie, the inside move theater or drive-in movie theater? I ask because I plan on going to see a movie with a girl after I take her out to dinner, also take note that we know each other pretty well so this is not to get to know each other.

So there is this girl I really like, we are both Seniors in high school (she's 17, I am 18). Her birthday is coming up soon (July 1st) and I plan on taking her out and giving her a series of surprises, the last one being the biggest surprise. But the thing is she is going out to Ohio for a week or so because her brother is going to college there. My real question is, would taking her out in April be acceptable as long as it's a warm day? I really don't want to wait, I know she has feelings for me and I don't want them to go away.

Any suggestions are helpful, thank you!

So there is this girl that I really like, and I know she likes me back. She's 17 I am 18. Anyway her birthday is July 1st, but she is going to Ohio for awhile because that's where her brother is going to collage. So I am planning to take her out to dinner sometime in June. I do plan on spending a good amount of money on this day (and I don't mean all in one day, over a time of 2-3 months) somewhere between $300-$500. I don't have a problem spending this kind of money on her, and I have plenty of time to save it up as I have a job. This is exactly how I plan the day to go. I'm going to let her know a few days in advanced that I am going to take her out to dinner for her birthday. When that day comes I am going to show up to her door with flowers, before I leave my house I am going to say "Your birthday surprise starts when I show up, be ready to answer the door when I arrive". I then plan on taking her to Olive Garden, after dinner I am going to suggest that we go for a short walk in the park that is about 5 minutes away. I am then going to tell her that I have a final surprise and no matter how much I paid for that surprise, that does not mean I'm trying to force her into a relationship. The last surprise is a life size teddy bear (little does she know that I will also have a sterling silver necklace in my pocket, which is the real surprise) Here's what it looks like:

http://www.zales.com/product/index.jsp?productId=1...

Green is her favorite color so I know she will love it. Before I give it to her, I am going to ask her to take the one she has on off. I know she will have one on, she does all the time. I'm going to say something like "Hey, that's a cool necklace may I see it?". When she hands it to me I am going to ask her to face away from me and close her eyes, this is when I will put the one I bought on her. I am almost sure that she will cry, which is not my intent. I'm pretty sure I know where things will go from there. Can anyone think of anything to make it that much more special, or should I stick with my original plan? All suggestions welcomed!

So, there is this girl I really like and her birthday is in 4 months (July 1st) and I plan on making it one birthday that she will never forget. Basically I plan on taking her out to a nice restaurant for dinner, then go for a walk in the park. But it doesn't end there, I plan on singing and playing a song to her on guitar (that I hope I can pick up on Sunday). Then after that I am going to give her a sterling silver necklace with open hearts with the engraving "Endless Beauty". Now my question is, what length chain would be best? 16 inch, 18inch, or 20 inch? Here's what the necklace looks like:

https://www.kay.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/Orde...

Keep in mind that we both like each other so I know that she won't find any of this creepy, and I have no problem spending the funds needed for everything. Thank you for your insight.

So there is this girl that I really like (she likes me back so I know this is not a lost cause), and I plan on taking her out to dinner on her birthday then going for a walk in the park. I have always wanted to learn to play guitar so what better time than this, while in the park I plan on playing a song on the guitar and sing it to her. Also keep in mind that I have 4 months to prepare for her birthday, I want to make it as special as I can for her. I am torn on a few songs, and yes they are mushy love songs.

The songs are:

All 4 One - Beautiful As You

All 4 One - I swear

All 4 One - When I Needed An Angel

Ladies, which song would you rather have your boyfriend/guy you like play and sing to you?

Guys, which song would you rather play and sing to your girlfriend/girl you like?

(This is assuming that the girl you like, likes you back. Just to make that clear)

All answers are appreciated.

So I wrote a Valentines poem for a girl I really like (I am 18, shes 17), I know she likes me back because she told me. So im not really afraid that it will creep her out. We plan on moving our relationship to the next level once we graduate, which is in about 4 months. She told me that her life is too crazy to be in a relationship right now and that we should wait. So I am waiting, and that's what this poem is kinda about. Anyway, Ladies would you rather get a poem (via text message, its a short poem) when you wake up or later that evening? Also we don't go to the same school so I can't just give it to her in writing, that's why im doing it over a text message and I just got my taxes back last night (I was short on cash) so I had no time for this poem to be attached to a bear or something. All opinions are appreciated!

So im going to a Semi-Formal dance with a girl I really like next Saturday. Shes 17, im 18. We have known each other for almost a year now. I already have planned in my mind that I am ready to make a fool of myself while at the dance, this is because im not the kind of person to dance. However I am looking forward to the slow dance, reason being because I have prepared a poem/love letter for her. Which tells how my life was before I met her, hows shes affected it and how I would like it to turn out. I have given her a poem before which basically said I think that shes beautiful in every way. She said it made her cry in a good way. So I have my reasons to think she likes me, besides im ready to put it all on the table. Im going in all or nothing. But what ever happens I want the night to be as special for her as possible. Im buying her flowers, bringing them to her before the dance (im picking her up) im going to open up doors, the whole 9 yards. Any unique things I could do to make it that much more special for her. Thank you for your answers!

So im going to a semi formal dance in about a week and a half with a girl I like, we have known each other for almost a year now (she is 17, im 18). We go to different schools but we work at the same place. So anyway I plan on giving her a poem/love letter that I wrote from scratch sometime near the end of the dance, it basically tells how my life was before I met her, how shes affected my life, and how I would like things to turn out. I did ask her out a few months ago, at first she said yes. Then a few days later said she wanted to keep her work life and personal life separate, which I understand and accepted, for the time being. That was until I over heard her say that her past boyfriends just used her and turned out to be gay, this is where my determination comes from. So ladies, say you also liked the guy that you went to the dance with, how do you think you would react to the poem/love letter?

If you want to read the poem I wrote just say so and ill edit it in! Also a poem does not have to rhyme, in this case this does not rhyme therefor if you want you can just call it a love letter.

Thank you!

Let me get started by saying a poem does not have to rhyme it can be whatever anyone wants it to be as long as its from the heart, the one I wrote on this occasion could be a free flow poem or just a simple love letter, if you prefer. I have given her a poem before and she said it made her cry, in a good way. If you need more background info please refer to this question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqzNZ...

Its a bit longer but as more info, here is the poem/love letter. This is all from the heart.

"Before I met you, I had no inspiration in life,

I wasn't sure if I would ever find that special person,

I woke up every morning, empty not wanting to do anything,

It was almost as if the empty feelings were taking over my life.

But when I started to get to know you, that all turned around,

For once I was happy to be around a personality as astounding as yours,

You have affected my life in ways I cant even explain,

Wanting to be around you gave me the strength to keep going each day.

I have never met anyone that as affected my life so much,

I have never met anyone who's pure beauty takes my breath away,

I have never met anyone that gave me a chance to show what I was worth,

That was until I met you.

Often my nervousness trumps my want to tell you how I feel,

But it was the things that you have been through that encouraged me,

These things I want to make go away, its determination I feel right now,

And that determination has pushed me to where I am right now, with you.

I know your life is full of stress right now.

All I want to do is make it less.

I cant wrap my mind around how you handle it all.

I know you do all this to succeed in life.

But sometimes you need someone there to caress you.

And when you need someone to listen, and support you,

I'll be happy to be that someone.

No matter what you are going through, I will still be there.

Let me just say what I've wanted to say for so long.

You have made me feel like I have never felt before,

No matter what you or anyone else thinks, you will always be beautiful to me,

You tell me there is so much wrong with you, but all I see is perfection.

I know how lucky I am to have you as a friend,

All the past guys you dated were fools to let you go,

And it would be an honor to take our relationship to the next level."

I have edited this a lot over the past month, im sure it will change as time goes on. I think I know how she will react to it, should I give this to her before the dance or after? My thinking about giving it to her before the dance is that it would set the mood. Any advice will be appreciated.

Before I get started let me say this, this is a long question so if you can't sit and read 2000 words then skip to the poem/love letter and tell me if I should give this to her before the dance or after. Also a poem does not have to rhyme, it can be anything anyone wants it to be as long as its from the heart, the one I wrote for this occasion could be a free flow poem or just a love letter, if you prefer. So anyway im taking this girl to a semi-formal school dance (Shes 17, im 18) in about two weeks, and I am not sure weather to give this poem/love letter to her just as we get to the dance or just after the dance is over. My thinking about giving it to her before would be that it would set the mood for the rest of the night. Good idea or not? I have given her a poem before that was way shorter but she said it made her cry, in a good way. Some background info: We are both seniors in high school, we go to different schools but work at the same place. We don't see each other very much through out the week but when we work at the same time we always talk and we have known each other for almost a year now, and there is some flirting sometimes. I had asked her out a couple of months ago and she said yes, at first. A couple of days later she said that she wanted to keep her work life and personal life separate but could hang out as friends(Which I understood and accepted for the time being) but I am determined to get her. Her last few ex's turned out to be gay and just used her, this is the main source for my drive. She deserves better than these scum. I believe that I can provide her with better. So without further wait here is the poem/love letter I wrote. This tells how my life was before I met her, how shes changed my life and how I would like it to turn out. This is all from the heart.

"Before I met you, I had no isperation in life,

I wasn't sure if I would ever find that special person,

I woke up every morning, empty not wanting to do anything,

It was almost as if the empty feelings were taking over my life.

But when I started to get to know you, that all turned around,

For once I was happy to be around a personality as astounding as yours,

You have affected my life in ways I cant even explain,

Wanting to be around you gave me the strength to keep going each day.

I have never met anyone that as affected my life so much,

I have never met anyone who's pure beauty takes my breath away,

I have never met anyone that gave me a chance to show what I was worth,

That was until I met you.

Often my nervousness trumps my want to tell you how I feel,

But it was the things that you have been through that encouraged me,

These things I want to make go away, its determination I feel right now,

And that determination has pushed me to where I am right now, with you.

I know your life is full of stress right now.

All I want to do is make it less.

I cant wrap my mind around how you handle it all.

I know you do all this to succeed in life.

But sometimes you need someone there to caress you.

And when you need someone to listen, and support you,

I'll be happy to be that someone.

No matter what you are going through, I will still be there.

Let me just say what I've wanted to say for so long.

You have made me feel like I have never felt before,

No matter what you or anyone else thinks, you will always be beautiful to me,

You tell me there is so much wrong with you, but all I see is perfection.

I know how lucky I am to have you as a friend,

All the past guys you dated were fools to let you go,

And it would be an honor to take our relationship to the next level."

I have edited this a lot over the past month, im sure it will change as time goes on. I think I know how she will react to it, should I give this to her before the dance or after? Any advice will be appreciated and I apologize for this being so long.

So there is this girl I like that I have wrote a poem for, I know she likes to read poems because I asked... She has gotten one before but it was copied offline so it had no meaning. So I toke a different rout and decided to make my own, one from my heart. Some background info: We have known each other for almost 2 years now, I have only recently started liking her for the past 4 months of so. We work at the same place and we get along great, I asked her out once in which she said yes. But days later said she wanted to keep her personal life and work life separate (Which I understood and accepted, for the time being). The following poem basically tells how my life was before her, how shes affected it, and how I would like it to turn out. This is all from my heart you will NOT find this online, other than here that is,

"Before I met you, I had no inspiration in life,

I wasn't sure if I would ever find that special person,

I woke up every morning, angry not wanting to do anything,

It was almost as if the empty feelings were taking over my life.

But when I started to talk to you, that all turned around,

For once I was happy to be around a personality as astounding as yours,

You have affected my life in ways I cant even explain,

Wanting to be around you gave me the strength to keep going each day.

Often my nervousness trumped my want to tell you how I feel,

But it was the things that you have been through that encouraged me,

These things I want to make go away, its determination I feel right now,

You may not be looking for a relationship, but I still want to be there.

I know your life is full of stress right now.

I see reasons why and I wonder, how?

How your able to handle all this stress.

I know you do all this to reach success.

But sometimes you need someone there to caress you.

And when you need someone to listen to you, and support you,

I'll be happy to be that person who will be there to suppress your sadness.

More or less what im trying to say is, when your ready. I will be too.

So Karleena, if you didn't know how I feel. You should now."

I would like some suggestions of a place that we can talk and have a good time, so that being said going to a movie and dinner are out of the question(Shes 17, im 18). We went bowling last night, which was fun. We didn't really get to talk much because music was blasting the whole time we were there. I was thinking mini golf but that will have to wait until the snow is gone. Any suggestions will be appreciated. Thank you.

Ok I will lay the whole story out.

We have known each other for about a year now Im 18, shes 17, we work at the same place and we get along great. I understand that co-workers are not supposed to date but I think we could keep it out of the work place. So anyway about two months ago she went though a tough time, she found out that recent guys that she dated were actually gay and just using her, and she also had gotten stood up. So I took the chance and I asked her out, initially she said yes. Then about a week later she says that if we did end up going out and it went wrong then work would be different (which I completely understand) She talked it over with her mom and she decided that she wanted to keep her personal and work life separate. (Again I understand) But I can't get her out of my mind, throughout the whole day no matter what im doing, I always think of her. We are going bowling next Saturday, just as friends. I planned on saying something like "I know your not looking for a relationship right now, but I want you to know that if you ever need someone there for you, then I would be happy to be that person" or something along those lines. I want to get the point across that I actually care for her and want to be in her life. Any input will be valued.

Please listen to Beautiful as you - All 4 One

And tell me what you think. I had planned on having a girl that I like listen to this to show how beautiful I think she is. Shes dated a few d bags in the past and I want to change that. Any song suggestions?

I found this poem but I edited it to fit the situation, the last two parts before the "Well my dear I wish you Happy Birthday once more" I made up myself. I don't know the date of her birthday yet, but should know tomorrow. I have known her for the past year we have worked together. The point im trying to get across is that I would like to go out with her some day. I asked her out a few weeks ago but turned me down because she wants to keep her work life and personal life separate, which I understand. Im just trying to be persistent to show how much I want to be in her life. I plan on writing this on a birthday card.

Happy Birthday Karleena,

Your special day has come by again.

Im sure you had much fun the last time around,

I hope family and happiness is what you found.

Each year [Insert date] is a wonderful day,

As we march forth in our own fun way.

Just hanging around and laughing a lot,

It is truly amazing what we have got.

A friendship like ours is not easy to come by,

Often the intensity of it makes me so high.

Is our beautiful friendship really only a dream?

Sometimes it feels so unreal that I must scream.

Cries of joy and happiness galore,

And that is what I most adore.

Your infectious laughter and zest for life,

Is what keeps me going day after day.

How lucky we are to have found one another,

I couldn't spend so much time with any other.

I will always be there to watch over you,

To keep you safe and happy too.

I know your life is full of stress right now.

I see reasons why and I wonder, how?

How your able to handle all this stress.

I know you do all this to reach success.

But sometimes you need someone there to caress you.

And when you need someone to listen to you and support you,

I'll be that person who will be there to suppress your sadness.

More or less what im trying to say is, when your ready. Ill be waiting.

Well my dear I wish you Happy Birthday once more,

An abundance of good wishes for you are in store.

A new year filled with lots of happiness and laughter,

And only the very best for you from here on after.

I was thinking of meeting her at the mall as a first date because we can walk around and get to know each other better then maybe grab a bite to eat. Is this a good place for the first date?

I want to play the song Wanted by Hunter Hayes after we get a bite to eat, I think that this song sums up the way I feel about her. I think it would provide for a good ending. Good or bad idea?

So there is this girl that I work with, we get along and talk all the time at work. Recently there was a school dance at her school (we go to different schools) but never really thought of it as anything. So a few days ago she asked one of our co-workers to go to the dance with her, he said no (because he has a girlfriend but this part is irrelevant) So this past Friday I heard her talking about how she would be going to this dance by herself and I wondered if I should ask if she still needed anyone. So I did and she sounded like she was about to cry while trying to respond (not in a bad way) Later that night I got this text from her, NOTE: I never had her number until that night she got my number from someone.

"Thanks for offering to take me to the dance... it was really sweet of you and I would have definitely gone with you if I didnt have to have a guest sheet... thank you) Now I never took into affect that I needed a guest sheet but I guess in a way I wanted this to happen. I then replied:

" It was the least I could have done. I just felt like you don't deserve to be shot down a few days before your dance"

Her response:

"Aww thank you your legit like the sweetest guy ever :) )

From this day it seems she is talking to me more now than ever, like today we talked for a good 3 hours. While working of course. Im not really sure where to take it from here? Any help would be appreciated.

So there is this girl that I work with, we have worked together for the past year and have talked for maybe 4 or 5 months. Sometimes I feel like she talks to me the most when im working also she remembers the little things that I say. Compared to the other 2 guys we work with, she usually would rather and likes to work with me. Now we work in a fast food restaurant which requires no touching of another person, but she will sometimes come up and put her hand on my arm as she walks past, or she will "accidentally" bump into me. (She is 17, im 18. By the way) She has a boyfriend, or so she says. (he is 15, Why him? I don't know!) But never really brings him up, I have never heard her talk about him. The thing that I am confused about is I can't tell if she wants to be with me, I don't know if im just taking it all the wrong way or not. Im not really sure how to act upon this, I don't want to make our friendship feel weird if I end up asking her out when she was actually just being playful. I have never really felt like this towards anyone else. What do you guys think I should do? Any input is appreciated! Thank you!

And no this is not a joke!