Rmalko

Here is the situation - I have been with my wife for 10 years and married for 7. She had an 8 year old daughter when we met. The daughter and I never really liked each other and don't have much to do with each other. My wife and I now have a 6 year old son and her daughter is now a senior in HS. Her daughter never has anything to do with any of us; never eats with us, never goes any where with us etc. She uses emotional blackmail on my wife to get what she wants. If she doesn't get her way she threatens to hurt herself by cutting and burning. My wife will not say no to her and lets her do what she wants. This girl now has a boyfriend and every day after school, days off, weekends etc they are in her bed. I told them to go someplace else and not use the house as a cheap hotel. My wife allows it and it has caused a major fight between us. I am I crazy for not wanting the two to be in bed all the time having sex?

I am so bored with my wife. We have a 5 year old son and have been married 6 years. The sex is about 2 times a month and I am going crazy. If I try to have sex with her during the week she says that she does not enjoy it and wants to do it on Sunday eve only. Well, plenty of things come up and there is zero or very little sex on Sunday. Why can't she be more spontaneous? Also, she never initiates anything sexual. On top of all this bullsh**t, if we get in an aurguement she won't talk to me for one or two weeks. I have tried to talk to her after a day or two but she says she does not want to talk. The aurguments are over very small and stupid things. I have known plenty of women and been in enough relationships to know she is not normal. I am very tempted to have a fling to keep myself from going nuts. I would leave her but my son is important to me. She is not very supportive and has criticized me more than anyone I have ever know put together. Any suggestions?