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Yesterday I was checking one of our credit cards and saw that my husband spent 300 bucks at a massage parlor, anyways I decided to go and find out exactly what it was, I got there and talked to somebody they told me they offer massage with happy ending for men and women etc. I got home and confronted my husband he admitted it but says that he didn't know what it was he claims that he found out once he was there and admitted to have gotten a BJ but says that he doesn't consider that as cheating since it wasn't premeditated and he was basically surprised. I don't know if I believe him. What do you guys think?

My best friend Tammy has been having an affair with a guy she works with I learned about it over a month ago. Two weeks ago my husband over-heard our conversation when I was telling her that she needed to stop. Anyways. He started asking me and pressuring me so I had to tell him. Now he doesn't want me to go anywhere with her. I tell him that he has to trust me I'd never be capable to cheat on him I love him too much and I have so much self respect. I don't know what's wrong with my friend. Today my husband left the house angry very early and hasn't been back yet and before he left he told me that he will only be back once I promise him that I won't hang out with my friend anymore and he also said that he expects that when I make myu mind it's not too late. She's my best friend we have been friends since we were little girls. How do I make my hubby understand that her cheating is her business and won't effect our marriage at all?

This guy is very arroagant and selfish plus he's a jerk. He's cheating on his wife and he's always going out to strip clubs and fuccking everything he can. I don't want my husband hanging out with him anymore but he won't listen. My husband is a good man and a great father and husband but I'm scared that his idiot of friend talks him into cheating on me.