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I know this is gonna sound like I'm crazy but ever since I was young I have had some random things (about 9 or10) happen but now I'm older they seem to be getting more and more frequent (I'm 27 now)

If I have a dream about something happening then within the next week or so it will happen if its about a family member/friend it will happen to that person if it's someone i don't know I hear about it it the news (sometimes it's things that are gonna happen an sometimes it's about things from the past that I never knew about)

I also whenever I get a sharp pain in my left side something bad always happens toy brother (appendix burst, complication when he had an operation etc)

An sometimes just out of nowhere I get a guy feeling like something really bad is going to happen an it always does

Sometimes it's just silly random stuff like talking about someone I haven't seen in a while will turn up out of the blue or I'll be thinking about a movie I've not seen in a while then an advert on TV will come on

I know all this sounds really crazy and weird but only one person has ever believed my an that's my older sister who believe that all these things aren't just random coincidences

Does this or has this ever happened to anyone else

Every time I try to walk down the streets my son always plays up

He's ok for a few min but then he starts kicking off dragging and throwing himself on the floor and he always seems to do it as we're crossing the road and thinks its funny to just drop to the floor an as we're right in the middle of the road

It's become really embarrassing now I've literally had to drag him across roads because he drops to the floor and I'm trying to cross us both over before the cars start going again I've tried shouting and talking to him but it doesn't work

He's also started misbehaving at home being cheeky (telling people to shut up an get out etc....) an refuses to listen and just misbehaves

When he's good he's really good but when he's naughty he's just awfull and hard to handle and has even started playing up at school he's has 3 incident forms for pushing, hitting and throwing things

I'm a single mum so I'm having to deal with this alone my parents have him overnight on a Saturday to give me a little brake but sometimes even my parents get annoyed if he plays up there (I've had to go an get him twice because of he was being naughty)

He has a really short fuse an staps at the littlest things

Any suggestions on how I can get him out of this this is going way past toddler tantrums now and I'm getting worried he's gonna really hurt himself aswell as other people

Doctor says he has sighns autism but he's to young to be tested. I also keep his routine the same because the slightest chage and he gets really agressive

Me and my friend Julie both have 3 year olds (I have son she has daughter) and she was telling me that she only ever makes either ready made means or something frozen she can quickly cook in the oven and 2 times a weeks she orders takeaway Because she never has the time to cook and even if she did she doesn't want to spend her whole time in the kitchen, she doesn't work or go collage so she's at home all day

Personally I prefer cooking from scratch and using fresh veg,meat etc and even though I work all day I actually enjoy comming home from work and picking my son up from pre school. I get that nowadays a lot of people have very hectic lives and can't find time to cook from scratch but isn't it unhealthy to only ever give your child ready meals? Like I said before Julie is at home all day so she has plenty of time to cook

I mentioned to her about it being unhealthy but she just jokes and says she's not a step ford wife (what ever that means) and she doesn't want to be one of those mothers who doesn't nothing but cook and clean all day

My son is 3 and has always been fine with milk (he had formular milk as a baby)

And now he's older he has normal milk and other dairy

But for the past month everytime I give him milk he gets diareah really badly at 1st I thought he had an upset stomach or it was the milk but I checked the milk and it was fine and he was running around playing (which he never doesnt if he is t feeling good)

I haven't change milk brands and I always check the date but it still giving diareah

Its not even mins or hrs after giving it him its literally seconds of him drinking it. Someone told me that its a sighn of being lactose intolerance which can happen any time. Has anyone else had this problem? If so what do I do?

Also if it is lactose I tolerance any suggestions what I can give him instead because I can't see not giving him any milk,cheese etc would be healthy for him.

I have a friend I'm following on twitter an set up notification so I know when she's tweeting but since last night my notifications stopped coming up an her tweets are not showing on my timeline she still on my rolling list an I'm on her followers I can see her tweets if I go to her profile and when she mentions me she is seeing my replays, mentions an tweets

Her mentions to me show on her timeline but any tweets she sends that rant mentioning me don't show on mine anyone know why this is?

I use twitter on my phone never on my pc

They have 8months son but does anybody know what they named him?

My best friend Beth (16) has 5 older brothers I used to think it was really cool because I'm an only child an would have loved to have 5 big brothers an they have always been close an very protective of her (she is the youngest and only girl) Anyway the other day I stayed over at her house an her brothers an mum were there (they all live together their dad died few years back) at 1st it just seemed like a nice close family but during the day I started noticing really weird things with her an her brother Freddie 22 (he's the 2nd oldest He seemed really flirty with her an cuddling her every chance he could an kissing her on the Cheek (a lot) an saying how pretty she looked and calling her sweets Her other brothers were always giving her hugs an treating her like a princess an so did her mum but it seemed like Freddie was doing it a lot more especially when he thought no one was looking an she seemed really flirty with him. what was even weird was about 2am i saw her sneaking out of her room an go into freddie's an i heard the door lock about 10am everybody got up an i saw her an freddie coming out of the bedroom i asked her where she went last night an she said she was watching a movie with freddie an fell asleep (i didn't hear any tv just the door lock an people whispering an moving around) the rest of them didn't seem that bothered like this happens all the time. the only person who looked abit confused was jace (he's the oldest out of all the siblings) but after she said they just fell asleep watching tv he seem to accept her answer. i left it at that but when i went to go to get my stuff awhile later i heard giggling an when i looked i saw Beth an Freddie in the Bathroom standing really close an she had her hand on his chest (in a intimet way)an it looked like he was kissing her neck!! they didn't see me so i didn't say anything about it

i told a friend about what happened but didn't say anything about what i saw in the bathroom. she thinks that it normal if there are 5 brothers an one sister that all the men will be protective an treat her like a princess especially since Beth in the youngest in the house. i could see clearly that all her brothers love her an are protective of her but its just the whole thing with fredie that i find suspisious

their flirty

kiss an cuddle every time they think nobodies is looking

she sneaks into his bed when everybody is sleeping

they spend alot of time alone together (they always have different reasons)

also i have known them for years an neither of them have ever had a relationship with anyone

and he's always buying her stuff an taking her places

am i reading more into this or could i be right thinking something more is going on i want to talk to her about but i have no idea what to say or how to approach the subject I can hardly just come out an say are you screwing your brother if im right then that means freddie could have been abusing Beth for years an nobody has known anything an coul even get pregnant by freddie but if im wrong and they are just close siblings and friends they she is gonna think im the sickest weirdo

She 16 an legal age to concent to sex an has never seen scared or threatend by him)but doesn't make it right what her an Freddie are doing

i cant say anything to her family because her mother doesnt belive anything bad about her kids (even when 1 of the was arrested for drug dealing) she thinks her kids are perfect angles and jace may come across as sweet an kind but his an the rest of her brother have been known to go phyco when they hear any male has been hanging around with best

Beth has the same parents as all her brothers which means shee is 100% blood related to all her siblings

My best friend Beth (16) has 5 older brothers I used to think it was really cool because I'm an only child an would have loved to have 5 big brothers an they have always been close an very protective of her (she is the youngest and only girl) Anyway the other day I stayed over at her house an her brothers an mum were there (they all live together their dad died few years back) at 1st it just seemed like a nice close family but during the day I started noticing really weird things with her an her brother Freddie 22 (he's the 2nd oldest He seemed really flirty with her an cuddling her every chance he could an kissing her on the Cheek (a lot) an saying how pretty she looked and calling her sweets Her other brothers were always giving her hugs an treating her like a princess an so did her mum but it seemed like Freddie was doing it a lot more especially when he thought no one was looking an she seemed really flirty with him. what was even weird was about 2am i saw her sneaking out of her room an go into freddie's an i heard the door lock about 10am everybody got up an i saw her an freddie coming out of the bedroom i asked her where she went last night an she said she was watching a movie with freddie an fell asleep (i didn't hear any tv just the door lock an people whispering an moving around) the rest of them didn't seem that bothered like this happens all the time. the only person who looked abit confused was jace (he's the oldest out of all the siblings) but after she said they just fell asleep watching tv he seem to accept her answer. i left it at that but when i went to go to get my stuff awhile later i heard giggling an when i looked i saw Beth an Freddie in the Bathroom standing really close an she had her hand on his chest (in a intimet way)an it looked like he was kissing her neck!! they didn't see me so i didn't say anything about it

i told a friend about what happened but didn't say anything about what i saw in the bathroom. she thinks that it normal if there are 5 brothers an one sister that all the men will be protective an treat her like a princess especially since Beth in the youngest in the house. i could see clearly that all her brothers love her an are protective of her but its just the whole thing with fredie that i find suspisious

their flirty

kiss an cuddle every time they think nobodies is looking

she sneaks into his bed when everybody is sleeping

they spend alot of time alone together (they always have different reasons)

also i have known them for years an neither of them have ever had a relationship with anyone

and he's always buying her stuff an taking her places

am i reading more into this or could i be right thinking something more is going on i want to talk to her about but i have no idea what to say or how to approach the subject I can hardly just come out an say are you screwing your brother if im right then that means freddie could have been abusing Beth for years an nobody has known anything an coul even get pregnant by freddie but if im wrong and they are just close siblings and friends they she is gonna think im the sickest weirdo

She 16 an legal age to concent to sex an has never seen scared or threatend by him)but doesn't make it right what her an Freddie are doing

i cant say anything to her family because her mother doesnt belive anything bad about her kids (even when 1 of the was arrested for drug dealing) she thinks her kids are perfect angles and jace may come across as sweet an kind but his an the rest of her brother have been known to go phyco when they hear any male has been hanging around with best

Beth has the same parents as all her brothers which means shee is 100% blood related to all her siblings

When I was kid we were always playing out on bikes, playing hopscotch, ball games etc.... but now even on weekends and summer holidays you never see little kids playing out you see them going school and comming home that's it

I know times have changed but all kids ever do now in their free time is sit playing computer games even on hot sunny days they never wanna play out in sunny days we were never indoors except when are parents would say its time to come in

You see young kids about 11/12 with the latest smart phones

Even their attitude is awful you see kids being mouthy with shop owners and random people in the street even to police officers and swearing at their parents which when I was a kid would have got you a beating and grounded (kids don't noticed if their grounded these days so don't see it as a punishment)

I know times have changed I'm only 25 but feel so old when me and my friends talk about the (good old days)

My friends little sister thinks we're weird because we only give a kids (their 3) home cooked meals. And make sure their outside playing (we're there with them) as much as possible she says we need to get with the times not raise them like we're in "granma times" as she calls it (my friends sister is 12)

What do you think? Do you prefer things the way they are today or would you want things back how it was when you were a kid?

2 months ago my friend leanne (25) met this guy Kaz (35) they started dating from day 1 and after just one week she moved in with him and his 3 brothers (kaz is the youngest of the brothers) she comes from a good family and is a sweet girl him on the other hand dosnt him and his brothers are very gothic and into heavy metal and their mum (was with their dad since she was 15)left when they were kids (his dad was beating her) and he beat the crap out of kaz and his brothers with a cane if one of them got bad grades even now their adults and cage fighters if 1 loses a match their dad beats the crap out of all of them and they just stand there and take it like because they think it normal and they deserved it (he has some kinda hold on over them) Kaz has got a short temper and is very jealous and possesive he wont even allow his dad in the same room as her incase she get "tainted" by him being near her his brother said Kaz would never harm leanne an acts that way beacuse he loves her and wants to take care an protect her an doesnt see the problem im really worried kaz has a short temper and im scared he will do the same things to her that his dad did to his mum i know leanne loves kaz and i do believe kaz loves leanne but their is a differance between love and obsession kaz even beat up a friend of mine an leannes (to the point that the guy ended up in hostpital) beause heard him say she was hot Kaz has been around violance and aggression his whole life an never had a girlfriend how can i convince her to leave him? she knows about how his dad is with kaz an his brothers an has seen him when he attacked our friend but she defended kaz Kaz older brother says he act that way because his of what his dad is like with them and because his their mum left when kaz was 5 he's scared leanne will abandon him and he is just taking care of her and protecting her

i get Kaz is in love with her but their is a differnants between loving and caring for someone and being obsessed and also he cant really use his mum leaving as an excuse the attack your girlfriend male friends

Kaz and his brothers are bullies and have really bad attitudes Leanne is a really sweet girl and am scared that something bad will happend at the moment he isnt being aggressive with her infact he treats her like a princess i heard kaz tell his brother he would kill himself before allowing leanne to get hurt an that scaring me even more

i never saw what happend with his mum and dad but kaz's older brother told me and their friends even admitted seeing them get beat as kids and their friends who are also cage fighter have seen Kaz's dad beating Kaz and his brother with canes when they have lost matches so i know its not just rumors Kaz really is from a violent background i cant see why leanne cant see that she shouldnt be with Kaz he and his family are way to dangerous to be around she 25 and he is 35 and is very posessive and dominating and with all the aggression an violance around that family is something she really doesnt need to be around i try talking to her about it and she just says that the beating their dad gives them is only after their matches if one of the loses she said it hurts her when she she all the cuts and bruises on Kaz's back (after their dad has beaten the with a cane) kaz and his brothers say its just punishment for failing she has always been a sweet and caring person i dont get why she cant see this Kaz is wrong for

kaz dad doesnt live with them he lives few streets away an is around 3 times a week when they have cage fight matches (their dad is the manager)

2 months ago my friend leanne (25) met this guy Kaz (35) they started dating from day 1 and after just one week she moved in with him and his 3 brothers (kaz is the youngest of the brothers) she comes from a good family and is a sweet girl him on the other hand dosnt him and his brothers are very gothic and into heavy metal and their mum (was with their dad since she was 15)left when they were kids (his dad was beating her) and he beat the crap out of kaz and his brothers with a cane if one of them got bad grades even now their adults and cage fighters if 1 loses a match their dad beats the crap out of all of them and they just stand there and take it like because they think it normal and they deserved it (he has some kinda hold on over them) Kaz has got a short temper and is very jealous and possesive he wont even allow his dad in the same room as her incase she get "tainted" by him being near her his brother said Kaz would never harm leanne an acts that way beacuse he loves her and wants to take care an protect her an doesnt see the problem im really worried kaz has a short temper and im scared he will do the same things to her that his dad did to his mum i know leanne loves kaz and i do believe kaz loves leanne but their is a differance between love and obsession kaz even beat up a friend of mine an leannes (to the point that the guy ended up in hostpital) beause heard him say she was hot Kaz has been around violance and aggression his whole life an never had a girlfriend how can i convince her to leave him? she knows about how his dad is with kaz an his brothers an has seen him when he attacked our friend but she defended kaz Kaz older brother says he act that way because his of what his dad is like with them and because his their mum left when kaz was 5 he's scared leanne will abandon him and he is just taking care of her and protecting her

i get Kaz is in love with her but their is a differnants between loving and caring for someone and being obsessed and also he cant really use his mum leaving as an excuse the attack your girlfriend male friends

Kaz and his brothers are bullies and have really bad attitudes Leanne is a really sweet girl and am scared that something bad will happend at the moment he isnt being aggressive with her infact he treats her like a princess i heard kaz tell his brother he would kill himself before allowing leanne to get hurt an that scaring me even more

i never saw what happend with his mum and dad but kaz's older brother told me and their friends even admitted seeing them get beat as kids and their friends who are also cage fighter have seen Kaz's dad beating Kaz and his brother with canes when they have lost matches so i know its not just rumors Kaz really is from a violent background i cant see why leanne cant see that she shouldnt be with Kaz he and his family are way to dangerous to be around she 25 and he is 35 and is very posessive and dominating and with all the aggression an violance around that family is something she really doesnt need to be around i try talking to her about it and she just says that the beating their dad gives them is only after their matches if one of the loses she said it hurts her when she she all the cuts and bruises on Kaz's back (after their dad has beaten the with a cane) kaz and his brothers say its just punishment for failing she has always been a sweet and caring person i dont get why she cant see this Kaz is wrong for

kaz dad doesnt live with them he lives few streets away an is around 3 times a week when they have cage fight matches (their dad is the manager)

i recently at a friends house and we were all having some drinks ( i haven't seen my friends for about a year because i moved away for a job i had at the time)and having fun only had the one because im not much of a drinker but my friends (8 of them all together) were knocking shots back and were getting really wasted one of the girl said we should play spin the bottle (we're all in are 20s so it was kind of silly) but they were all really drunk and thought it was fun idea as they play it all the time i have never really been found of this game so i sat back at the end of the room (they made a few jokes but nothing nasty their really nice) some of them are in fact couples Leanne/darren and katy/jake and it was really weird because they were making out with other people in front of each other then after a LOT more drinks someone shouted lets play spin the rapist" i thought it was a joke until everyone was cheering saying it was a great idea

ive never heard of this game before but apparently the rules are the girl in 1 circle guys in the other both sides spin the bottle then the girl and guy who the bottle lands on have to go in a closet and the guy gets to do whatever they want for 7mins they started playing (i was still in the corner) and the bottles landed on leanne and jake and they got dragged into closet they both came out (both laughing and when they were ask how far they when jake said "home run" and everyone was laughing and even Katy and darren (leanne is with darren and jake is with katy) everyone sat down to spin again but by this point i felt really uncomfortable with what was going on

the next day i got a call off katy asking why i left when i told her she said i was being stupid and i told her how i felt and even pointed out about leanne and jake and she got all defensive saying that its wasn't cheating because they were playing spin the rapist and that's the rules and apparently they all play this game all the time after that we kinda got in an argument and she was saying some pretty nasty things to me and i got really mad and said that she was disgusting playing that game and the fact that she thinks its ok to joke and play a game which ends up with you friend being raped in the next room as you by your boyfriend (which is pretty much was what jake did) shows who disgusting she is she put the phone down after that and has been really bitchy with me since and everybody else just ignores her when she says nasty things to me these people have been my best friends for years and i really don't want to stop hanging out with them because of this one night and because of how katy is acting towards me

i know if i talk to her and apologize for what i said (to be fair i did call jake a rapist)things will be ok between us but if i do that then its like im saying i thinks its ok that they all play a game called spin then rapist

i don't know what to do anymore should i just tell her im sorry or just wait until katy decides to let it go?

also what i your thoughts on this whole game they've been playing? (they call it spin the rapist) am i being over the top about this or right to believe its wrong?

if i hang out with them and they get drunk and play it again i know they wont force me to get involved as they aren't really nasty people but then again ive never known them to play games like that they say its just abit of fun but to me its a very serious issue an their all putting themself and eachother in danger (it only take one girl to say no and for one guy to get really agressive what their doing is dangerous n they cant even see it its like theyve all taking stupid pills while i was away what kinda of person/people would make up a game called spin the rapist?

i recently at a friends house and we were all having some drinks ( i haven't seen my friends for about a year because i moved away for a job i had at the time)and having fun only had the one because im not much of a drinker but my friends (8 of them all together) were knocking shots back and were getting really wasted one of the girl said we should play spin the bottle (we're all in are 20s so it was kind of silly) but they were all really drunk and thought it was fun idea as they play it all the time i have never really been found of this game so i sat back at the end of the room (they made a few jokes but nothing nasty their really nice) some of them are in fact couples Leanne/darren and katy/jake and it was really weird because they were making out with other people in front of each other then after a LOT more drinks someone shouted lets play spin the rapist" i thought it was a joke until everyone was cheering saying it was a great idea

ive never heard of this game before but apparently the rules are the girl in 1 circle guys in the other both sides spin the bottle then the girl and guy who the bottle lands on have to go in a closet and the guy gets to do whatever they want for 7mins they started playing (i was still in the corner) and the bottles landed on leanne and jake and they got dragged into closet they both came out (both laughing and when they were ask how far they when jake said "home run" and everyone was laughing and even Katy and darren (leanne is with darren and jake is with katy) everyone sat down to spin again but by this point i felt really uncomfortable with what was going on

the next day i got a call off katy asking why i left when i told her she said i was being stupid and i told her how i felt and even pointed out about leanne and jake and she got all defensive saying that its wasn't cheating because they were playing spin the rapist and that's the rules and apparently they all play this game all the time after that we kinda got in an argument and she was saying some pretty nasty things to me and i got really mad and said that she was disgusting playing that game and the fact that she thinks its ok to joke and play a game which ends up with you friend being raped in the next room as you by your boyfriend (which is pretty much was what jake did) shows who disgusting she is she put the phone down after that and has been really bitchy with me since and everybody else just ignores her when she says nasty things to me these people have been my best friends for years and i really don't want to stop hanging out with them because of this one night and because of how katy is acting towards me

i know if i talk to her and apologize for what i said things will be ok between us but if i do that then its like im saying i thinks its ok that they all play a game called spin then rapist

i don't know what to do anymore should i just tell her im sorry or just wait until katy decides to let it go?

also what i your thoughts on this whole game they've been playing? (they call it spin the rapist) am i being over the top about this or right to believe its wrong?

if i hang out with them and they get drunk and play it again i know they wont force me to get involved as they aren't really nasty people but then again ive never known them to play games like that they say its just abit of fun but to me its a very serious issue an their all putting themself and eachother in danger (it only take one girl to say no and for one guy to get really agressive what their doing is dangerous n they cant even see it its like theyve all taking stupid pills while i was away

i recently at a friends house and we were all having some drinks ( i haven't seen my friends for about a year because i moved away for a job i had at the time)and having fun only had the one because im not much of a drinker but my friends (8 of them all together) were knocking shots back and were getting really wasted one of the girl said we should play spin the bottle (we're all in are 20s so it was kind of silly) but they were all really drunk and thought it was fun idea as they play it all the time i have never really been found of this game so i sat back at the end of the room (they made a few jokes but nothing nasty their really nice) some of them are in fact couples Leanne/darren and katy/jake and it was really weird because they were making out with other people in front of each other then after a LOT more drinks someone shouted lets play spin the rapist" i thought it was a joke until everyone was cheering saying it was a great idea

ive never heard of this game before but apparently the rules are the girl in 1 circle guys in the other both sides spin the bottle then the girl and guy who the bottle lands on have to go in a closet and the guy gets to do whatever they want for 7mins they started playing (i was still in the corner) and the bottles landed on leanne and jake and they got dragged into closet they both came out (both laughing and when they were ask how far they when jake said "home run" and everyone was laughing and even Katy and darren (leanne is with darren and jake is with katy) everyone sat down to spin again but by this point i felt really uncomfortable with what was going on

the next day i got a call off katy asking why i left when i told her she said i was being stupid and i told her how i felt and even pointed out about leanne and jake and she got all defensive saying that its wasn't cheating because they were playing spin the rapist and that's the rules and apparently they all play this game all the time after that we kinda got in an argument and she was saying some pretty nasty things to me and i got really mad and said that she was disgusting playing that game and the fact that she thinks its ok to joke and play a game which ends up with you friend being raped in the next room as you by your boyfriend (which is pretty much was what jake did) shows who disgusting she is she put the phone down after that and has been really bitchy with me since and everybody else just ignores her when she says nasty things to me these people have been my best friends for years and i really don't want to stop hanging out with them because of this one night and because of how katy is acting towards me

i know if i talk to her and apologize for what i said things will be ok between us but if i do that then its like im saying i thinks its ok that they all play a game called spin then rapist

i don't know what to do anymore should i just tell her im sorry or just wait until katy decides to let it go?

also what i your thoughts on this whole game they've been playing? (they call it spin the rapist) am i being over the top about this or right to believe its wrong?

if i hang out with them and they get drunk and play it again i know they wont force me to get involved as they aren't really nasty people but then again ive never known them to play games like that they say its just abit of fun but to me its a very serious issue an their all putting themself and eachother in danger (it only take one girl to say no and for one guy to get really agressive what their doing is dangerous n they cant even see it its like theyve all taking stupid pills while i was away

i recently at a friends house and we were all having some drinks ( i haven't seen my friends for about a year because i moved away for a job i had at the time)and having fun only had the one because im not much of a drinker but my friends (8 of them all together) were knocking shots back and were getting really wasted one of the girl said we should play spin the bottle (we're all in are 20s so it was kind of silly) but they were all really drunk and thought it was fun idea as they play it all the time i have never really been found of this game so i sat back at the end of the room (they made a few jokes but nothing nasty their really nice)

some of them are in fact couples Leanne/darren and katy/jake and it was really weird because they were making out with other people in front of each other then after a LOT more drinks someone shouted lets play spin the rapist" i thought it was a joke until everyone was cheering saying it was a great idea

ive never heard of this game before but apparently the rules are the girl in 1 circle guys in the other both sides spin the bottle then the girl and guy who the bottle lands on have to go in a closet and the guy gets to do whatever they want for 7mins

they started playing (i was still in the corner) and the bottles landed on leanne and jake and they got dragged into closet they both came out (both laughing and when they were ask how far they when jake said "home run" and everyone was laughing and even Katy and darren (leanne is with darren and jake is with katy) everyone sat down to spin again but by this point i felt really uncomfortable with what was going on

the next day i got a call off katy asking why i left when i told her she said i was being stupid and i told her how i felt and even pointed out about leanne and jake and she got all defensive saying that its wasn't cheating because they were playing spin the rapist and that's the rules and apparently they all play this game all the time

after that we kinda got in an argument and she was saying some pretty nasty things to me and i got really mad and said that she was disgusting playing that game and the fact that she thinks its ok to joke and play a game which ends up with you friend being raped in the next room as you by your boyfriend (which is pretty much was what jake did) shows who disgusting she is

she put the phone down after that and has been really bitchy with me since and everybody else just ignores her when she says nasty things to me

these people have been my best friends for years and i really don't want to stop hanging out with them because of this one night and because of how katy is acting towards me

i know if i talk to her and apologize for what i said things will be ok between us but if i do that then its like im saying i thinks its ok that they all play a game called spin then rapist

i don't know what to do anymore should i just tell her im sorry or just wait until katy decides to let it go?

also what i your thoughts on this whole game they've been playing? am i being over the top about this or right to believe its wrong?

if i hang out with them and they get drunk and play it again i know they wont force me to get involved as they aren't really nasty people but then again ive never known them to play games like that

i recently at a friends house and we were all having some drinks ( i haven't seen my friends for about a year because i moved away for a job i had at the time)and having fun only had the one because im not much of a drinker but my friends (8 of them all together) were knocking shots back and were getting really wasted one of the girl said we should play spin the bottle (we're all in are 20s so it was kind of silly) but they were all really drunk and thought it was fun idea as they play it all the time i have never really been found of this game so i sat back at the end of the room (they made a few jokes but nothing nasty their really nice)

some of them are in fact couples Leanne/darren and katy/jake and it was really weird because they were making out with other people in front of each other then after a LOT more drinks someone shouted lets play spin the rapist" i thought it was a joke until everyone was cheering saying it was a great idea

ive never heard of this game before but apparently the rules are the girl in 1 circle guys in the other both sides spin the bottle then the girl and guy who the bottle lands on have to go in a closet and the guy gets to do whatever they want for 7mins

they started playing (i was still in the corner) and the bottles landed on leanne and jake and they got dragged into closet they both came out (both laughing and when they were ask how far they when jake said "home run" and everyone was laughing and even Katy and darren (leanne is with darren and jake is with katy) everyone sat down to spin again but by this point i felt really uncomfortable with what was going on

the next day i got a call off katy asking why i left when i told her she said i was being stupid and i told her how i felt and even pointed out about leanne and jake and she got all defensive saying that its wasn't cheating because they were playing spin the rapist and that's the rules and apparently they all play this game all the time

after that we kinda got in an argument and she was saying some pretty nasty things to me and i got really mad and said that she was disgusting playing that game and the fact that she thinks its ok to joke and play a game which ends up with you friend being raped in the next room as you by your boyfriend (which is pretty much was what jake did) shows who disgusting she is

she put the phone down after that and has been really bitchy with me since and everybody else just ignores her when she says nasty things to me

these people have been my best friends for years and i really don't want to stop hanging out with them because of this one night and because of how katy is acting towards me

i know if i talk to her and apologize for what i said things will be ok between us but if i do that then its like im saying i thinks its ok that they all play a game called spin then rapist

i don't know what to do anymore should i just tell her im sorry or just wait until katy decides to let it go?

also what i your thoughts on this whole game they've been playing? am i being over the top about this or right to believe its wrong?

if i hang out with them and they get drunk and play it again i know they wont force me to get involved as they aren't really nasty people but then again ive never known them to play games like that

My son is 2 (3 in June) and since he was about 1 he has been banging his head on of thing an hits himself in the face he started doing in really softly on sofa bed etc.. And his health visitor put it down to him doing it to get a reaction and to ignore it which I tried and it didn't work now he is getting worse when he is doing it he is banging his head on walls the floor baby gates etc.... And really smacking himself and the screaming because it hurts

I've tried to ignore it and move him away from things but he just runs off to find something else to bang his head on sometimes it has got so bad I've had to actually hold his down or strap him in his buggy just to stop him hurting himself it got so bad a few months ago I had to call and ambulance and take him to hostpital he because he just woke up and was throwing himself about an slamming his head on things

I've spoke to the doctor and she just puts it down to being a typical toddler and my health visitor just says she will have to access him (but never does) I keep trying to get help for him but when ever I speak to the doctor or health visitor it feels like I'm just wasting my time an talking to myself

I'm really worried about him he is really hurting himself and I don't know what to do anymore please help

I know this girl I wouldn't say we're friends she had her baby a 2weeks after me (are babys are nearly 3) and she can be really sweet only problem I have with her is she makes up things about her son that are pretty obvious lies like

He could sit up all by himself at 2wks old

Walking and talking at 6months (nobody ever saw him walk or him him he was always as less in a buggy)

And reading an doing maths at 1yr (he taught himself acording to this girl)

There are so many more but my fav one was that he taught himself to use the toilet apparently he just woke up one morning took his nappy off and started using the toilet all by himself

I get that some people exaggerate an try an make themself an their baby look great but what's the point? All she has done is make herself look stupid by making up stupid and pointless lies

I admit I have from time to time bragged about my son (all mothers have) but would never make things up lying only makes you look stupid when the truth come out

Does anyone else get annoyed when mothers exaggerate about what their kids can do or try an make out like their worlds best mother?

No mother and no child is perfect

Has anyone else ever heard or believe in this's saying

My cousin an his girfriend's baby is due in about 3weeeks

Yesterday i had a dream my cousin called me up crying because are uncle died

Last night I had a dream that a wrestler an the queen died (I know pretty random dream)

Anyone else think it could be sign?

me an my friend took are children (my son 3 her daughter 2) to stay and play they were both happy playing together like all the others excepts for 2 kids

these 2 boys (who were alot bigger than the rest of the kids an were about 4/5 were going around hitting all the others an the 2 mothers of the boys just sat there ignoring it a carrying on chatting in the corner other mother had tried speaking to the two mothers nicley but they still didnt stop their kids or say anything to them

the boys then came over an hit my son an my friends daughter my friends daughter was sobbing her heart out my son got up an hit both of the boys (pretty hard) then ran an gave my friends daughter a cuddle then cuddled me

at this point the mothers of the 2 boys FINALY got up but only to tell me what my son had done an told me I should tell him off my reply was "its their own fault for hitting them in the first place"

the mother if one of the boys then started going on saying that it was wrong of ME to allow my son to hit people an an cuddling him for it is like teaching him to be a bully!!!

i told I didn't tell my son to hit them but if he hadn't just gone an hit them back I would have told him to the 2 mothers then took the boys an stormed off

peronaly I don't think I was in the wrong or teaching my son bullying is ok. these 2 boys were going around hitting all the younger children an their mothers didn't stop them which IS teaching your kids bulling

all my son did was stick up for himself an his friend which I'm proud of him for doing

what are your thoughts?