Coye

The man I married lies, cheats, doesn't know how to show affection or love. He only thinks about his own needs, wants and desires. There are two reasons why I haven't left him, one is I can not find a full time job, and the other is when I prayed about leaving him I believe I heard the lord tell me to stay. My husband (I am loosely using that word) he has not been a husband to me since day one. continually says if I am so unhappy I should just leave. Truthfully I would leave if the right opportunity came along, don't think it would be wise to leave one bad situation for another. This is my first marriage and I am so disappointed that I allowed circumstances to force me to make such a bad decision. We have slept in separate rooms from the beginning, there is no intimacy. There is no good in this situation except I have a place to stay. My family don't understand why I stay, and yes I could stay with them. But, that's the same situation I was in that forced me to make this bad decision, so it will not be wise to repeat it. It's just frustrating having to wait for things to change in your favor. I even have a friend, that says I can stay with them but not my things. I don't have enough income to pay for storage. This is a major learning experience, wait on God. To be honest that's why I'm in this position I was tired of waiting on God for a mate.

I'm looking for some suggestions? I'm also looking to increase my education. I have some health issues that cause me to be light headed at times, that's why I'm looking for work that doesn't require lifting.

Besides religious beliefs, what are some reasons you think a person would choose a do not necessitate option?

OR DO YOU LEAVE IT OUT IN THE CABINET? MY HUSBAND IS STRANGE HE DOESN'T LIKE ANYTHING COLD BUT HIS DRINKS.

other side and having an encounter with God. I have heard stories, some ppl don't believe. Do you believe in heaven? I don't believe there is enough room for everyone that God accepts into heaven. God talks about heaven on earth? What are the qualifications for being saved from being sent to hell?

I have so out grown traditions and therefore don't like being ritualistic - doing the same thing over and over and over just because this is what has always been done.

Do you believe in spiritual warefare?

In order to have the life that you desire? I've always tried to be true to myself yet have not obtained the life that I have desired. How do I make right decisions that produce right results? What is the formula for making the right decisions in life that will produce right results? Is it true you need to hang around the people who have the things you want in life?

with Love, Life?

was a lying cheating piece of ****, only married for one year and three months. I can't find a full time job to support myself. There is nothing right about this marriage, yet I have no where to go. Any positive suggestions?

What happened to honesty, morals, decency and commitment? We should go back to the days when there was serious consequences for cheaters like to be stoned to death. I doubt that men would be so quick to disrespect there mate.

I have only been married for one year and three months, and my husband has done alot of foul stuff. Like had a women in the house in the bed, drugs, physically and mentally abusive. He is a very unhappy person who try's to blame me for his unhappiness. He refuses to get help for his issues, so he just watches tv all day (he is disabled) and he is upset that i'm not attracted to him. We have slept apart and have not been Intimate for the entire marriage. The only reason that we know of as to why we are still together, is the spiritual commitment to God. I have no respect for this man, an by his actions believe he doesn't know how to love or respect him self. This is my first marriage and his second one, we don't have any kids together and his kids are grown. It is a pretty sad situation to our family and friends. We have both prayed on it and feel led to stay together even though we do nothing together. How weird is this.

A friend and I were having a conversation about dreams. They refuse to believe that people see colors while dreaming or don't pay attention or remember. Me personally remember seeing colors during my dream state. What about you?

In a marriage when your mate has cheated, lied and can't be trusted among many other bad character traits. The wife has no desire to be with this man, yet feels spiritual committed to the situation. Which mate is responsible for repairing the broken pieces?