Jessie

Growing up my aunts and grandmother was always drinking buttermilk. YUCK! I cook with it. I bake with it. But I would not drink it..........

My favorite topping is the hot peppers. I put them on everything I order from Subway.

I know I'm not wetting the bed but I can not figure out what is happening. Yes, I've asked my doctor and she can't answer me. If I feel the urge to urinate at night I GET UP and go to the bathroom. But for some reason when I am menstrating I wake up in the morning and I'm wet but not with blood. This does not occur during any other time of the month. Only when I'm menstrating. Does this happen to anyone else and can you tell me what the heck is happening????

I have been friends with this guy for a year now. We met on facebook and he lived about 20 minutes away from me so we decided to meet up after talking for a few months. The first time we met he was an hour late so I went home. Eventually I agreed to meet him again and he was an hour late for that meeting. I told him if he wanted to be actual friends and not just FB friends that he'd have to be more respectful of my time. Over the course of a year he has either been late meeting or has given me an excuse as to why he never showed up AT ALL!!! All of them were lame excuses but I don't make friends easily and kept forgiving him. About 3 months ago I had had enough and told him I was sick of wasting my time with him and no longer wanted to be friends. He gave me time to cool off and showed up at my house appologizing and promised he'd try harder and he even got a phone to make life easier for me. Since then he has been consistantly late and when I come to pick him up for "dates" he's never ready and he leaves me sitting there while he showers and gets ready. Today we had a date at 1:00. I showed up at his house and he was unshowered. When he went to get in the shower I left and texted him that I was going home. He called me when he got out of the shower and begged me to come back over. I said I'd meet him somewhere but that I wasn't coming over to his house anymore. He said he'd meet me and at 2:00 he calls and says he's on his way. I told him I was sick to death of him thinking his time was more important than mine and that I thought he'd been a really unreliable friend over the past year. I told him if he ever came to my house EVER AGAIN that I'd call the cops. When I got home I blocked him from calling, writing, texting or FBing me. What would you do?

It's not like I've never had a date over to my house before but I'm just curious what YOU do in preperation for entertaining a date at your place for the first time. I clean my bathroom, vacuum, change my sheets (just in case:) and I make sure I have a full bar.

So what do you do before entertaining for the first time???

Your son brings home a perfectly acceptable girl FINALLY! And you actually like her. After a year of the two "dating" you ask where things are going and he tells you they are only Friends but you know better. He still lives at home and he is always laying in her lap when they are downstairs on the couch watching movies. Which BTW is pretty much all they ever do. While questioning HER about where the relationship is going she lays it on you that they are only friends and that she is otherwise happily married. I said "Why didn't you tell me" and she said "You never asked". WTF?!?! How do I handle this situation. I don't know what to think, say or do.

He constantly makes plans with me only to either be extremely late or to not show up at all. Most recently I invited him over for dinner and he said he'd be over at 8. I went to the store, bought groceries, came home and thoughtfully prepared his favorite meal. 8 came and went, 9 came and went, 10 came and went. Eventually I drank the wine all by myself and went to bed angry. The next day he left me an email. (He didn't even bother trying to call because he KNEW I was going to be upset). The messaage was simple. "Sorry I missed dinner. I came home and laid down for a quick nap and slept through. Why didn't you call and wake me up?" AS IF IT'S MY RESPONSIBILITY!!!! I've had it with his constant tardiness. I wrote him and said "Please don't write or call me anymore. I'm done with your disrespect of my time. I am always rearanging my plans to suit your availability only to be stood up with weak excuses like your phone battery is dead or you were asleep. I don't care if you move back to Kansas at this point!"

We'll have a very small styrofoam cooler in a compact car with limited space and two full grown labs. I plan on buying juice boxes, lunch meat, string cheese and bread and freezing it all the night before. Other than the cooler space everything will need to be stored at room temp. I plan on bringing granola, mixed nuts, pop tarts, beef jerky but any other ideas for not terribly unhealthy foods. We will not be eating ANY fast food during this trip. Thanks for your help.